女友分手后就把我拉黑了，分手之后再复合该怎么做？

 nvyoufenshouhoujiubawolaheile，fenshouzhihouzaifuhegaizenmezuo？fenshouzhihou，juedaduoshurendoushixiangyaomashangwanhuilingyifang，xiwangkeyidedaolingyifangdebaorong，nenggouzaiduyiqi。zheiyineishidoushirentongzijideyouwu，bingqiezuochufuwubaozheng，zaiyebuhuineibanzuole。

 hepingfenshoufuhegailvgaoma？danshiyuqixiaoguoyizhineimebijiaoruo，tashuodaodezaihao，tayeyizhihuiniyiliangju“wojiunanyixiangxinnilei!”。weishenmehuineiban?yuanbennidouzaojiuzuolefuwubaozheng，yuanbennizaojiurentonglebenshendeyouwu，weishenmetahainanyixiangxinni?neiyinweinideyizhixingbuzudeyuanyinyinqide。zaiguoqudeganqingzhong，youyunidexingwei，rangnideyizhixingmanmanxiaosan，yinertabuxuyaozaixinrenni。

 weiheneimeduoderenxiangyaoshiwomenshouquanweituowanhui，shuozanmendewanhuilvgao？yishidajiadeshujufenxibaogao，zhenduiwanhuilvshizhenshidepingding，nengwanhuibianshinengwanhui，wanhuibushangdajiahuishixiangaozhi。haiyouyigebianshidajiazhenduiliangxingxinlihehunyinxinlidejishuzhuanyexuqiufenxibaogao。wanhuibianshigongxinzhan，zaigongxinzhanyiqian，womenyaolejienanshengdeguilei，yijubuyiyangguilei，kaizhanwanhuifangfadezhiding。

反向合理性

 juedaduoshunvshifenshouzhihouhaowuyiwenyaoshuoyixiezhiqiandelizizuoweifenshoudeliyou，erninengbuduanjizijibianjie，shuoneiyangzuodoushiweilegenghaodinimendeganqing，danzaibierenneixinzaoyihelixingniquanbugerenxingweidoushibuzhengquede，yinerniyaotiaohuatuotadesiweifangshi，weizuobianjierencuo，erqiezhiqian，zaixuanzelikaijindaolengzangganqingqingkuang，nidecaozuofangfahetaxiangxiangzhongdebuyiyang，huizaochengqingxushangdebushihe，naizhitichuzhiyizishentichufenshoudefangfashibushiqiadang。

与其说表述，比不上先承认错误

 fenshouzhihouzaifuhe，wulunzheishierdeqianyinhouguoshiruhe，nengzaochengzhengzhi，jiubiaomingnimenzhongjianjiaowanghuoshicunyouyixiexiaowenti。erganqinghuichanshengmaodun，congbushidanyifangdecuo。ruhexuanzewanhuinvyou，yincichuziyuyigenanrendedandang，niyaozuodeshizhengqueyindaoyanchuanshenjiaozainantiyanqianjijidanfuzigedecuo。erbushizaicibiaoshutuituozishendeyiwu，ranglianggerenzaizerenhuafendangzhongsikailelianshangleganqingrangzhengzhibutingkaizhanxialai。jinyoujijidixianchengrencuowuneimezenyangwanhuiqiannvyouba。

进行对她失信黑名单的承诺

 hepingfenshoufuhegailvgaoma？niyaoshenshiziji，zishenshifoujinglishenmecuowu，liruyouyixiefuwuchengnuomeiyoubaozheng，shixinheimingdanyuta。niyaobazishendequediandougenggaihuilai，youqishigenlingyifangfashengzhengzhidequexian，zheizhongniyaoliuyigaiguolai，yifangzhihougenlingyifangchupengdeqingkuangxiazaicifashengzheizhongbuzhengque。