在咖啡厅遇到女生应该怎么搭讪？搭讪的技巧有哪些

 mouyitianzhongwuwozouruyijiakafeiguan，xiangxiexiyihuier，zuozheyihouyitaiyan，fajuelinzuoduzuozheyiweidixiatoukanshoujidepiaoliangmeinv。dashandejiqiaoyounaxie？zuoweigangweidahuafan，woziranbukeyicuoguoneiyangdejiyu，dancishidiyijuhuagaishuoshenmeni？liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？zenyangtigaoqingshang？

 dashandejiqiaoyounaxie？zheixienianwohaixiaizhijieledang，anxingyujiujiao“lijikaiju”，lirudahuakuaicandianliyongcandenvsheng，dajiahuixianzaiduimianzuozhe，suihoushuo：“wojuederenshini，wonengzuozhezheierma？”lingyifangjiaruhuiying“bufangbian”，dajiashuoju“dajiao”zhanqijiuzou；lingyifangjiarushuo“keyiya”，dajiajiugangkaishixianliao。zheileifangfadahuadetongguolvyibanyou30%～40%，ziranqiantitiaojianjiushinipinpaixingxiangtongguan、yanxingjuzhidedang。liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？zenyangtigaoqingshang？。

 shuobailejianjiexingkaiju，bianshigenjuxianliaoyixieyu“wojuederenshini”buxianggandehuatitaolungangkaishidedahuafangfa。zheizhonghuatitaolunnenggoushixunqiubangzhu，haikeyishiduizhoubiandemoushiwulijifabuguandian。

 keshidabufenrendouhuibuzhengquediyingyongjianjiexingkaijuqudahua，liruyixienanshengjiandaozishenxiaidenvsheng，naoxiuchengnuhuiyongzhiludefangfadakaigoutongjiaoliu，danshidangnvshenggaozhihuidayihou，tajiubukeyidangrandizhuanzhi“wojuederenshini”zheiyihuatitaolunshangbianle，zhiyouxingxingdishunzhenvshengqiangdiaodefangweiliqu。

 wangwanghuichuxianzheileiwukenaihedejieguo，jiuqujueyuzheixierenhaipabaoluxianglejielingyifangdezhenzhengyaoqiu，tamenlaoxiangzhegaizishendeyongyi，yincijiuba“xunqiubangzhu”yandetaizhenle，shijishangzheichedimeibiyao。qinggouxiangyixia，jiaruyouyigerenyibenzhengjingnaizhiyoudianzhejidiweinizhilu，keruguoniduitashuogaiwangnalizoudeqingkuangxia，tahuranhuafengyizhuan，laiyiju：“xiexienile，zannengfouzaijiageweixin？”……zheileituqiongbijiandejuedeshifoushifenkepa？zheideshiduomedezhuangshachongleng、bieyouyongxindeyouxiurencaigandechuqudeshia！sheiganzaijieshanggenzheiyangderenzuopengyouni？

 yincijianjiexingkaijudezhongyaojiuqujueyu“bukeyibaxunqiubangzhuyandetaizhen”，qiadangdezuofaganghaoshi“jiuxuyaojiayixie”，yaoqingqingsongsonggaoxiaoyoumo，rangyiqiezhengchangqingshangzhishangderenyixiajiukeyikanchuqu“zheihundanshilaidahuade”。dashandejiqiaoyounaxie？neiyangkaijuyihou，jiarubierenxiangrenshini，dangranhuiyongyoushandexintaijienidehua，suihoudajiajiuchenjixiantan；jiarubierenbuyuanrenshini，ziranbianhuiyongwenminglimaohuoshiyansurenzhendexintaidafuni，neimanilijidazhujiukeyile，wuxuzaizizhaomeiqu。liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？zenyangtigaoqingshang？

donglezheiyidadaoli，xiabianzaicijiangwoshizenmedashankafeiguandelinzuopiaoliangmeinvde。

 wojuedetazaikanshouji，yincizishenyequchushoujishang，zhuangzuotuodongleliangxia，suihouzhangkouwenta：“ng，nideshoujizaizheieryoushujuxinhaoma？”

女生说：“有啊。”

wojixushuo：“guaiyiya，woshizhongguoliantongde，nishinagede？”

nvshengshuo：“woshidianxinwangde。”

jiexiaquxiweichulaidao，woxiaozheshuo：“yi，zhenqiao，gangwenwanni，zhongguoliantongdeshujuxinhaohuahuadijiulaile……”

zheihuawojiangdeziranhenjia，mudibianshiyisibuguadeguancha。

 guanchadejieguofeichanghao，nvshengxiaole，bingqiegaoxingdehenkaixin，yinciwoyeshifangyalidihetazaicixianliaole，shiduofenzhonghouhaibanlaidaotadecanzhuobianzaiciliao，zuizhongmingzhengyanshundihuliulelianxidianhua。

 danshi，zongdelaishuo，jiaruyunshimeihenhao，nvshengtingjianwodeguanchayihou，jinjinwenminglimaodixiaoyixiahuoshichixiaohuoshibuxiao，neimayinweiwoburongyizaiduojiangnaxie，dixiatoukanshouji、helexianmokafeilikaijiukeyile。

 xiaojieyixia，jianjiexingkaijuyoulianggeguanjiandian：yi、tuocibianshituoci，juebunengtaizhen，bianshiyaoranglingyifangkandechunishilaidahuade。tuocidemudibingbushiyangaizhenxiang，zhishirangbicijiexiaqudetiaoxuanjintuiyoudu。

间接性开局沒有固定不动招数，是运用实际自然环境

 liruwoshilizhongdefandianzaididi，neimayingyongyidongxinhaozuoweihuatitaolunjiujiaoweidangran，woleyigedangranquebuzhenzheng、fukuaquebuxuqingjiayidehuatitaolunzuoweijianjiexingkaiju。dashandejiqiaoyounaxie？ziran，wofaxianlehenduorenbumingbai“dangran”yu“zhenzheng”、“fukua”yu“xuqingjiayi”dezhenshichabie，zheicaisuanshiyouxierenshishejiaomeitidasheneryouxierenbingbushidezhijieyuanyin。