哪些成功率高的搭讪是如何做到的？怎么搭讪才有效

 yinggaizenmedashan？laohuashuoyirenweijing，nenggoumingdeyushi，erdahuagengshineiyangdeyigemingdeyushidegerenxingwei。dahuamoliandebingbushixiaoshouhuashu，liaotiandejiqiao，zhishiduiniquanburendezonghexingmolian，nidexinxin，nidexintai，nidechengshuqingkuangdoushizaidahuadeqingkuangxiapumianerlaierqujinvhailiuyouzuizhenshideyinxiang，liaotiangonglveyounaxie？liaotianmeihuatizenmeban？jiarunidezonghexingchengjigao，dahuatongguolvjiugao，jiarunidechengjidi，dahuajiufeichangrongyibeijujue。

jinridedahuaganhuozhishizhishuosangedian，buhangshengshuzhishuoxintaizhuangtaiguanjiandian。

最先，自身一定一定要很轻轻松松。

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 zaineiyangdeqingkuangxiawoyaoqugenhaogandudenvhaijianghuawenhaodeqingkuangxia，xiangshengbianhuibuzijuedeyuelaiyuehenliaoliang，henxinxin，zaizheileiqingkuangxia，wogennvhaijianghua，yehuishilveweimiandaiyidianxiaorong。

 zheileikendingqingqingsongsongdeqingkuang，bixudahuoerlejiebawo，bianshiruguonizouzaijieshang，youyizhongjunwangxunchaguotudejuede，nizouzailushangjiandaoyigeyizhegongziyifukuzideren，ganjuequweijiuhetadagezhaohu，buguannanrennvren...

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 naizhiniyizhizaidajieshangjiandaogenniyiyangchuqudahuadetaren，nijuedelingyifangyoudianeryisi，niyejiunenggouxiangqiangentamenshuoshuohua...

 zaiwoqinfenzuodaozheileishifangyalideqingkuangyihou，wobuxiangzaiyouyidesisuodahuadehuashugenfangfa，jiandaoxiaidenvhai，woyejijishanglaihetajianghua：

“nibujiuweiheyizhidingzhuwojuede”

“youmeiyourenshuoguonibilianggaopiaoliang？”

“woshihuilairenshinide！”

 ruguoniquanbudeshifangchudedongnengquanshishunxiangdeyouhaode，neimejiuburongyijitarenzaochengguaiyidejuede，fandaohuirangdahuoerganjuenishiyigeshifenxinggewaixiang，youxiuderen。liaotiangonglveyounaxie？liaotianmeihuatizenmeban？

 rutongdajiayoudeqingkuangxiahuipengdaoyixiequweideluren，tajiandaonijijigennishuojijuhua,huoshishinongmaoshichangdedaye，songcanyuandexiaohuo，gebideayi，jinixiaorong，meiyouyiqiemudijilenirurunwuwushengdezhaohu，huishenyouliqu...

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 yinggaizenmedashan？yongneiyangdeqingqingsongsongqingkuangqugennvhaidahuakaiju，keyijidadifangzhinvhaiyikaishijiufouren，keyiyoudaliangdejiyuzhanxianniziji。

次之，一定要学好思考。

youbiaozhundedixiong，nenggougenliaojiyiqichulaidahua，xianghuzhijiansikaolingyifangbeishejideqingkuang，shentiyuyan，yantanjuzhi。

jiunazijidagebifang：daqiantianyouyicineiyangbeishejidezhuangkuang，

 youyudangridahuadetongguolvtaigaole，yinciquanburenyoudianerpengzhang，zaidahuayigeliangrenzudeqingkuangxia，yudiaoxiangbipingshisuibianleguoduo，youyukeyichajuedaonvhaiyijianshiyinxianghaibucuo，yincihoubiandejihuihuihua，duolexuduoyuqizhuci。

