怎么和心仪的女生搭讪？怎么搭讪才正确？不懂的一定要看

 henvshengjianghuashi，ninengzhizhiwuwu，jiejiebabama？niyaogenggaizheileizhuangkuangma？neimejiuyongyigenijuedeshuangfangdouhenganxingqudehuatitaolunlaidashan。zheiyangyilai，ninengganjuegengquwei，hetaliaodaogengtoujixing。zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？hezheiyiduinilaijiangfenwaiguanjiandenvshenggoutongjiaoliushi，ninengjuedegengshushi，ganjueshijianguodehenkuai。dashanshi，niyinggaiyongyoushanersuibiandexintaitiejinta，biaomingniyaozhangwotadeniantou，zhenxinchengyikuazanta，yingyongduiwaikaifangdeshentiyuyan，rangtazaochengfeichangdejuede。zheikanshangqushifenkunnan，danyaoshizuoxiexunlian，niyejiunenghejibenshangyiqienvshenggaotankuolun，bufeiliqi。liaotianchangyonghuatiyounaxie？zenyangdashan？

搭讪

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贴近时，一定要维持信心的身体语言。挨近她时，抬起头，凝望正前方，保持稳定的人体姿态。

jiarunidenglehenzhangqicaiquwenhao，tajianghuihuiganjuezishenbeihulvele。

 jiandanziwojieshao。nijinyongshuo："ninhao，wodemingzijiaozhangyuan，qingwennijiaoshenme？"huoshi"wodemingzijiaozhangyuan，feichanggaoxingrenshini。"niyaonenggouxianliaoyiliaodajiazhongjiandexiangtongdian，liruyiqishangdeke。dangtahuiyingbingjiangchuzishendexingmingshi，shenshou，huanhuandehetahuishou。bubiganjuenankan。ziran，neiyangzuojianghuilingrenganjueyoudianerjiupai，danchengshuderenxiaiyongzheileifangfalaizuojiandanziwojieshao。jiarunizaoyilejielingyifang，nenggouzhiwenhao，danyidingyaohantadexingming。

了解女孩子的名字后，闲聊的情况下提几回，让她了解你聊到很资金投入，听得很细心。仅用喊一到2次姓名就可以了。

 chengxianzhenshidezishen。fangsongyidian，zaizheigenvshengyanqianzhanxianzhenshidezishen。jiaruniyoumofengqu，nenggoudoutaxiao。jiarunijiaoweiyansurenzhen，nenggouhetaliaoyiliaojiquweiyouyouzhelidehuati，chufeishinixiaiwanxiao，buranwuxujiangguoduodeduanzi。chucizhiwai，jinguannixuyaozhangwota，danniyeyingdangziwojieshaodezhuangkuang，rangtakeyizhangwoni。yaozhanxianzhenshiziwo，tashibukehuoquede。keshibuguannizenmezuo，bubiyizhitaolunzishen，wenyiwentadezhuangkuang，jibianbuyuanlejie，niyeyingdangduitadehuiyingzhuyaobiaoxianchushenhoudexingquaihao。

记牢，尽管做真实的自身很重要，可是不必谈及怪异的事儿，例如这些会让别人说"你得多了解一下他……"的个性特征。不必把她吓退！尽可能讨论大家都很感兴趣的事儿。

 xiaorong。xiaorongshifenyouxiao。zheizhengshinixiaihetaxianliao，ganjuehenshufu，zheihuirangnvshengzaiciyunitanxialai。jinkenengrangxiaobiaoqingdangranyidian，xiaorongshilveweiqiaoqilaizuiba，zaishidudeqingkuangxia，zhangkaizuibahahadaxiao。niwuxuyizhixiaorong，keshizaijiaotanyikaishidejinyaoguantouwailuzheileixiaobiaoqing，nenggourangnvshengganjuenihenshangxita。jiarutashuolenaxieyouqudehua，jiuxiaoyixiao。

笑容能够让女生释放压力，让她感觉你确实喜爱听她讲话。

ziran，bubiyizhixiaorong，buranninengkanqilaihenjiaolvbuan，naizhidaitoudainao。

 bubitangerenhuatitaolun。jiarulingyifangjiushinixiaidenvsheng，nidezuihoumudiziranshishenrulejielingyifang，danwojuededaibiaozhegangpengmianmeiduojiu，niyejiuyingdangtaolunzishenduishiqunainaidedaonian，huoshixiangxishuomingzishenbeibumaochudezhenzi。fanguolai，niyinggaitiaoyixieburongyidezuilingyifang，erqienenggousuiyitaolundeqingqingsongsonghuatitaolun，lirudajiadexiaochongwu、zuiaideletuanhuogerenaihao，zheiyangyilai，zaishenrulejiexianghuyiqian，nikendingbuhuirangnvshengganjuenanshou。zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？zaiguanjiandianshangfanyingnizaiyilingyifang，nenggourangtamenkaixinyizhengtian。

