分手后该如何挽回？8个秘诀挽回爱情

　　zhengjiunideairenbingburongyi，danruguonizhendexiangzhengjiunishiqudeai，fenshouhougairuhewanhui？yixiashiyixiejianyi，xiwangnengbangzhunichenggongdizhengjiunideairen。

　　1、了解分手的原因

　　nixuyaozhidaofenshoudeyuanyin。shiyinweigoutongbuchang、xinggebuhe、disanfangjieruhaishiqitayuanyin?zhiyoulejiefenshoudeyuanyin，cainengcaiquyouzhenduixingdecuoshi。

　　2、保持冷静

　　mianduifenshou，baochilengjingshifeichangzhongyaode。buyaotaiqingxuhua，buyaozuochujiduandexingwei，fouzekenenghuirangduifanggengjiayane。

　　3、改变自己

　　ruguonixiangzhengjiunideairen，neimenixuyaogaibianziji。nixuyaofansizijizaiaiqingzhongdequedian，nulitigaoziji，rangzijigengchengshu，gengdongdezhenxi。

　　4、重新建立联系

　　dangnizhunbeihaogaibianzijishi，nikeyichangshizhongxinjianlilianxi。nikeyitongguodianhua、duanxinhuoshejiaomeitihuxianglianxi。zailianxiguochengzhong，zhuyibuyaotaireqinghuolengmo，baochishidangdejuliheguanxin。

　　5、展示自己的价值

　　zaizhongjianlianxideguochengzhong，nixuyaozhanshinidejiazhi。nikeyitongguofenxiangnideshenghuo、gongzuo、aihaoheqitafangshilaizhanshinidemeili。tongshi，womenyeyinggaizunzhongbicideganqingheyinsi，buyaoguoduodiganshebicideshenghuo。

　　6、建立信任

　　fenshouhougairuhewanhui？zaizhongjianlianxideguochengzhong，jianlixinrenshifeichangzhongyaode。nixuyaorangduifangganshoudaonidezhenchenghekekaoxing，rangduifangxiangxinnishiyigezhidexinlaideren。zaijianlixinrendeguochengzhong，womenxuyaonaixinheyili，buyaojiyuqiucheng。

　　7、给对方足够的时间和空间

　　zaizhengjiuairendeguochengzhong，jiduifangzugoudeshijianhekongjianshifeichangzhongyaode。buyaotaijiuchanhuoqiangpoduifangzuochujueding。zaijiduifangzugoudeshijianhekongjiandeguochengzhong，womenyexuyaobaochishidangdelianxiheguanxin。

　　8、接受结果

　　nixuyaojieshoujieguo。ruguoduifangyijingjuedinglikaini，neimenixuyaozunzhongduifangdejueding。buyaoqiangpohuojiuchan，zheizhihuirangduifanggengyane。ruguonishituzhengjiuai，danjieguorengranbulingrenmanyi，neimenixuyaoxuehuijieshouxianshibingxiangqiankan。zaiweilaideshenghuozhong，nikeyijixunulixunzhaozijidexingfu。