挽回婚姻的真相，原来是这样

 jinriwomenyiqiliaoyiliao，xuduorendaozaoyuhunyinqingganweijishi，diyifanyingjiushishuodianjizhequwanliu，neinaxiecaisuanshiwanliuni?wanliuyounenghuodeshenme?ciwai，xiwangnikeyizaigaoqingchuwanliudeshizhihou，nenggou sisuoyixiazishendegerenxingwei，jiqijiexiaquyougaichuluzainali。- wanhuihunyin

xialie，shijinridewenzhangzhengwen：

nizhinengzhidaogangkaishi，caihuilejiezuihoudexiachang。

 yiyang，zhendui“wanliu”doushizheiban。nizhinengzhidaowanliudeshizhi，nicaikeyilejiezishenzuowanliuzuihoujianghuidejieguo，erbuhuimangmugenfengpugongdibunengziba。

什么叫挽留?

woxianyunijiangjiangwodeyigeqiuzhuzhedejingdiangushi。

 youyitianzhangnvshishenqinghouzhongdigandaowodezixunchu，xiangwozixunyaowanliuzishenwaiyudelaogong，kanyixiayounaxiefangfa。tagaosuwo，zaizheiyiqiantazaoyizixunguoxuduojiaganqingwanhuizuzhi，yeganlexuduoliruercixiyin，pinpaixingxianggengxingaizaonaizhixuexipeixunmeihuoshuzheileideshier。

 shuoshuoxinlihua，wotingbuxiangyaojiejuezheiyileiqiuzhuzhedeanjiande，youyuyiqiantamenqinshenjingliguoxuduobuchenggongdezixun，yincihuibuzhudongdicaiyiwodechudejihuafangan。eryidanlingyifangcaiyiwosuojidejihuafangan，neimajibianjihuafanganzaiduo，yedoujinjinxiamang。yinerwogongzuobudanjiushishuoyaobangtazixunshenrufenxidechuquezhenjihuafangan，bingqiegengguanjiandijiushishuoxiaochutazhenduiwodegulv。houmianyizhongzhiguanzhongyao，yaoburanzixunzhenjiubaiganle。

 yinci，yingduiyanxiadeneiyangzhangnvshi，woxianbingmeiyouwentaheqilaogongzhongjiandeshijidezhuangkuanghejingyu，zhishiwenletayigenanti：

niweihewanbanbozheyaoquzuowanliu?qingbangwohaoduogechongzudeyuanyin。

 xianeryijian，tatingjianwoneimewenta，huranlengzhuyixia。youyuwomingbai，feichangshaohuixuduorenhetazaisanditaolunzheijianshiqing。yinciwozaicitianbudao，nixianbiezheji，jianjiandixiang。tasikaoleyihui，kuzhegaosuwo：

 wohelinjuzhangfulianqing4nianwanhun6nian，woliangyilubaishouqijiachuangye，xianghubangfu。congzhiqianyipiankongbai，daorujinfangwucheliangshadouyoule。erwolaogongtaquewaiyule，liuyouwoyu2gexiaohaiwuyiwukao。taweihe?tayouxiangguowodetihuima?henbuxiaxin，renmenyiqianshineiyangenai……

 zhangnvshidezheiyiduanxushudequelingrenhengankaiwanqianlinnan，keshijiejuekunnanzhikaodongganqingshimeiyouyongde，renmenhaideyaolizhikeguanxingdishenrufenxibingchongfenkaolvxianshizhuangkuang。woxiangyao，niyekeyitingchuquzhangnvshiyaoxiangwanliuzheiyiduanhunyinshenghuodeyuanyin：

1、bugan;2、bushihe。

 weilegenghaodinidelejiewolairangnijiangjieyixiazhangnvshisuodechudezhei2geyuanyin。shenmejiao“bugan”ni?nihewobaishouqijiachuangyezheixienian，yunyingqizheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo、qinggan、jiazhong、xiaohai、gongzuo……

 rujinzheijiuyangbeiwaiyudelaogongyigerenjidanfangcuihui?naizhiyoujianghuihuibeidisanzhejiuzhanquechao，bazishenleisileihuoyunyinghenduoniandejiatinghunyinjidaoqu!tashiyiqieyigepingchangrenzaitongchangqingkuangxiadouwufajienadeshiji。 qinggannantihenxinlei?10skuaisushenqingqingganzhen

 rujinrenmenzaikanlaishenmejiao“bushihe”，yaoxianglejiebushihe，renmenjiuwubideyaolejie，renmenrenduiyuanlaideyishizhuxingshiyoubijiaoyanzhongyikaoquxiangde。zhongjiujianglaideyiqieshineimabuquedingxing，tangruoyiqiandehunhoushenghuoshineiyangxingfudehua，zheiyineishihouderenmentongchangshiningkehuozaixianxiashijieli，yebukenjieshouxianshizouxianghuihuangde。

 yiyanyibizhi，jiarushuobuganshiduixiankuangdebukeyijienadehua，neimabushihejiushishuoduijianglaidemangranhehaipa。gengshiyouyuzheishuanggunengliangcushidabufenzaodaohunyinqingganweijidenvshibuguyiqiediyaoxiangwanliuzishendehunyinshenghuo，yiyang，yeyouyuzheishuanggunengliangdecunyou，cushixuduoyingduihunyinqingganweijidebeigaofangshenshouxinlidenanao，yeshifeichangrongyiweiwaibudedongjingerhuanghuangbukezhongri。shuoshuoxinlihua，zheileiweidaoqueshinanshou。

