花镇：性格不合分手如何挽回

　　zaiqingganshenghuozhong，zhengchaoshiyizhongbukebimiandexianxiang。raner，xinggebuhefenshouruhewanhui？zaiqingxushikongdeshike，fenshoukenenghuirangnihouhui。ruguonizaizhengchaozhongchongdongdifenshou，nizenmenenghuifuzheiduanguanxini?

　　1、冷静分析，理清头绪

　　chaojiahou，shouxianyaolengjingxialai，fenxishiqingdeyuanyin。shizhecongduifangdejiaodusikao，lijieduifangdeganshou。tongshi，womenyeyinggaijianchawomenzaizhengchaozhongdebiaoxian，yijiwomenshifouyoujiduandeyanxinghuotaidu。tongguofenxi，zhaochuwentidegenyuan，genghaodijiejuemaodun。

　　2、主动道歉，表现诚意

　　liqingxiansuohou，zhudongxiangduifangdaoqianshiwanhuiganqingdezhongyaoyibu。daoqianshiyaoyouchengyi，biaodaduizijixingweideyihan，zunzhonghezhenxiduifang。daoqiandefangshiyinreneryi，xuanzeduifangxihuandefangshi，birumianduimianjiaoliu、xiezhangxin、faduanxindengdeng。

　　3、倾听对方，尊重对方

　　daoqianhou，qingtingduifangdexiangfaheganshou。jiduifangzugoudekongjianheshijianlengjingsikao。tongshi，womenyeyinggaizunzhongduifangdejuedingheganshou。ruguoduifangzanshibuxiangtanganqingwenti，keyijiduifangyixieshijianhuanchong。zaizheigeguochengzhong，nikeyiheduifangbaochiyidingdelianxi，danbuyaotaijiujie。

　　4、提升自己，改变自己

　　zailengjingfenxi、daoqianheqingtingdeguochengzhong，womenyeyinggaishenshizijideyanxinghetaidu。nuligaibianzijidequedian，rangzijigengjiachengshu、lijiehekuanrong。tongshi，yeyaozhuyizijideneixinzhuangtai，xuehuidiaozhengqingxu，bimianzaileisidemaodunzhongzaicishikong。

　　5、表达爱意，重燃激情

　　jingguoyiduanshijiandelengjingsikaohegaibian，nikeyizaicixiangduifangbiaodanideai。rangduifangganshoudaoniduizheiduanguanxideguanzhuhejianchi。nikeyitongguoxieqingshu、songliwu、anpailangmandeyuehuilaichuandaai。tongshi，niyekeyifenxiangyixiegongtongdexingquhejiyi，zhongxindianranbicizhijiandejiqing。

　　6、给予时间和空间

　　zaihuifuganqingdeguochengzhong，jiduifangzugoudekongjianheshijianshifeichangzhongyaode。xinggebuhefenshouruhewanhui？meigerendouxuyaoshijianlaichulizijideqingganwenti。buyaoyibuyibudibeipohuoguodujiuchan，zheikenenghuirangduifanggandaoyaliheyane。zunzhongduifangdejuedingheganshou，jizijiyixieshijianhekongjianlaichulizijideqingxu。