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第一步:一个人在家里随意翻开书或是看电视剧,抓到事儿便说一段,最少说五分钟,说到不打磕绊才行。
第二步:朋友探讨某件你没明白管闲事的情况下(非工作中、不然看起来你没技术专业),凑上去一本正经的说一段,可是最终要以“我是玩笑”的结束。
第三步:试着着和别人说说话;
第四步:正式开始当然涉入法搭话。
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