给你一本搭讪圣经

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一、搭讪法则开场白

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二、搭讪的法则

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 dierleinanren，jiushishuomomodiliqu，neixinbukaixin，bukaixin。zheiquanshibuzhengquedezuofa。xintaizhuangtaiqiangjing，suyushuozaiyixieshikeyixiedizhilianpihou。ruhezuo？nitaoyanwoyaowolizouyuanyidianma？qiadangdezuofahuiyingshi，neimewohuanshilinijindianba，neiyangjiugengweitaoyanwole。

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