 yihouzaisikaodeshibeishejidequanguochengwonengfajue，jiaruhuanzuoshinvhai，yinweiwohuiganjueyixiebushigan，youyunanhaizizhuyaobiaoxiandedahuayuqitaixianshule，haoxiangshibeihaodejingdiantaiciyiyang，zheihuirangnvhaidanyounanhaizishijishuzhuanyehuaxinnan。

 yincigenjucicishejijiubangwoqiaoxingguolaiqiaojingzhong，buguanzhihoudedahuahegennvhaijiaowangshizairuheyuanman，zaiyudiaoshangbianhuanshiyaobaozhengzhenxinshiyi。xinxinjinguanshiyoushi，keshijiarubianhuanweizihao，neimejiuhuizaochengnvhaidedichu。

 dahuajihudoubingbushikaobeidequanguocheng，dahuoeryeqianwanbieyongtongyigexiaoshouhuashutongyizhongfangfa，qudahuabuyiyangdenvhai，neiyangdedahuahuijinizhongzhidongnaojinsisuo，neiyangdedahuabujiaodahua，zhishituiguangchanpin，zhibuguoshitarentuixiaochanpinchanpin，dannijieshaoziji。

jinyouchixuqugaijinzishendexiguanyangcheng，liaotianhuati，baituoleshushiquancaikeyishiniderenjijiaowangjiqiaogengjiashulian。

最终，品牌形象难题

 zhenduidahuaeryan，pinpaixingxiangshiyigeshifenguanjiandeyaosu。jiusuanshiyiyangchuse，yiyanggaoshiyongjiazhideliangren，jiaruhuanyigebuyiyangdepinpaixingxiang，tadetongguolvbianhuiyinerchanshengfeichangdadezhuanbian。

yigechusedewaizaipinpaixingxiangbuzhishiduinvhaidezhongshi，yeshiduizishendegaoduzhongshi。

 wojiangzheizhongbingbushigaozhidahuoer，yaodahuayiqianwubigaohaopinpaixingxiangcaichulai，shiqidaidahuoermeiridoukeyipeiyangweihubaoyangzishenpinpaixingxiangdexiguanxing，ronghediyidiandeqingqingsongsongyingdui，dajiameiyitianbixugaohaoqulejiexindenvhaidetiqianzhunbei。

 yincimeiriwaichuyiqian，yidingyaozishenxiyixixiufazuoxiatouxing，chuanshangzishenxiaideyifukuzi。zhiqianzaijiagongchangdeqingkuangxia，wohenxihuanjingmeidexifu，meirichuanzhedabandehenqizhengqushangban。shenpanghuichuxianyixiexianyanxianyushuowo：chuanzhedabandeneimeshuaishiqujiehuna？

 neishihouwodexinliniantoubianshi：qitaxinlangguanyibeizijianghuijinyouzaiwanhunneiyitiancaisuanshizuikude，keshiwomeiripinpaixingxiangdougentamenwanhunneiyitianyiyangshuai，dengzhewoqueshizuoxinlangguanneiyitian，yinweiwoyidingnenggoubitarenchuse。congneishigangkaishi，zhenduipinpaixingxiangdeguidingjiugangkaishitoushenchuya，meiriquanshigengweichusedezishen。

 zuizhongkanlejinridewenzhangneirong，dahuoerhaowuyiwenhuifajue，wojiaodahuoerdezheizhongdashanjiqiaodoubingbushidangzhongyongchuqudeyouzhixiaoshouhuashu，quweizhaoshu。zhishicongshenhouhenxiagongfudexiulianfangfa。

 yinggaizenmedashan？shijishangrujindenvhaimenzhenduidahuazheijianshiqingzaoyikeyiguangfanjiena，yincizaineiyangdeziranhuanjingzhizhong，dabipinzhaoshuhekaichangcibianhuikanqilaishifenpianji，jiusuanzheigekaichangcishifenquweihaowaner，danshijiarunvhaishineileihenchuantongdezhonglei，shejihuanshiwukebimian。