男生错了该怎么挽回女友？

　　nanshengcuolegaizenmewanhuinvyou？zaiaiqingdedaolushang，womendoucengshimosuoqianxingdexiaohai，youshihoushikou，youshihoufancuowu，queyezaizheizhongdiediezhuangzhuangchuzhonghuilefazhan。jiarunibuxiaoxinshuocuolehua，shangdaolenvpengyoudexin，biezheji，benwenjiushini“fuhexingmiji”。womenjiangyaoyiqitanxunzheixieqingchanggaoshoumenshizenyangqiaomiaoderaokaijinqu，yongzhihuihezhenxinshiyiqudechenggongwanhuiaiqingde。nizhunbeihaolema?rangwomenyiqitaruzheiyichangaidejiushuzhilvba!

　　一、认识错误：第一步，都是最关键的一步

　　zaishuocuolehuayihou，dabufennanshengdediyifanyingshijinghuang、bianbo，naizhiduobi。erzhenzhengdelianaidarenlejie，diyibuyingdangshilizhidirenshibingchengrenzijidecuowu。

　　chengxinyingdui：jiandingdirenkenishuocuohuale，buyaoqingyiyonghuanghuahuotuocilaiyanshi。jilao，zhenchengshiwanhuiaiqingdediyibu。

　　fanshengziwo：xiangxifenxinishuocuolehuadezhuyaoyuanyin，shiqingxubengkui?huoshigoutongfangshibuheli?zhangwowentidebenzhi，caiburongyizaidufancuowu。

　　huanweisikaoyixia：changshizhanzaitadejiaoduqusikao，zheihuaduitadaozhileruhezaochengdeshanghai。zheibujinnengshinishenkedirenshidaobuzhengque，yekeyiweihouxudedaoqianhewanliudiandingxinligenji。

　　二、道歉的美学：不仅仅是说“真的对不起”

　　daoqian，kanqilaijiandan，qishidayouxuewen。yigegaoxiaodedaoqian，budannengjiejuemaodun，hainengzengjinlianggerendeganqing。

　　tiaoxuanheshideshijian：qianwanbuyaozaizhengzhidejintianjiujiqiedaoqian，neibankenenghuishiqingxingbiandegengzao。jitayixieshijianyukongjian，dengtapingjingxialaizhihouzaijinxing。

　　zhenxinchengyibiaoshu：daoqianshi，muguangjianding，yudiaoyaochengzhi。gentashuonizhendehenhouhuimojijiangleneixiehua，nilijieduifangdeganshou，erqieniyaoyincizuochudiaozheng。

　　fangzhizhongfufancuo：zaidaoqianzhong，bubizaidutanjizheixieshanghaitadehua，ershizhuanzhuyubiaodanideqianjiuziwogaibianjuexin。

　　tichujiejuefangan：chukaidaoqian，niyekeyitichuyixieshijijiejuefangan，lirugaijingoutongfangshi，huoshiyiqicanjiaqingganwanhuikechengneirong，rangqikanjianniweiwanliuzheifenganqingsuozuodegongzuo。

　　三、有效沟通技巧：重建信任的窗口

　　daoqianyihou，youxiaogoutongshizhongjianxinrendeguanjiansuozai。

　　lingtingtadeshengyin：jitazugoudeshijianlaibiaoshutaganshouhexiangfa，bubiqieduanta，yebuyaojizhebianbo。zhenzhengyiyishangdelingting，shilijiehehuifutajingshenxuqiu。

　　biaodanideganshou：zailingtingdeqiantixia，yeyaoganyudibiaodanideganshouhekanfa。gentashuonizenmehuijiangcuoneixiehua，zijineixindezhengtuohedanyou。neiyang，tacainenggengquanmiandilejieni，yegengyuanyijinijihui。

　　yitongxunzhaojiejuefangan：bawentibaizaizhuomianshang，yiqitaolunzenyangbimianleisiqingkuangzaicichuxian。zhidingyixieshijiguizehuoyueding，lirubulengbaoli、butiguoqudeng。

　　weichibaorongdexintai：hezuoshiyigechixudeguocheng，buyaoqidaiyicijiunengjiejuesuoyouwenti。weichibaorongdexintai，nenggouweiaiqingfuchushizhangyunuli。

　　四、行动的力量：说明你的爱

　　shuoyiqiandaoyiwan，bibushangqieqieshishizuoyijian。xingwei，shijianyannixihuandezuihaofangshi。

　　xiaojingxichixu：buyongangguilipin，yixiejiandandexiaojingxijiunengrangtaganshoudaozheifenai。liru，tasuiyitijixihuanchidedongxi，nijizaixinshang，xiacijianmianshidaijita;huoshi，zaitafanmangdegongzuori，huransongjinyibeitazuixihuandexianmokafei。

　　genggaikandeqing：yijudajiajiaoliuzhongtidaodewenti，qinfengaibianxianzhuang。liru，tayaoshirenweinibuzuguanxinta，neijiuzairichangrichangshenghuoduoyixiexixinhetiexin;tayaoshirenweinibuwanshan，neijiuzaiyantanjuzhizhongzhanshichunijinbuyuchengzhang。

　　xieshougongchuangmeihaojiyi：yiqiquzuoyixienimenyexiangzuodeshiqing，zaojiushuyunimenzuimeihaodehuiyi。zheizhongzhuiyijianghuichengweidajiaaiqingdezhongyaoqianti，rangshuangfanggewaizhenxizheiduanganqing。

　　五、防止禁区：这些错误别再次发生

　　nanshengcuolegaizenmewanhuinvyou？zaiwanhuinvyoudeguochengdangzhong，youyixiejinqukendingshibunengcaide。

　　bubisipilailian：guoduodejiuchanfanerhuirangtagengjiadichuni，jiduifangyixieshijianyukongjian，rangganqingdangranfazhanqushi。

　　bubichennianjiushi：guoqudejiurangtaguoqu，bubiyicicidijiekaishangba。zhiliyuxianzaiyuweilai，yiqichuangzaogengduoxingfu。

　　bubishitugaibianta：meiyigerendoushiduyiwuerde，bubishitugaibiantadaorongruni。fanguolai，nijiuyinggaixuehuimianduihexinshangtadedutezhichu。

　　buyaoqingyifangqi：wanhuiaiqingbushiyicuerjiudeshier，taxuyaoshijianhexixin。bukeyipengdaokunnanjiuqingyanfangqi，jianchidaodi，nicaihuikandaoqidai。