分手了怎样挽回前任？学会这5个技巧

　　zaiganqingdekaishi，meigerendouxiwangnengzhangjiudizouxiaqu。raner，youshihou，ganqingdefangxiangshiwomenwufakongzhide。fenshoulezenyangwanhuiqianren？dangyiduanguanxibeipojieshushi，buyuanfangshou，xiangyaoliuzhuduifang，nihuizenmezuo？xuexizheiwuzhongjinengkenenghuibangzhuni；

　　1.接受现实

　　nixuyaojieshoufenshoudeshishi，buyaoshituqiangpozijiliuzhuduifang，yinweizheikenenghuirangduifanggengyane。shishishang，nibuyuanyi，nibuxiangfangshou，zheixiedouxiezailianshang。raner，ganqingshilianggerendeshi，xuyaolianggerenshuozuizhongjuedingquan，erbushiyigerenshuozuizhongjuedingquan。

　　yinci，jishixinbuyuanyi，xinbuyuanyifangqi，yeyaorenshou，kongzhizijideqingxu，buyaotaijiduan，buyaochongdong，buduangaosuziji，zheimeishenmedabulede，wohuiguodehenhao。

　　duifanglikaini，shiduifangdesunshi。buguanniyouduonanguo，womenzongshiyaoshuofuzijixianjieshoufenkaideshishi。zheiyidianfeichangzhongyao。

　　2.保持冷静

　　mianduifenshou，baochilengjinghelengjing，buyaoyinweiqingxushikongerrangzijihouhui。henduoren，dangtingdaoduifangshuofenshouzheigecishi，zongshihennanbaochilengjing，rongyichongdongxingdong，piqituranshanglai，yebunengzuzhi，jieguohenrongyishiquyonghengdechouhen。

　　xiangfan，ruguoninengzaizheigeguochengzhongshizhongbaochilengjinglixingdetounao，yexuhuirangduifangduiniguamuxiangkan，congerduinitichuhejieyouhendadebangzhu。

　　yinwei，duifanghuijuedenishiyigeqingxuguanlinenglihenqiangderen。hezheiyangdenizaiyiqi，keyirangduifanggandaoshushiheanquan。

　　yinci，nikan，baochilengjingbujinkeyibimianshiguhuodacuowu，haikeyiweinijieshengrenqi，tigaonizaiduifangxinzhongdeyinxiang。zheiyeshiyizhong“zainandezhufu”，duiba？

　　3.重建联系

　　ruguonimenzhijianhaiyoulianxi，shizhezhongxinjianlilianxi。buyaotaihuoyuehuoreqing，baochiyouhaodetaidu，rangduifangjuedenizunzhongtamendejueding。

　　ruguofenkaihouduifangmeiyoushanchunidelianxifangshi，shuomingnimenzhijianhaiyoujihui，suoyiyidingyaohaohaoliyongzheizhonglianxi。

　　zhongjianlianxishuoqilairongyi，danzuoqilaibingbunan。danzhiyaobawozhuzheigechicun，jiubuyaobaduifangbidetaijin，yebuyaotaipinfandiquzhaoduifang，zheiyangjiubuhuidaraoduifang。meigeyiduanshijian，yijuwenhou，oueryijuwenxindetishi，dounengrangduifanggandaobeiguanxinhezhongshi。

　　nikeyizhaogeshijianjiduifangfaxinxi，yuyuejianmian，chifan，jiduifangdaiyifenjingmeideliwu。ciwai，zairichangshenghuozhong，womenyinggaigengjiashandaiduifang，huxiangbangzhu，rangduifangkandaonideaihefengxian。

　　4.自我反省

　　fenshoulezenyangwanhuiqianren？fenshouhou，fansinidewenti，shizhegaibianziji。ruguoninengyishidaonidewentibingnuligaibiantamen，neimenijiuhuigengyouxiyinli。

　　ciwai，chuleyuduifangbaochizhongjianlianxiwai。nihaixuyaobashijianhejinglifenpeijiziji，zuoxialaixiangxiangnishifouzaizheiduanguanxizhongzuodebugouhao，huozheshanghaiduifang。

　　fenxizijizaizheiduanguanxizhongdeyouquedian、jihuidianheweixiedian，yibiangenghaodilejiezijihezheiduanguanxishifoujixuxiaqu。

　　5.保持乐观

　　ciwai，womenyinggaibaochileguanhejijidetaidu。xiangxinninengbaituozheiduanguanxi，zhaodaogenghaoderen。buyaoxianruxiaojiqingxu，xuehuidiaozhengziji，xunqiubangzhu。

　　tongshi，yaoxiangliuzhuduifang，yeyaobaochirucileguanjijidetaidu，duizijiheduifangdeguanxiyouxinxin。

　　需要注意的是，如果你多次试图保留对方，被拒绝，那就选择放手。也许你们之间真的没有缘分，不能走到最后；也许对方还有其他想法。不管是什么原因，保持乐观的态度都没有错。