zaiduyuehuinindeqianrenhenyoukenenghuichuxianfengxianxing。wanhuiqiannanyouduanlianma?jiaruninyiganqingshangyingyangjiankangdexingshiquzuo,neimaninhuoxukeyizhongxindianranzishendeguanxibingshizhiyuelaiyuebiguoqugengjiangu。zhiliyuzishendeshengzhangfangfajiqikeyizuodegengqiangdehezuofangkeyishinindexinguanxizaininzaiduchangshishixunmengfazhan。genjubaochilengjinghemingquedegoutongjiaoliu,ninkeyizhujianyishenxinjiankang,pingwendefangfayuqianrenyuehui。
一.重圆
1.zuixianzhiliyuzishendeshenghuo。fenshounanyi,yingduiganqingshangdetongchujuefeiyishi。changshigenjuchidehao,anshijianshenyundonghewanchengzishendegerenguihualaiduanlianzishen。jiarunindeqianrenjiangninshizuoyigegengweiquanfangweideren,tamenyexuhuigengbuxihuanyuninyuehui-zheinaizhihenyoukenengzaitamenjiandaozishensuoquefadewupinshizaiduxiyinzhutamen。
dangninzhuyaobiaoxianbujiashi,yunindeqianrenlaogonglianluohenyoukenenghuizaochengtamenlianminnin,ermeiyourenxiangyao。
2.weichichaoyiqingkuangxiyinzhunindeqianren。jiaruninbuduandifaxinxihuozaishejiaomeitishangxiangtamentuisongxinxi,tamenyexuhuijuedeshouzuwucuo。zhiliyuzishendeshenghuo,bingnulichuangzaozishendezongtimubiao,zhizhininyouchongzudezixinxinzaidushenchuyuanshou。
xiangnideqianrenzhengshinimeiyoutamenhuizuodefeichanghao,zheihuirangtamengengweidadongni。
3.tiqianzhunbeifeililuoshenshou。jiarulifenshoujinyoujiri,neimejiuguozaole。dangninrenweikeyichulihuijueshi,qingchangshifaxinxihuobotongnindeqianren,erbushizaifenshouhaihenxinxiandeqingkuangxia。
zheiyexuhuiyoudianerjiannan,youyumeiyouquedingdeshikebiaolaifenpeininshenmeshihou“jiuxu”。jiaruninhaipaguduhuobixuchuangjianguanxi,ninhenyoukenengyingdangdenghougengzhangdeshijian。
ninkeyigenjushuo“hei,womenkeyipengmianma?”zhujianhuihua。jiaruninyouxingquaihao,wojuedezaitanyitanyuehui。”
4.biaoshunindetihuijiqininxiangzaiduyuehuideyuangu。dabufenrenjiangfenshoushizuoyiduanaiqingdekendingjieshu,yinernindeqianrenhenyoukenengbingbuqidaineiyang。yunindeqianrenzuoxialai,bingchangshiliejuninjuedezheiduanshijiankeyichuangjianguanxideyuangu,bingtiqianzhunbeihuiyingqihenyoukenengpengdaodeyiqienanti。
ninkeyichangshishuo:“womingbaidajiadeguanxiyiwanghenjianxin。wodequeyizhizaiqinfengaizhengwodebuliangxiguan,wojuededajiaciciqueshikeyishitaqigongxiao。”
nindeqianrenyehenyoukenenghuijuehuobuyuanyizaiduchangshichuangjianguanxi,zheiyeshihelide。lingtingtamendeyoulv,bingchangshiyiqichuli。
5.taolunbicizhijianfenlishideguanxi。jiaruninzailianggerenfenshouhouyuehuibieren,qinggaozhinindeqianren。jiarutamenyehebierenyuehui,qinglejieyixia。nimenwuxushencengciguanjiandian,keshinimenliangdouyingdanglejiebicizhijianzaiyiqishizaochengdesuoyoubiedeguanxi。
henyoukenengnanyitingjianninbuzaiyiqishiqianrendexingwei,keshirujinzuihaoshizhaochuqu,erbushishaohouzaimangmugenfeng。
jiarunindeqianrenyinyubierenyuehuierjuedezaodongbuan,qingchangshichulitamendehaipahuoyoulv,suihouzaiyuninchuangjianguanxi,yifangrihoufashengnanti。
