怎么技巧性挽回女友？

　　zenmejiqiaoxingwanhuinvyou？zaiaiqingdeshijieli，meiyourenherenkeyishizhongyifanfengshun。youshi，yinweiyixiewujie、zhengzhihuoshicuxindayi，dajiakenenghuishiquxinaideren。danshi，bingbuyiweizheyiqiedouyijingwanbi，zhiyaonixiangfuzhunuli，yongxinquwanliu，dajiazhijiandeaiqinghaishiyoukenengzaicishengkaide。

　　一、看清现况，聚焦问题所属

　　zaiwanhuinvrenyiqian，niyaoxianzuodeshikanqingxiankuang，xuanzhunlianggerenzhijianwentidesuozai。zheibingbushiweilenimangmudekuijiuhuoshizhaoliyou，ershiyinggaikeguandepouxinimenzhijiandeganqing，zhaodaozaochengfenkaidegenbenyuanyin。

　　zheishibushinijinqigongzuomang，hushileduifangdeganshou?huoshilianggerenzhijiangoutongbudaowei，changchangyinweiyixiexiaoshizhengzhi?yihuozheshinizuoleyixierangqijieshoubuledeshier?dangnizhenzhengshenrulejiewentidesuozai，nenggouzhenduixingdicaiyongwanliuxingwei。

　　xiaotishi：bufangshizheliejunimendeguanxigerenzhenggaicuoshi，yizhaoyanzhonghouguohejinjixingjinxingshaixuan，suihouzhuyichuli。

　　二、真诚道歉，展示自己的诚心

　　jiaruniqueshizuolecuoshi，neiyangzhenchengdaoqianshiwanhuinvrendediyibu。buyaoqingyiyonghualidecizaolaiyangainibuzhengque，yebuyaoqingyibaguotuijianjilingyifang。niyaozuodeshi，tanchengdichengrenzijidecuowu，biaodanideqianjiu，haixunuozhihoujiuzheng。

　　致歉方法：

　　tiaoxuanheshideshijianyuhuanjing：baozhengdajiadouyouzugoudeshijianyukongjian，chuzaiyigexiangduianjing、sirendehuanjingli。

　　yong“wo”kaishi：liru，“worenweiwozuocuole……”，“wocaiyishidaowoshanghaileni……”。

　　biaoshujutiqianjiu：zhenduinidecuowuzuofa，quanmiandibiaodanideqianjiu，rangqiganshoudaonidezhencheng。

　　fuwuchengnuojiuzheng：gentashuoninengzenyangjiuzhengzijidewenti，jiniyaoweiwanliuzheifenganqingfuzhunuli。

　　三、提升自我，令她看见你的更改

　　zhiqianyihou，nixuyaozuodebingfeiyiweidijiuchanbuqingta，fanershijitayixieshijianyukongjian，rangqilengjingyixia。yucitongshi，niyedeliyongzheiduanshijianlaitishengziwo，rangzijibiandegengjiachuse。

　　yekeyichangshiquxuexiyixiechaojijineng，lirupengzhi、paishe、huihuadeng，zheizhongdouhuirangnibiandeyuelaiyueyouqizhi。yucitongshi，nijiukeyifanshengzijizailianaizhongdenanti，qinfenjiuzhengzishendequedian。ruguoniyiquanxindemianmaofashengzaitamianqianshi，tayidinghuiganshoudaonigenggai，zaiciduiniyouxingquaihao。

　　提升自我小提示：

　　shezhizhuyaomubiao：lirumeixingqixuexiyigexincaipu，huoshimeitianduanliansanshifenzhong。

　　weichijijidexintai：jianxinzijikeyibiandeyuelaiyuehao，bieyinyishidejiannanerfangqile。

　　fenxiangzijidechengxiao：zaishejiaopingtaishanggongxiangnidexuexichengguohuozhegaibian，rangqijianjiedelejiedaolenidejinbu。

　　四、创建有效的沟通，聆听她心里话

　　hezuoshichuliwentidehexin。zaiwanhuinvrendeguochengdangzhong，womenxuyaojianliyouxiaodegoutongdefangshi，lingtingtaxinlihua，zhangwotadeganshouyuxuqiu。

　　ninengxuanzeyigeheshidejihui，yuetachuqutanhua。zaijiaotanguochengdangzhong，nixuyaobaochilixinghelixing，buyaoqingyiqieduantadehuahuoshiqiangzhichuandinideguandian。fanguolai，nixuyaorenzhendilingtingtashushuo，lejieduifangdeganshou，bingyuyijijidehuiying。

　　沟通的技巧：

　　yongyanshenheshentiyuyanbiaodanideguanxin：lirudiandiantou、xiaorongdeng。

　　fangzhipipinghezhengzhi：jibiantayouzhejiangdebutuozhichu，yebuyaojizhebianbohuoshichize。

　　tichuwentiyindaohuati：genjutichuwentiqulejietadeganshouyuxuqiu，liru“dajiajuedebicizhijianzuidadewentijiushinaxie?”

　　五、生产制造浪漫惊喜，追忆快乐时光

　　zenmejiqiaoxingwanhuinvyou？nvshengdoushiganxingxiaodongwu，tamenchangchanghuibeiyixielanmandexiaojingxisuogandong。zaiwanhuinvrendeguochengdangzhong，ninengzhizaoyixielangmanjingxi，rangqiganshoudaoniyongxinheguanhuai。

　　zheizhongyiwaijingxinengshiyishuxianhua、yifenxiaolipin、yichangjingxincehuadeyouhui，huozheyifengshouxiedebiaobaixin。guanjiandeshi，nixuyaorangqiganshoudaoniyongxinhezhencheng。yucitongshi，nijiukeyidaitayixiedajiayiqianquguodechengshi，zhuiyikuaileshiguang，gouqitaduinideai。

　　浪漫惊喜小提示：

　　yijutaxihaolaixuanzeyiwaijingxi：birutaaihaoyinle，ninengjitasongyichangyinlehuidemenpiao。

　　jingyiqiujing：liruzaibiaobaixinlijiarunimendeguanxizhuanshunichenghuoshimimi。

　　zhizaolangmandetongshiyaoweichidangran：bubirangtagandaonizhengzaiyouyiquyuehuoshijiaoqing。