怎么克服搭讪恐惧？搭讪技巧哪些好

 ruhejiaoyou？suiranhenduorendoukanlexuduodahuadejichuzhishi，keshiyaoxiangfuzhushijianqudahuahuanshibutaigan、song。weihe？youyudahuahaipaa。shenmejiaodahuahaipa？zenyangbaituodahuaxintaikongju？zenmedashan？dashanjiqiaoyounaxie？

一、什么叫搭话害怕？

 shuobailedahuahaipa，bianshiyaoxiangxiangqiankaizhandahua，keshiyouyudanxinbeijujuededuozhongduoyangyuanguerzaochenghaipa.xiangqiankaizhandahua。ruhejiaoyou？dajiameiyigerendoushiyoudahuadeyuwang，keshiyinweineixinmianyouyikedahuakongjudexintaizhuangtaiyincihaipaxiangqian，shijishangaimeizhixinshimeigerenyoude，yongyuzhengshiziji，yongyuxiangqiandahuacaisuanshiguanjiansuozai。zenmedashan？dashanjiqiaoyounaxie？

二、搭话恐惧产生缘故

1.担心没面子

 shijishangxuduo derenhaipa.xiangqianda.shangdeguanjianyuangubianshidanxinlingyifanghuihuijuezishen，yedanxinzhoubianderenduanzizishen，keshizheishiyaoxiangqudahuaderenyingdangxixindexiangyixia，yaoxianggenshuainandahuaderenjiushinibingqielingyifanghuanshiyigebulejiezijideren，jiarubeizheiyishuainanhuijuedehualebuqibianshihuidaoyuandianle，zhenduinvhaieryandehuabingmeishenmesunhai。zenmedashan？dashanjiqiaoyounaxie？

2.负罪感的提升

 shijishangyouhenduorenhuijuededahuashiyizhongqingtiaodexingwei，erzheiyiyebushiwenmingxingwei、bufuzerende，naizhitamenhaihuijixuyinererzaochengfuzuigan，ruhejiaoyou？shijishangdahuajinjinyulingyifangxiangzhixiangshidemudi，yincinvshengyaoxiangxiangqiandahuadehuadoumeiyoubixujizijijijiyutarendahuaerjuededaodanxu。

3.拿缘份当托词

 shijishangyouhenduoderenhaipaxiangqiandahuayekao--zhongxintaianwei，youyuzheizhongdenvhaiweizijizhaodeyuanyinjiushidajiahuanshiyouyuanzaicixiangjiande，keshizaidajiarujinrichangshenghuozaiyigeliutongxingdeshehuifazhanzhizhong，dajiajinricuoguoxianghu，neimadajiazhongjianjiuhuiyoukenengshiyibeizicuoguoxianghu。

三、怎样摆脱搭话心态恐惧？

 dahuahaipaguigenjiedi，zishencaisuanshijiaoda deduishou。baituodiyicidahuadehaipa，zhenduiyoudereneryan，dabufenyagenjiusuanbudeshenmezuai，naizhiyagenjiumeiyou。danshizhenduiyoudereneryan，huanshiyoufeichangdehaipade，tashiyijiduren。

 xiangduinishuodeshiwomenyaozhengshizijidechongdong，zhuisuizishenxinlideniantou。jiarunizaoyixiangxiang，neijiuyaoxingdongba。zhenshideduishoushizishen。baituodahuadehaipabianshiyinianzhichadeshier。zaidahuadeqingkuangxia，bubixintaizhuangtaizaikangzhengdaodishidahuanshibupeini？wangwangdouhaimeizhanshengkongju，baituodiyibu，yuangubianshimeiyicizaixintaizhuangtaikangzhengdeqingkuangxia，yizhibupeidexiangfayingdeshengli。zheishiwozheimeduonianhaipaxiashouhuodedegongzuojingyan。zuizhongdoushixialiehuizaidabaweituocitiaoxuanleduobi。

 dangwomenquelijuededaozishenqudechenggongdibaituozuai，chaoyueziwodeqingkuangxia，quedingxiayiciyongyuqudahuadeqingkuangxia。neijianzhiyizhongmeihaodejuede。zheizhongganjuejinijianxinzijishichusede，zishenshinenggouzouchushushiqu，chaoyueziwode。jiniganjuenizuobiedeshieryeyidinghuiqudechenggong。

 shenmejiaodahuahaipa？zenyangbaituodahuaxintaikongju。zaibaituoledahuahaipayihou，shijishangdahuabujinnenggouyingyongzainannvjiaowangdangzhong，zenmedashan？dashanjiqiaoyounaxie？dahuashijishangshiyizhongshejiaomeitifangfa，zairichangshenghuozhongnenggoulingrenfazhan。yizhongzhenxinshiyide，dangrande，zunzhongbierendedahuafangfagengnengdedaotarendehaogandu。