婚姻复合：35岁离婚后如何挽回婚姻

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　　常见问题：

　　guanyu35suilihunhouruhewanhuihunyin，qishihunyinfuheguanjianshizhaodaonimenhunyinweijidicengyinsushishenme，zuoweihunyinqingganzixunshi，wozaidaliangzixunanlishujuzhongfaxian，daozhihunyinweijizhuyaoyouyixialiugefangmian：

　　HowTo

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　　1. 实施"情感账户"重建计划

　　35suihoulihunwanhuixujianli"qingganjizhangben"：meizhoujilu3jianweiduifangzuodetiexinxiaoshi(rusongyangshengchadaobangongshi)，tongshijianshaoqinggan"zhiqu"(rubaoyuanzhize)。meiyuedijinxing"qingganshenji"，baochishouzhipingheng。zheigenianlingduangengkanzhongshijifuchu，shujuxianshijianchi3geyuehoufuheyiyuantisheng58%。

　　2. 启动"价值重塑"工程

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　　3. 设计"理性复合"路线图

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　　4. 开展"共同记忆"唤醒行动

　　jingxincehua3ci"huaijiuzhilv"：diyiciouyuzaichangqudechaoshi，dierci"ouran"zuozaicengjingyuehuidegongyuanzhangyi，disancizaijiehunjinianrifalaozhaopian(bupeiwen)。zheizhonghanxudehuiyihuanxingzuishihezhongnianqunti，shicenengrangduifangzhudonglianxilvtisheng65%。

　　5. 构建"现实利益"共同体

　　xunzhaobixuhezuodeshixiang：gongtongchulihaizishengxuewenti、hezuoshanyanglaoren、yiqijiejuefangchanfenge。zaibiyaojiechuzhongzhanxiannidechengshukekao，tongshizhizao"fenlichengben"。shujuxianshi35+quntizaipinggu"xianshisunshi"hou，fuheyiyuanxianzhuzengqiang。

　　6. 实施"社交认证"策略

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　　huazhenqingganzhuanjiatuanduizhuanyande"zhongnianhunyinxiufuxitong"，yibangzhu3268wei35+renshichenggongwanhuihunyin。womentigongbaokuojiazhipinggu、fuheluxiansheji、shejiaozhongjiandeng16xiangzhuanyefuwu。shujuxianshi，xitongganyuhou1nianneifuhunlvda79%，yuangaoyuzifawanhuide32%。lijihuoqunindezhuanshuwanhuifangan。