 rujinwomenyiqifanhuishijizhong，genjuganggangduiwanliuyuanyindeshenrufenxirenmenbuhuitainanlejie，cujindajiakaizhanhunyinshenghuoganqingwanhuidequdonglishi：yishibugan，yejiushishuoduixiankuangdeweiman;ershibushihe，jiduijianglaidehaipahezaodongbuan。

 shubuzhi，zixideniyingdangbunankanchu，zheishuangguwanliudequdongliqizuihoupianxiangdejieguoshihuidaocongqian，fanhuidangshihunyinqingganxingfudehuanjie，yejiushishuobeigaofangjiyishenchuxiangxiangdeyingdangdeqingjing。

neimarujinneimewentilaile：

 1、huidaocongqianshijima?2、renmenzaichangshixiangyaohuidaoguoqudedaoshang，youmuyouhushinaxieguanjiandewupinni?youmuyouxiangguorenmenyaoxiangwanliushidechuzhongni?

 woxiangyaodiyigenantidecankaodaanzaoyiwuxuwojiangguoba，shierzaoyichansheng，pojingjibianzhongyuanneimaliefengyezaoyishizhongrenjiezhidekeguanshishi。zuishao，yanxiadezheiyinanshengzaoyiyibushidangshidenansheng，erbeigaofangzishenqinshenjinglilezheizhongguohouyeyibushidangshizaiqingganzhongyoulvdanchunxingdezishen，bingbushima?dongleneiyangyigejichukeguanshishineimajiexiaqu，wojiangzhongzhongzhizhongtaolunyixiadiergenanti。

woxiangyaoniyaoxianyuwoyiqixiangxiangyigeqingjing：tangruohunyinwanhuiqudechenggong，neimazhenduibeigaofangeryanhuichanshengshenme?

 zuixian，zuoweihunyinwanhuidebeigaofang，cujintazuochuwanliugerenxingweideshuangguqudongli，buganyeba，bushiheyehao，youyuzongtimubiaodadaoertongtongxiaotui。neimazheishi，zuoweiwanliudebeigaofang，wogaihequhecongjiexiaquderenshengdaoluni?weichihunyinshenghuodequdonglizainani?dangshiyixiangqingyuanyaoxiangwanliudebeigaofangwogaihequhecongjiexiaquderenshengdaoluni?

 ciwai，nikeyilejie，bulunshibuganhuanshibushihe，quanshiyaoxiangwanliudebeigaofangdeyizhongpugongdexianxiang。erzheileipugongdexianxianglinshizhegailebeigaofangxinlidezhenzhengkewang——bixufuweizishenyouyulaogongchuguierwanquansiposhoushangdexin，bixuqingganshangdeweijiehepeichang，naizhibixuzaicichuangshezishendeneixinshijie。

 shubuzhi，nijiuhuifaxian，xuduobeigaofangzaizuowanliudeneishihou，zheiyikuaishibeibijiaoyanzhonghulvede。zheileibeihulvedesunhai，budanduibeigaofangeryanshiyizhongwufashushuodechaimoyebianchenglejianglaijiatinghunyinyishizhuxingdehuoyaotong。

 shijishang，rangbeihunyinpolieyanlidajidenvshifujianzishen，fuweifushangdexinlibucaishizuizuiguanjiandeshiqingma?jinguanzheijianshiqingtongchangbeibeigaofangzishenhushile。

 erjiarumeifazuodaozheiyidiandehua，wanliushizhishangjiushishuoyichangfengbo，jibianlingyifangqueshizhongguijiazhongle，neimashiriyemeibanfayiqiezhengchangdiguoxialai。zailiaole，quanbuwanliuquanguochengzhong，baifangzaifuqijiandeshijixingnantiyigeyemeiyouchulinaizhiqupengchu，shifou?

 neimanijianghuiyaowenle，baifangzaifufulianrenbicishishashijixingnantini?yougaizenyangquchulini?jiranwanliushizhishangmianbukekao，neimayouxiaodetiaoxuanyeshishenme?

xiwangnikeyizishenxianshensishulvyixiasuoshunanti，ciwaiwenyiwenzishenwanliudeyuanyinshisha，kekaoma?

haola，xiabianwomenyiqijianyizongjieyixiajinrideneirong：

 nizhibixujilao，wanliudequdonglishibuganhebushihe，buganshiduixiankuangdebukeyijiena，bushihezeshiduijianglaidemangranhehaipa。

 danbulunshibuganhuanshibushihe，zheishuangguwanliudequdonglidouhuichangshijianghunyinshenghuolahuidaocongqian，guqiebushuohuidaocongqiankaobukekao，zhiguanzhongyaodewentishizaiquanbuwanliuquanguochengzhong，beigaofangyizhihushilezishendesuqiudianhexintaizhuangtaijibenjianshe。ciwai，beigaofangyeweinengzhenshirenqingzishenhunyinshenghuozhongcunyoudeshijixingnanti，ergengshizheizhongshijixingnanticushihunyinshenghuomaixiangjinrizheiyibu。

 zuizhong，xiangduinishuodeshi，jinguanshiqinghentaorenyan，danshidangnihaoxiangjiejuekunnan，neimahainiyaofanhuikeguanshishifangmian，fanhuishiqingshangqu。