搭讪大师教你搭讪手法

 dashandaibiaoshenmeyisi？jianxinxuduorenduidashanyiciyinggaishifenshuxi，xuduonanshengzairichangshenghuozhongdoushijijidashan，danshirujindaliangderenxiaijiaotapaoniu，paomeizi。eryouguandashanyicidehanyi，dashanjuyoudebiaozhunshisha，yeyouyoubuyeyouguandashandedianshilianxuju，jiexiaqujiujianyidetantan。

一、搭讪代表什么意思

 1、conglilunshangjiang：dashanjihemoshengrengoutongjiaoliu。zhilu、wenshi、yaodianhua、liaotianerdengquanshidashan。beijinghuajiao“taoci”yibiangenrentiejinhuobanankandejushifuyanleshiyiwangerzhaolaohua，yizuo“dashan”。weixunzhaohuatoujinergangkaishipantan。yiweimeihuazhaohuakaizhanfuyanleshihuoketao。dashanyicibingbujinjinxianyuluren，haikeyishiqinqipengyou。

2、congfanchoushangjiang：jinjinianlaishengxingdejietoudashanxuezetezhizaijiebianhuogezhongchangdijijijiejiaoyixingpengyou。

二、搭讪大师教你搭讪手法

 《dashandashi》jutuyouwangrenjun，shishichuyandeaiqingouxiangju《dashandashi》zhengshiqidongbochu，wangrenjunbanyandezhishanggao，qingshanggao，gaodeshangde“sangaodashi”beishouwangminmendezhongai，zaiqizhongtagaoduandaqidedashanshoufaxunsuzaihulianwangshangzaochenglewangmindetantaoheguanxin。《dashandashi》xushuleguanxin（wangrenjunshi）hebaokanshemeinvjizheqianqian（shishishi）tamenhehuorenjianlileyizhi“dashanfanzuituanhuo”，xianghuxiezhugezhonggeyangbuyiyangzhongleideshoutuoren，zaigezhonggeyangzhuangkuangxiajinxinglejianxindedashanmeirirenwu，zaijuliguanxinsuoyingyongdedashanfangshikuaguoshehuixintaixue、shuxueke、wulixue、weishengwu、naizhizirandilidenghaojigejishuzhuanyexingye，jutifangfawuhuabamen,jutizhidaozailianqingshangdaijiannandenanrennvrenmen，zhenxinchengyixianglingyifangshifangchulaiaidexinhao。《dashandashi》yishengdongerjianruidedejingdiantaicihebolanqifudejuqing，jifaguanzhongmenyikanjiujingdeqiuzhiyu。cijuyibochujiuhuodelezhongduowangminmenderepeng，zaizheiyilanmandeshengdanzhong，jidanshennannvqingnianrenmenwebduandashanjiqiao，yixiazi，jiaoniruhedashan，lirudashanwang，qingqingsongsongnaxianideneigeta。

 《dashandashi》jutuzhenduijulijinjinweiraode“dashan”zhuti，nvyihaoshishibiaoda“shiqifashengbianhua，nvhaiyingduiaideren，yeyingdangyaozhudongjingong、jijiqudashan”，zaishishilaikan，“zheiquanshinaxieshidaile，‘dashan’bingbuyidingshinanhaizidezhuanliquanle，worenweinvhaimenyudaozishenaideren，jiuyingdangjijiquchengxianzishen，rangaiderenrenshiziji。”zhenduinvshifensimen，shishiyeshijinbuzhuxiangguanzhongmenqianglietuijianzishenchuyande《dashandashi》：“xuduoxunzhaoganqingdegonglvehetiyi，douhuirenmenzheibudianshijuli，renmenmeiyijidoushijiaodahuoerbuyiyangdefangfa，youwanzhuande、youlijide、youqianghande、youpugongde，geshigeyangdegonglvezaijulidoushigaozhidahuoer，jianxin《dashandashi》zheibudianshijubixuburongyirangdahuoerxinhande。”《dashandashi》jiaoweijiejindangdainianqingrenjiaoweihenganxingqudehuatitaolun，biaodaxingshiyehenyoushidaiqixi，yongdushugaibianmingyun，yongkexueyanjiunaxiameizidezhutihenshoudahuoerreliehuanying，，youwangminbiaoda：《dashandashi》zheiyijudezhutifeichanghao，jishixiadanshennannvqingnianrenxiezuolexuduodashandejiyu，lirudashanwang，keshitashi1gekanyandeshehuifazhan，zaizhishanggaozhangdebutaihao，doumeiyouyong。duiyuwangrenjunzebiaoda，suirantashigekanyandeshehuifazhan，keshiruguonishoushangyoufaliangdian，daziranhuixiyinzhushenpangderenlaiyunidashan。

三、搭讪具有的标准

 1、danliang：richangshenghuo，zongyouneiyangdechangjing，renmenzaidachengshidejiaoluopengdaozuishaoshirongmaoshangrangzishendongxindenvxing。shichangranruoshidecashenerguo，huanshiyingyongdetaruqianwang，jianxinshixuduonanshengdoupengdaoguodenanti。shanghuobushang？daolegaizenmeshuohua？jiangguotahuifoumeiliwo？zainikaolvdaozheizhongnantideneishihou，yexunizaoyishiquhezheiyimmlejiehexiangchudejiyu。xiaorongdetaruqianwang，nijiuhuifaxiandashanwojuedefeichangrongyi。

 2、fengqu：dashanshijiarunengzhuyaobiaoxianmouxiefengqu，tongchanghuiyouzhuanweiweianhuoshixuezhongsongtandeshijixiaoguo，dantashikeyuerbukeqiude，jiduidashanzhebenshenyoubixuguidinglingwaiyequjueyubeidazhedemeiyouxiangying。liru，baqianzhongshugenyanglijuangeyikuaiergusuanjiushishuowuyong。

 3、yantanjuzhi：yiqieshierdejieguonenggoufenweihaozhongchajizhong，dashanyeshiruci。renmenpengdaodedashanzongtimubiaodagaifenjilei，xintaifeichangyoushande，niruhewennenggou；xintaifeichangjiduande，nizenmeshuoyebuqizuoyong；yeyoujiushishuozhengzhongjianzheixie，yejiushishuodashanfanzuibixuquzhengdedemm。tamencongshehuidaodeshangbingbushidichudashan，danshijiaojinidianhua，quebixuyaoyouchongzudeyuanyin。zheizhongqingkuangxia，nideyantanjuzhijiangjuecetaduinidedianping。

 4、biaomian：zheiyisuyangshitianshengjiuzaoyigudingbudongle，ruguonihoutianxingganlezhengxingshoushuzheileide。1geniceappearanceduidashanzheeryanjiushishuoyikuaierguanjiandedebibeipin，zheihuoxujiushishuonvdananfeichangrongyi，nandanvnandeyuanguqiyiba。zhenduidashanzheeryan，jibeidazhe1gehaodeshenkeyinxiangshizhiguanzhongyaode！dangnixiangwoxiangtongqimaobuyang，neimanenggougenjuqitacengmianlaipeichang，lirufuzhuang、xiangsheng、youmofengquzheixie，zheizhongxiangtongnenggouchaoguoliuyouhaodeyinxiangdemudi！

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