忙着考研 没有恋爱经验的我要如何脱单？

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　　伤痛初显，漫漫长路愈合路

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　　自我认知，复建自身

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　　寻找适用，欢度痛楚

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　　岁月淡化，再生逐渐

　　suizheshijiantuiyi，nvfangdeneixintongkuzhujiandanhua。nvshenghuizhujiantihuidaoduilishiaiqingdeshihuaihelijie。nvshenghuimanmanguiyupingjing，zaicizhaohuizijidehuodeganherenshengmubiao。

　　dangnvfangkeyigenghaodefangxiafenshoudeshangtong，nvshenghuiyishidaoleguoqudejinglibuguoshirenshengzhongdeyiduanjingli，erfeijiedingtasuoyou。tanengxiangyongxindejihuiheshiyedegaibian，nenggouweizijideaiqingqinfennuli。nvshenghuigaoqingchu，zhenzhenzhengzhengfangxiashibenrenjiyudenengliang，erfeizaiyushizhang。

　　fenshouhounvfangduojiucainengzhenzhenfangxia，fenshouhounvfangduojiukeyizhenzhengfangxia？zheibingmeiyouyigegudingshijianbiao，meiyigerenyuhequanguochengquanshiyuzhongbutongde。zhongdianzaiyunvfangnengyijijidexintaimianduibingjiejuetongku，xuanzeshihezijideyuhefangfa。dangtazhenzhenzhengzhengfangxiayiwangdeshangtong，tabiannenggouzhongxinzhujian，yinglaigengmeihaorensheng。