 xiancongqingqingsongsongdehuatitaolungangkaishiliaodao，buyiweizheniyinggaitiaoxuankuzaofaweidehuatitaolun。bubiyibianfangzhishejidaoyidiangerenxinxi，ertaolunqiwen。chufeishizainidingjudediqudajiadouhenguanzhuqiwen，buranzheibushiyigehaohuatitaolun。liaotianchangyonghuatiyounaxie？zenyangdashan？

 rangjiaotandangranjinxing。youshihouliangrenhuiyijianrugu，gangkaishiduixianghudakaixinfei，jinduhuibitamenzijiyuqideyaokuaideduo。jiarunvshenggangkaishiduinigeshujijian，zhenxinshiyixinlaini，neimaniyenenggouduojiangyidian。

 rangtaganjuefeichangxunzhaoxiangtongdian。changshibahuatitaolunyindaodajiadouguanzhudefangweishang，lirunidui''xiaoqu''dechenmihuoniduiqichedexiai。niwuxuyincierwentayixieteshudenanti，liruxiaishuipingpaimingqianwudeletuan、shicaizhonglei、gerenaihaohuoyundongfangshideng。ninengrangjiaotandangranjinxingbingxixinqingting，kankefouxunzhaodajiadouxihuandedongxi，huoshikefourangtazhuyidaonideaihao。lirunisuiyitijizishenzuoriqudangchangkanguohengdadesaishi，neimaruguoshiguangzhouhengdadefensi，tahuiyouyidingdefanying。

xianliaoshi，baozheng nitideshimeifayongshibushilaihuiyingdekaifangshiwenti，neiyangjiaotannenggouyizhikaizhanxialai。

 yidingyaofangzhinankandejianmo！jilao，weiyounirangjiaotanyuelaiyuenankandeqingkuangxia，fenweicaihuinankan，xinxinyidian，jinkenengrangjiaotandangranjinxing。

ruguonijuededajiazhongjianmeiyouxiangtongdian，bubiqinei。yaoshiliaodaohenkaixinerqieshijianchongzuzhang，nichangchangfajuexiangtongdian。

huoxuzuizhongnifajuedajiaxiangtongdianhenshao，keshihentouyuan，youyudajiayongyouleisidegexinghuahuojianjie。zheiyehenhao。

 ruguonitijizishenxiaideletuanshi，wenyiwentashibushiyexiaizheiyiletuan，zaitaolunzishendelingwai，ranglingyifanglejienizaihutadeaihao。

 jianghuashi，kanjianlingyifangdeshuangyan。tashilingyizhongrangtajuedefeichangdefangshi 。niwuxuxiangzaitadeyanlixunzhaozishendedaoyingneibanfuxianglianpian，zheihuibatahetui，keshiniyinggaibazijiquanbudezhuanzhulidoufangdaotadeshenshang，bubidixiatouwanshouji，yebubizuoguyoupandiguanchayoumuyougengnengzaochengnixingquaihaoderenlijing。ninengyoushihouzhongduanyanshenjiaoliu，danmudijinjinyibianrangjiaotangengweiquwei，erbushishuomingnihenwuliao。

看见她的双眼表明你很信心。假如你有意和那个女人对望，她会感觉你有信心能够掌握她。

 duitadeniantouhejianjiezhuyaobiaoxianchuxingquaihao。yongxintingtashuodehua。nvshengdouxiaixiangyaolingtingerqieganjuezishenyuyanquweidenanhaier。bubiyizhiyongnidejianjieqieduanta，rangtabazijideniantoushuochulai。keshi，niyinggaizaishidudeqingkuangxiadiandiantou，shuo"shi"huo"bingbushi"binghuiyingtadenanti，rangtalejieniyizhizaiyongxinlingting。

taolunnizaihudewanshiwanwu，lirunizuiaidegequ，yingjidechaoliuqushihuoyouyidebiyaoxing，wenyiwentadeguandian。

 jinguanzhangwotadejianjiehenzhongyao，danjinkenengbubiliketaolunzongjiaoxinyanghuozhengye，burannijianghuihuishenxianyichangchuhuyiliaodezhengzhi。

 zaitajianghuashi，yidingyaozuochudafu，youshihouzhongshutashuodehua，shuomingniyizhizailingting。ninengshuo："hebanzhiyididepenyoubaochilianluoshifenjiannan，zaizheiliyidianshang，wobiaoshitongyinidejianjie……"，rangtalejienitingdehenyongxin。

