看穿他没有大作为，还要跟他在一起吗？

我 22/155/50 男友 22/189/80 我家农村他县城，均独均处，在一起三年一年半发生关系，现同校大四。

 womenshibicidechulian，tadangshiduiwoyijianzhongqing，wobenlaihaitingkanbushangtade，danshitaduiwoqueshihenshangxin，zaishenghuoshanggefangmiandouhenzhaoguwo，tebiexizhi，woyeyincihengandong，zaitazhuiqiuwosanyuehoujiutongyile。

 xiangchulezheimejiu，woliangzaishenghuoshangchulekouweizhenghaoxiangfanzhiwai，qitayiqiedouhenmoqi，zhishiliangrendejingshenshijiewanquanxiangfan，tajihumeiyoulixiangzhuiqiu，qingshangtingdi，oueryouxiexiaocongming。kenengyeshizixiaoshenghuohuanjingbutongba，tacongxiaohenainaiyiqishenghuo，chuzhonghegaozhongtamamayoupeidu，danshibabazaiwaizuoshengyi，meigeyuecaihuiquyici。

 womendayideshihoujianguotafumu，danshiganjuetatebiebudongshi，neishihoujiuailiuxialebutaihaodeyinxiang，ketafumudouhenmanyiwo，juedewoshihuilaishideneizhongnvsheng。woxiaoshihouwenxinjiating，zaiyigehenhaodehuanjingxiazhangdade，kenenggenxianzaizheiyangdexinggeyouguanxiba。

 meicitafanlezheiyileidecuowudouyaowogentarenzhentanlecaihuifanshenggaizheng，xianzaigentazaiyiqishiyinweiwojuedetaduiwohaojiuxingle，keshizuijintaduiwoshangxinchengdujianban，wozhidaotayihouyebuhuizaichale，xianzaishitaweiwanchengxiongxingjingzheng，danganjueyihouyebushinengzhengdaqianderen。

花镇说要降 PU 但我做不到  duitazhenxinchongbai。wozongjuedewomeineimexingyun，nengzhaodaoyigeshenghuozhongjingshenshangdouheshideren，danwoyoukaolvdaoqishiwoyaoqiubingbugao，bingqiewohainianqing，weishenmebunengzhaoyigegengyouxiuderenni？

 sannianle，shijianyetingzhang，zaibuzhuajin，yihouzaixiangfenkaijiugengzuobudaole，dantaweilewoliuzaixinjiangerqiebaoyanbenxiao，wobuzhidaowogaibugaigentafenshou，yebuzhidaoyizenyangdefangshitifenshou。

老师的回复：

 qishizheigenanhaiyemeiyounixiangdeneimecha，baoyanbenxiao，haiweiniliulexialai，zheizhongganqingnongduzainixiangyaode“shenghuozhongjingshenshangdouheshide”nanrenshenshangshiweibinengdedaode，jishiyongyoulezheizhongganqingnongdu，yeweibiduinishizhangze，zheijiuhaoxiangqiancunzaiyinxing，huihenwendingdanshouyibugao；baqiannaqumaijijin，buneimewendingdanshishouyilvegao；qiannaquchaogupiao，feichangbuwendingdanshishouyihengao，tongshifengxianyehenda，neixiekenengdelirundoushixuyaonimaoxiangyingdefengxianhuanlaide。

因为你们的感情基础非常好： 3 年同窗，按照正常的追求顺序交往，都是独处，男方又付出了一个很大的诚意为你留在新疆，“以后也不是能挣大钱的人”，这种种都表明他的单偶性质是比较高的，如果你按照我讲的恋爱模式，用对待情人的态度去对待这个男生的话，这段感情会很保险。

 nanrenshenshangdemeiyifenbiniyouxiuzhichu，douxuyaonichengdanxiangyingdeduooukenengxing（haihaohenduonanrenyishibudaozheiyidian）。suoyi，yige“shenghuozhongjingshenshangdouheshideren”kenengduinimeiyouzheimegaodeganqingnongdu，huozheyouqitagengdadeduanban，jiukanniyuanbuyuanyiqumaozheixiefengxianle。

如果坚决要和这个男友分手，选择爆 PU 分手会比较好。