怎么和女生聊天：搭讪女生该如何找话题

 xuduomeiyoutanguolianqingdenanshengdoudanxinheyigekeaidenvshenggangkaishijiaoliuyugoutong。tabuxiaodegaizenmeshuohua，zuizhongquandoubuyongshuo; huoshigenghuai，shuocuohua。zenmehenvshengliaotian?dashannvshenggairuhezhaohuati?ruhe ☞tuodan ？

一、怎么和女生聊天：搭讪女生该如何找话题

zenmehenvshengliaotian?dashannvshenggairuhezhaohuati?

 jiaruninguoquyunvshengshuohuashipengdaokunnan，huoshibenzhihaipatiejintamen，qingzaiciyueduwenzhangxialiejiaoliuyugoutongliaomeijiqiao，zheizhongfangfahuirangninzaixiayicilianaiyouhuizaochenggongxiao。

1、刚开始会话

jinliangjianshaoduiqiwenfatiezi。zheijianghuishizheishuzhongzuichangjiandeshiyinxian。

 fanguolai，shizhexunzhaoyigeyuzhongbutongdeduiwaikaifangxian。jianquxianyoushihounenggougongzuozhong，danshiliuyiniyingyongdeshishenme。buzhengquedexianlunenggouganzouyigenvhai。nichangshuodequeshizaiyutazainali(zaishatan，ktv，jianshenguandeng)。

 yongnidekaichangcijiushishuozhenxinshiyide。dangniliuyidaoyigeyongyoupiaoliangshuangyandenvren(xianeryijiantameiyoudaizhewuyanliusedechupengzhe)，ninengjiangchuyijuhua，“ wojinjinliuyidaonideshuangyanyouduohaokan。nidaizhewuyanliusedeshoujilianxirenma?“dangtashuobu，ninenghuiying，” wa，woyiranmeifajianxinzheixieshidazirande。“

 bubitaiguosisuozheiyangdeshiqing。zaijiangchuyiqian，niwuxufanganmeiyiyingyudanci。zhixujueceyitiaokaijuxian，ranghuihuacongneibiandaziranliudongxing。nilejienideyudiaohuipanbiannixinlidejiaolvbuanma?yidingyaoliuyinideshengyin。ruguonitiejinyigepiaoliangnvhaishi，xiangxiangyixianizhengyunihaopengyoushuohua。zheijiangyouliyuweichinindeyudiaopingwenhebaochizhongli。

 zainitiejinyigenvhaiyiqian，meizhouyihuashifangyaliyixia。zhiliyujiedizhuangzhi，rangrentishifangyali，lingwaiweichizhanlizishi。ninnenggouzaizheilixiangxidelejieshentiyuyan。shuohuashi，miandaiweixiaobingkaizhanyanguangchupeng。jibianniyizhizaishatan，haiyaoquxianidetaiyangyanjing。jiarunvshengyijingxingzou，qing“yuanliangwo”gangkaishinidetanhuaneirong，neiyangjiuburongyishouzuwucuo。

 henduoyouhuijiaolianyuanjilitianmankuaileheqiuzhiyu。biru，jiaruniyaozaidajieshanghuodianpulizhaoyigenvhai，woxiangwenyixiata：“2genanti：nichouyan，niduigoupifuguominma?“jiarutaduierzheyebuhuiying，neiqueshuo，”hao，youyuyiqiebiedecankaodaandoushibianchengpohuan。“zaicishuo，”worenweinihentaorenxihuan...... “

 xunlianyurenherengangkaishihuihua - jiebianrenyideren，diaojiu，dianyuan，suoyouren - xiezhuchuangjiannidezhuanyejineng。ruguonijiandaoyigeniyaohetashuohuadenvshengshi，zheihuijinigengfeichangrongyi，huoxuzaoyihewuzilidebierenshuohuale。