 jitayixiebutaicusudefengcheng。yibianshuomingnizaiyita，niyinggaikuazantadexingqinghuobiaomian，keshibubihezhuta。jiarunixiaitatingdegequhuoshitakandeshu，jiukuazantayoupinwei。kuatadefuzhuang、xiufahuoshipindoumeiyounanti，keshijinyoudangnvshengganjuenizhuzhongdebudanshitadebiaomianshi，nicaikeyizhenshihuodetadexin。chucizhiwai，jiarunizixinmanman，haikeyizaifengchengtadeqingkuangxianuanweiyidian。

 jiarunitiaoxuanfengchengtadebiaomian，bubichaoguofuzhuang、xiufadengfanchou，jiaruguanlianjiaoweiqinmiwujian，niyenenggoukuazantadeshuangyan。zainvshenghaibuzhidaoniquanchengdezhuangkuangxia，kuataxingganmirenhuibatahetui，tashibushihede。

假如她微笑很漂亮，你能直率地赞美。

 wenyiwentadexuexipeixun。niwuxuwentazuiaishuxuejiaoxuedenayibufen，zheihuirangtaganjuewuqu。keshi，ninengwentazuiaiyuanxiaolidenayigexueke，zuiainayigejiaoshi，naizhicongeryinshenchulai，tantaotazhangdayihouxiangganshenme，genjuzheileifangfa，shuomingniduitadexingquaihao。bubijinjindiandiantoufuhe："henquwei……"，ninengwentaweishenmexihuanmouyixueke，huoshiweihetazhangdayihouxiangdanghulirenyuanhuoxingshibianhulvshi。

yixienvshengbuyuanduotanxuexipeixun。ruguonijuedelingyifangmeiyouxingquaihao，jiuzhaodianbiedehuatitaolun。

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shenzhongyidian。chufeishiniquedingtakeyilejie，buranbubijifengta。

canzhaotadezuofa。jiarutayoushihoujifengni，ninenghuijita。keshiyaobaozheng nikaidewanxiaohuahetakaideyiyang，buguofen。

让她维持兴趣爱好

 doutapengfudaxiao。nvshengxiaikeyibatamendouledenanhaizi。dandachongfenfahuinidefengquheyoumofengqu，yaoshiyikaishishibubiguoduyoutiaodouxinghuotaibuheluojijiukeyile。niwuxuyikaishijiuyongyilianchuandexieyinxiaohualaixiyinzhutadezhuanzhuli，jinyongzuochuruilidepingjia，duitajiangdeduanzixunsudafu，bingduishenpangdeshiqingfabuyuzhongbutongdekanfa，rangtashenxiansisuojiukeyile。fangsongxintai。jiarujiniyoumofengqu，shanyugaoxiaoyoumohuojianglengxiaohua，jiuzaitayanqianzhuyaobiaoxianchuqu。

 jiarunichangshijiangleyigexiaohua，keshitameixiao，rangtalejienimeiyouwangneixinqu。ninengshuo："huoxuwoxiayicijiangdeduanzihuigaoxiaoyidian……"，zheihuibatadoule。

 jiarutafabulequweideguandian，bubizhishuo"zhenyouqu"，mashanghuiyijumiaoyu，chengxianniyoumodeyimian，huoshihetayiqixiao。

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nvshengjiandaoniduizishenchongzuxinxin，buyouyidiquyuetashi，yunigoutongjiaoliudeyixiangfandaohuigengmingxian。

 jiaruniyibianlianertouji，yibianxuanyaozishenshenxingduomehao，huoshituoquyifuhouquanshenjirouduomedepiaoliang，tazongshidiaotoujiuzou。

 weichixinxin。duizishenyaoyouxinxin，buyaohaipashuoshahua。niyuefadanxin，yuefeichangrongyifancuowu。nijinyongzaicihetagoutongjiaoliu，bubizaihujiaotanzhongyoushihouchuxiandenankan、jianmohuoshixiuyuqichidexiaogushijiukeyile，weichijijizhudong、shifangyalihekaixindexintaizhuangtai，tahuiganjueyunigoutongjiaoliugengweiquwei。bubiguoduodexiaojibeiguan，jibiannirenweineiyangkeyidoutahahadaxiao，doubuyingdangcaiyongzheileifangfa，burantahuiganjuenihenbuzixin。

niwuxugenjuziwochuixulaiweichixinxin。ninengtaolunzishenduilanqiudexiai，danbubigaozhitanishidapaimingxingzuqiuyundongyuan。