6.yunxujiejuenindejiunanti。dangninzaoyizaiyiqishi,nimenliangdoulejieweilaihenyoukenengchanshengdenanti。dangnimen2getaolunxindeguanxishi,yidingyaochuliyiwangchanshengdenanti,jiqishuangfangdoukeyizuoxienaxielaifangzhiweilaichanshengzheizhongnanti。jinkenengbikaizeguaishoujiyouxi,eryaozhiliyunimendounenggoucaiyongdexingdetongliucheng。
wanhuiqiannanyouduanlianma?biru,jiaruninweizijinerpinbo,qingyunxuzaihuijicengmiangengweiduiwaikaifang,yifangfashengyiqiechuxianyiwai。
huoshi,jiaruninmeiyoutongyigewangyeshangtaolunhunyinshenghuo,qingtaolunnindeshenghuofanganjiqiwunianhoudejingyu。
huoshi,jiarunimenzhongderenyiyigepengdaoxinlainanti,qingtaolunbuguanzenyangbicizhijianchengxin。
二.创建坚固的关系
1.shinideguanxijianhuan。buguanninyiqianchuzaitanlianaiguanxidenayigehuanjie,xindetanlianaiguanxiquanshi:xindetanlianaiguanxi。jiaruninyuairenyiqishenghuo,dingqinnaizhiwanhun,qingxiangkandaidiyiciyuehuiyiyangkandainindeguanxi。
yongxinquganshouhainenggouxiezhuningaizhengzaochengfenshoudeyiqiexiaojigerenxingwei。
jiaruninzaiyiqishenghuo,zekaolvdaofenlishenghuoyiduanshijian,jibianninzaoyifanhuiyiqi。
2.jianlixindezhuiyi,erbushijiezhujiudezhuiyi。jiaruninyuqianrenzaiyiqiyiduanshijian,henyoukenengfeichangrongyishenxianzhiqiandexiguanxing。changshiyiqizuoyixiexindelingrenjidongdeshier,yiweichiguanxideshenmiganbingzaicidianrannindelanman。
biru,ninhenyoukenengyouyigemeixingqiyuehuideyeliquyigecongmeilaiguodexinfandian。
huoshi,ninkeyifanganqianqucongmeilaiguodechengqudelibaitianxiaoyaoyou。
3.qinfengenggainindejiugerenxingwei。jiaruninchajuezijiyikaishijiushenxianzaochengnantidefangshizhong,qingzhengquerenshizheizhongnantibingkaizhangaizheng。rujinninlejienaxiehenyoukenengzaochengfenshou,yinerqingjinliangjianshaoneiyangzuo。
shuonindeqianhuibiandegengqiang,zheiyeshiyihuishier,danshishishangmeiyigeyuedoujianchibuxiefeiyongyusuanbingfangzhichaoyusuanshilingyihuishi。
ninhainenggouguidingnindeairenyuninyiqichayannindehuaixiguan。jiarutamenfajueyiqielingrenkanyoudenanti,tamenkeyizainantifashengyiqianrangninlejie。
4.lizhihezhongshidigoutongjiaoliu。jiarunindelianrenyijingzuoninyoushenmewentideshier,qingrangtamenzuoxialaiyutamentantao。ninhaikeyiguidingtamenweininzuoxiangtongdeshier。pengdaonantishi,qingchangshitaolunnanti,erqiebubidashenghanjiaohuoxianghuzhijianchize。
lianghaodegoutongshichuangjianguanxidejiaodazhibiaozhizhiyi。dangnindegoutongjiaoliuzhongduanshi,nanticaizhenzhenzhengzhengzhujian。
biru,ninhenyoukenengyaoshuo:“wozhuyidaoninbudawodedianhuayouzaiwaimiandailehaozhangshijian,zheiyaowoyiwanghenxiaochen。zaizheilibianchengyigewentiyiqian,dajianengtanyitanma?”
jiaruninzailianxishangpengdaobubian,qingkaolvdaozhaofufuzixunguwen。
5.fangzhitaiduotaolunfenshou。zheiyexuhuirangnimenliangdougandaokongju,erqieninwuxumeiri(huomeiyicidajiadououshi)douyouqingtishideairen。zhiliyuxiangyourujin,erbushiyiwangdemeihaojiyi。
dangninyunxuzaicichuangjianguanxishi,qingbaozhengninyijiejuelezaochengfenshoudenanti。jiaruninbutaixihuantamen,huoshinindouhaimeiyutamenyouhaoxiangchu,neimaweilaininyexuhuipogetibatamenlaisunhainindeairen。
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