姐弟恋男友小我七岁 他不愿意公开我们的关系怎么办？

　　fenshouhounvshengzhudongqiufuhediaojiama，fenshouzhihou，nvshengzhudongmaikaifuhedeyibu，yinqileyigefeichangzhidetantaodewenti：nvshengzhudongqiufuheshibushihuibeishiweidiaojia？youxierenrenweijijiqiufuhedenvshengbiaoxianchuleduiaiqingdezhizheyudanliang，bukedihuitamendeshiyongjiazhi。eryouxierenquerenweizheizhongzuofahenyoukenenganshizhenvshengduizizunhezizunxindesheqi，jinerweifuheduofuchu。taolunzheigewentijiangyinchulaibutongdekanfahejingshencengmiandezhengbian，shiwomengengjiashenrusisuolianaizhongdegongping、zizunhezizunxindeshiyongjiazhi。

　　自尊与勇气：倒追复合的女生

　　fenshouhounvshengzhudongqiufuhediaojiama，fenshouzhihou，younvshengtiaoxuanjijimaichuyibu，xunzhaofuhe。zheizhongzuofayinqileyigebeishouzhengyidenanti：nvshengzhudongqiufuheshibushihuibeishiweidiaojia？zheixuyaowomenshendusikaozizunhexinxindexiangguangainian。

　　zizun，zuoweiyigerenduizijidejiazhihezunyanderentong，doushijiyuxinlingshenchudeziworenke。nvshengzhudongzhuixunfuhe，henyoukenengbingbudengyutamendeshiyongjiazhijianshao。fanguolai，zheizhanxianletamenduiaiqingdezhenzhihekeshou，yijiduiyushuangfangguanxidegaoduzhongshi。zheileiyongqihejuexin，ganghaozhanshichutamenduiyuzijidezhenshitihuihejiazhiderenke。

　　公平与自尊：感情中的衡量

　　danshi，zaitantaonvshengzhudongqiufuheshibushidiaojiashi，womenhaixuyaoguanxinpingdenghezizunxindehengliang。yixierenrenwei，nvshengzhudongzhuixunfuhekenenganshizhetamenduiyuzizunhezizunxindesheqi，beidongweifuheduofuchu。zheigeguandianchanshulehunlianguanxizhongbicizhijiandepingdenghezizun，jijifanghenyoukenengyinggaigengxiaoxinyiyidihengliangzijidejueding。

　　情绪争辩：对倒追复合的理解与接受

　　zheigewentiyanshengchulebutongguandianhejingshencengmiandezhengbian。youxierenkenenghuishizhongrenweinvshengzhudongzhuixunfuhebingbushidiaojia，fandaoxianxianchutamendejianchibuxieyuxinlinengliang。danshi，haiyourenkenengjuedezheizhongzuofahuirangnvshengzaiganqinglichuzaijiaobeidongjieshouyingxiangli。butongdekanfa，laiyuanyubutongleixingdejingliyusiweifangshi，meiyoujueduiduiyucuo。danshi，womenyinggaixuehuijieshouhejieshoubuyiyangdexuanze，jiyubicizhijianchongzudezunzhongyulijie。

　　结束语

　　fenshouhounvshengzhudongqiufuhediaojiama，fenshouzhihounvshengzhudongzhuixunfuheshibushidiaojia？zheigewentibingmeimingquedehuida，tatiaozhanzhewomendejiazhiguanheduiaiqingdelejie。renrendouyouzhipeiquanyijuzijideqingxuheyixiangzuochujueding。zhongdianzaiyu，womenyaozunzhongduifangdejuece，bingqieyonggongping、keguanheaixinlaikandaiheyingduizheiyiqie。