信心的一个标示便是可以自我调侃。这会让她了解你不是那麼敏感比较敏感。

 weichishifangyali。jiarunijiaolvbuan、liuhanhuodanxin，nvshengkandechu。juedejiaolvbuanshi，jiujianmanshengyinsudu，bazhuanzhulicongzizhenjuzhuoqianyidaoxianliaodehudongjiaoliushang，bubibaibuzishendeliangshouhuozuoguyoupan。jiarunimeishifangyalichulai，nvshenghuizaoshounijiaolvbuanxintaideganqi，yeyuelaiyuejiaolvbuanqilai。shenxiqi，jianmanzishendeshengyinsuduhezishi，xiangxiangjianghuichanshengdeshizhuangkuang，bubizongzuozuihuaidedasuan。

jiarunifeichangjiaolvbuanerqiezhuyaobiaoxiandeshifenxianzhu，nenggoucongcikaijiaxiaowanxiaohua，laishifangyali。

jiarunishirongyijinzhangdezhonglei，jiusuishenxiedaipingshuihuotansuanyinliao，youshihouheyixiaokou，rangzishenpingjingxialai，chuanyikouqi。

 bubiyibianzaitayanqianzhuyaobiaoxianzishenersahuang。hetajianghuashiyaochengxin，bubikuadaqicikeguanshishi。qinglizishenshirendebenneng，danneiyangzuodayuli。jiaruniqueshixiangzhangwota，xiaita，ertazuizhongfajuenishuolehuang，zheihuijinishifennankan，huihuaitadexinlaihedajiazhongjiandeguanlian。zaitayanqian，bubiyiyiqiefangshizhuangqiangzuoshi。

即便她一时沒有发觉，别人或别的女生也会发觉，你一直在她眼前主要表现得更为突显。

 ruguonihezheiyinvshenghaihuijixupengmian，huanghuazhongjiuhuibeijiechuan。jiaruniqidaitaduiniyouganjue，jiuyingdangrangtaxiaizhenshideni，congyikaishijiudeneiyang。

 weichilianghaodexintai。lingrenpengfudaxiao、juedekaixinhuozishenyongyoujijizhudongderenshengguan，shitaoxidetexing，dajiaxiaihezheiyangderenjiaowang。ruguonijuedezishenbaozaoyinu，huoshiganjuezhenggeshijiedouhuiyuniduizhegan，neimanijianghuiyingdanghuanyigeshijianzaiqutiejinnvsheng。taolunzheixiejinikaixindeshiqing，zhiliyudajialianggerendoushiyouguodekaixinqinshenjingli。duixianghudezhangwogengweishencengcihou，dajianenggouduotanyixiexiaochendeshier，keshiyikaishishi，jiaruniyaoduoliaoyihuier，jiuyingdangweijiaotandinghaokendingjijizhudongdezhuxuanlv。

 jiarunishuolexiaochendehua，naizhinenggouzishenlanzhuhuatou。jiarutaxunwennijiaotongtiaojianzenyang，ernijuede"henbujinrenyi"，neimayibiantianbuzishenliuluchulaidefumianqingxu，ninengshuo："keshiwoxihuanzhengzaitingdezheibuxinyoushengduwu"，huoshi"keshiwozouzailushangkandaoleyiqunlu，taitaorenxihuanle。"

 jiarutatijiyigenishifenfangandeletuan，xunwenniganjueruhe，ninengneiyangshuo："womeiruhetingguotamendege"，huoshi"tamenbingbushirangwoxindong，keshihaibucuo。"diyicigennvhaiziliaotianshi，buyaobaoyuanjiniduomedefanganmoushiwu。

 huodetadelianxidianhua。jiaruniqueshihenxihuanzheiyinvsheng，nenggoulejietadeyoujiandizhi、lianxidianhuahuoshiweixinhaoma，neiyangninengjiatashoujiweixin。yuetachulaishi，ninengzhijieyidian，danjiarunijinjinxiaita，xiangzhihouzaihetaliaoyiliao，ninengneiyangshuo："wodelikaile，danxiwangzhihounenggouzaitanyitanzheiyihuatitaolun。wokeyirangnitongdianhuaranhouliaoma？"tahuiguoduanditongyi。

 jiarunijiaoweixiuse，jiuzhaotayaoweixinhaomahuoyoujiandizhi，jitafayixiegaoxiaodeneirong，liruwangluomanhuahuogaoxiaotiezidelianjie。neiyanglianluobuxiangtongdianhuaneibanfeichangrongyilingrenjuedenankan，keshinenggourangtazhuyidaoni，jinizaojiuzaidupengmiandejiyu。

 zaijiaotankaizhandeshifenyuanman，erqiejinixuduoyouqudewentinenggoutaolundeqingkuangxia，xiangtasuoqulianxidianhua，bubizhidaolianggerenmeiyouhuashuodeqingkuangxiazaizhaotayao，burantajianghuibuyuanyizaiyunipengmian。

小贴士

liaotianchangyonghuatiyounaxie？zenyangdashan？yidingyaoweichiyanshenjiaoliu