搭讪的好处，你真的知道吗？

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1、魔鬼搭讪：拓展异性交友圈

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2、魔鬼搭讪：突破自我

erqie，zhongguodabufennanshengdoubuganzaijieshang、shangchang、chezhan、diantidengdifanggenzijixindongdenvhaidashan。

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随着你搭讪的次数越来越多，越来越熟练，你的自信心和勇气都会自然增强。

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3、搭讪学会分辨

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zongzhi，dashanbushizuizhongmude，mudezaiyunitongguodashantishengziwo、tupoziwo。