 fangannvshengshigangkaishihuihuadehaofangshi(zainizhongzhiyueduwenzhangyiqian，qingtingwoshuo!)。wenyigeyouguantazuiaideyingpian，shujiehuozhimingrenshideshoufunanti，suihouduitazishendehuifuxiaoleyixia，shishishangshiyibianxiyinzhuta。

 nitiaoxuandezhutifenggejianghuizaiyuniduineiyitiandetihuiyouduoxinxin，keshiyidiankunaonenggoujiqitadereqing。chucizhiwai，ruguonimingquetichujianyihuotiyishi，nvshengmenxihuanta，youyuzheihuishitamenjuedeyoushiyongjiazhi。qidainizuikaishidenantinengchanshengyigequweidehuihua，ninengduitadejutiqingkuangyouyidingdezhangwo。

2、维持会话与难题

 yidannijinxingleqian30miao，jiugangkaishilehuihua。nvrenxihuantaolunzishen。dangnimingquetichuqiadangdenanti，nijibenshangwuxuzaitanhuaneirongzhongshuohua。shubuzhi，lingtingtachangshuodeneirongshifenguanjian(erbujinjiushiniyijinglingtingdegerenxingwei)。qingkaolvdaoxialienanti：

 zenmehenvshengliaotian?dashannvshenggairuhezhaohuati?dangniyijingyuzhigoutongjiaoliudenvshengyupenyouzaiyiqi，woxiangwenyixiatamen2gezenyangbianchengpenyou - dangniduizheiliangrendouhenganxingquerqiemeiyoujuecetiaoxuannayige，tashiyigefeichanghaodetiaoxuan。

 neimazheiyiyedian/julebudui/diquzuixihuannaxie?(lingyigejijizhudongdenanti;jiarutataoyantazainali，zheihuijinihaiyoujihuiyaoyuetafanhuinidediquhuobiedediqu。)

nixingmingzhongjiaodadereqingshisha?

 niyaolaiwomenjiaheyibeima?(nvrenxihuanlejiezishenyuanyinaxiedenansheng。jiarutanhuaneirongshunlikaizhan，bubidanxinwenzheiyishengsedenanti。)

3、大量提醒

 meiyijiansuoshidouhenguanjian。zailushangzhongtiejinyigenvhaishi，qingzaijianghuaqianqudaotashenpang。bubiconghoumianjinrutiejinta。liji。henduonvshengyizhiyudouburongyiguanniandaoniyizhizaitiaodou。dianyixiazheiliyueduwenzhangyixiangkexueyanjiu，zaiqizhongxianshixinxibushang20%denvshenglejiedaotiaodou。

 shuozhenhua。dangnishuohuanghuoshiduinimingquetichudenantibuxihuan，nvshenghuiliuyidaobingmashangtaoyanni。biewangjiwentadelianxidianhua!zheizuixianjiushinidezongtimubiao，duibudui?yibianxiezhuninchongfenzhunbei，qingdianyixiazheilizhangwonindetiaodoufangfa。

 dangniduiyigenvhaihenganxingquerqietaheyigetuanduizaiyiqi，bubidanxinrangnilejienihenganxingqudeshinajianvsheng。wengongzuozutamenzenyanghuxianglejie(yibaozhengtameiyouyiqi)tadeguanjianjiaosesuihoujiangtayupenyoufenli，gangkaishiyiduiyidehuihua。

4、依据

 zenmehenvshengliaotian?dashannvshenggairuhezhaohuati?zaiyitianwanbishi，baochishijizongtimubiaohenguanjian。zuichunijianghuihaoganga，danjienata。nvshengyehenxiuse。

 huijuehuichansheng - bubijixiwangyunitiejindiyi，dier，yizhiyudisangenvsheng。danzaizheiyangdeshiqingxia，“fangmaota，zhizhinibianchengta”degeyandequeheli。zaicishizhe，genjushangbiandetixing，niyidinghuihuodeyigelianxidianhua，yigeyouhuihuoyigexingfudeyeli!