被女友误解了怎么挽回？

　　beinvyouwujielezenmewanhui？shifouyoushiyehuishenxianyunvpengyoudewujiexianjing，ganjuejiuxiangshibeiyituanluanmachanshang，ruhedouzhaobudaosixu?

　　一、开场词：情感生活的“误解大剧”

　　zaijingshenshijieli，wujiejiuhaoxiangshiyichangturuqilaidekuangfengbaoyu，rangrencuoshoubuji。youshi，benlaizhishiyijuwuxinzhiyan，quezailiangrenzhijianguaqikuangfengjulang。dannizhidaoma?wujieshijishangyeshiqingganshenghuozhongdeyizhong“zengweiji”，takaoyanzhenidexinlai、goutongyulejie。yinci，dangwujielailindeshihou，buyaodanxin，gengbunengtaobi，fanershiyaodongderuhezhengquedimianduihejiejueta。

　　neiyang，ruhegennvpengyoudaoqianerqiewanhuini?xiamian，wojiuweinigongbuwubumiji，rangnikeyibaituowujiexianjing!

　　二、第一步：理智思考，找到“症结”

　　1. anzhu“tingzhijian”，lengjingfenxi

　　dangwujiefashengdeshihou，haoduorendediyifanyingshiqingxubengkui，yaobuhuomaosanzhang，yaobulengbaolibuyan。buguozheiyangfanerhuirangwujiegengweituijin，nantigengfuza。yinci，diyibujiushiyaoanzhu“tingzhijian”，rangzijilengjingxialai，jiduifangyixieshijianyukongjianjinxingsikao。

　　2. fenxiwujie，zhaodao“zhengjie”

　　pingjingxialaihou，jiukeyikaishifenxiwujiele。xiangyixiangwujieshizenmexingchengde?shiyouyuzijideyanxingbuheli，yeshiyinweigoutongbudaowei?shiyouyugaocuoleduifangdexiangfa，huoshiyinweibierenyouqitadexintaihuoyali?zhiyaozhaodaowuhui“zhengjie”，cainengshibangongbei，youxiaodijiejuenanti。

　　3. rencuo，ganyudandang

　　zaifenxiwujiedeguochengdangzhong，yidanfaxianshizishendewenti，neijiuyaoyongyuchengrencuowu，bingdanfuqixiangyingdezeren。buyaoqingyiduobihuotaobizeren，zheiyanghenrongyirangnvpengyougengweifennuhenanguo。jilao，ganyudandangshinanxingyinggaiyoudezhiliang，doushihuodenvyourentonghejingpeidezhongyao。

　　三、第二步：真诚道歉，开启“心扉”

　　1. tiaoxuanheshideshijianhefangfa

　　zhiqianyeshiyimenyishu，tiaoxuanheshideshijianhefangfayouweizhongyao。qianwanbuyaozainvyouqingxuguojihuomangliudeshihouzhiqian，zheiyangzhihuilingtagengweixinfanheyanfan。keyixuanzeyigeqingjing、lianghaodehuanjing，lirukafeiting、shengtaigongyuanhuozhejialideketing，yongzhenchengdeyanshenheyudiaolaibiaodanideqianjiu。

　　2. renzhenzhiqian，bingfeifuyanleshi

　　rencuodeqingkuangxia，yidingyaoxixin，bingfeifuyanleshi。bieshuoyixiehanhubuqinghuoshimolengliangkedehua，liru“duibuqi，nibieshengqile”，zheiyanghenrongyirangnvpengyourenweinimeichengyi。yaojutidishuochuzijicuozaina，weishenmecuo，baokuonijinhouhuizenyangjiuzheng。weiyouruci，caikeyirangnvpengyoukanjiannidezhenzhihexinxin。

　　3. biaoshulejie，gongmingdianqingxu

　　zaizhiqiandeguochengdangzhong，haixuyaobiaoshuniduinvpengyouqingganshangdelejie。gentashuonimingbaiduifangdeganshou，zhidaotaweishenmeshengqihuonanguo，erqieneiniyejuedefeichangnanguohezize。zheiyangcainengrangnvyoukanjiannidegongmingheguanzhu，jinerkaiqita“xinfei”，shinifeichangrongyizourutadexinli。

　　四、第三步：有效的沟通，构建“公路桥梁”

　　1. lingtingnvpengyouxiangfaheganshou

　　zhiqianyihou，jiukeyikaishiyouxiaogoutongle。zuixian，yaolingtingnvpengyouxiangfaheganshou。bubiqieduantadehua，yebuyaojizhebianbohuobiaoshu，fanershirenzhenditingzhejiangwan。zheiyangcainengrangtakanjiannidezunzhongyuguanzhu，yeyouzhuyunigengquanmiandilejietadeneixinshijie。

　　2. biaodazijideguandianhekanfa

　　lingtingyihou，yexuyaobiaodazijideguandianhekanfa。danshiyaozhuyiyuqihefangfa，bunengyongchizehuojingongdekouqi，ershiyipingjing、keguandefangshiqulunshu。gaozhinvyounidezhenshixiangfahetihui，jiqininduiwuhuiguandianhejiejuefangan。zheiyangcainengrangdajiagengweilejieduifangdexiangfaheyaoqiu，weichuliwentidiandingjichu。

　　3. xunzhaodegongshi，dachengyizhi

　　zaigoutongdeguochengzhong，yaoxunzhaodegongshi，dachengyizhi。xunzhaobicidounengjieshoudejiejuefangfa，rangwujiededaozhenzhengdechuli。buyaoqingyibipolingyifangjienazijidexiangfahuoniantou，ershiyinggaitongguoxieshanghetuoxielaidachengyizhi。zheiyangcainengrangdajiagengjiatuanjieherenkebicizhijian，baituowujiexianjing。

　　五、第四步：开始行动，证实“更改”

　　1. duixianchengnuo，fuzhuxingdong

　　zhiqianhejiaoliujinjinbaituowujiexianjingdediyibu，zhenzhenzhengzhengdeguanjianshixingwei。nixuyaolvxingzijidefuwuchengnuo，fuzhuxingdonglaizhengmingzijidegenggai。liru，jiarunifuwuchengnuozhihoujiuhuiduoguanxinnvpengyoudetiyan，neijiuyaozairichangrichangshenghuoduozuoyixierangtaganshoudaoguanxindeshiqing;jiarunifuwuchengnuozhihougaishanziyidejiaoliufangshi，neijiuyaozaigoutongzhonggengweizhuzhongzijideyuqihefangfa。

　　2. miqieguanzhu，jishigoutong

　　beinvyouwujielezenmewanhui？xingweiyihou，haixuyaomiqieguanzhunvpengyoufanyinghetihui。jiarutaduinidegenggaibiaoshirenkehexinshang，neijiuyaojixubaochitongshijiaqiang;jiarutaduinidegenggaiyeyougulvhuobumanyi，neijiuyaozhudonggoutongbingdiaozhenghaozijideduice。jinyoumiqieguanzhubingjishigoutong，caikeyirangnimenzhijiandeganqinggengjiawenguhenonghou。