恋爱初期聊天没话题怎么办？应该怎么找话题

 yikaishizaiyiqidelianren，bicijianghuihuoduohuoshaohuiyixienankan,，yinggaizenmedashan？youyuxianghuhaibingbushifeichangdelejie，yinci qinglvzhijiandejiaoliuyugoutongshihenzhongyaode，zenmehelingyibanjiaowangshihenduorendouxiangyaozhidaode。liaotiangonglveyounaxie？liaotianmeihuatizenmeban？

谈恋爱前期应当怎样交往沟通交流

 yibandangyiduinanrennvrentanlianaideqingkuangxia，quanshifanchongxianghujiandegerenaihaogangkaishide，lianggerenzaiyikaishijiaowangdeqingkuangxiabuqingchugailiaoshenmede，nenggou xiancongxianghujiandegerenaihaogangkaishi。yinggaizenmedashan？huoshi，ninengcongtazhoubianpenyouneibiandatingyixia，kanyixiatadexingquaihaoaihaoshishenme，huoshishipingshiaichishaxihuanshenmeyulexiuxianfangfazheileide，youhuoshilianggerennenggou yijulingyifangdegangweihuoshishijishuzhuanyejinxingyixiehuatitaolun，neimezuoyekeyirangdajiaxianghugengweishencengcidezhangwoxianghu。liaotiangonglveyounaxie？liaotianmeihuatizenmeban？

 shijishangxuduo qingkuangxialiangrenzaiyiqiliaodehuatitaolunmeifabianshirichangshenghuodeyixiesuosui，youyulianggerengangzaiyiqijianghuibingbingbushishifendelejie。zheigeshihouniyejiunenggou jiangnizairichangshenghuozhongdesuowensuojian，huoshijiushinizaishenghuoqijuyushangdeyixiejiaoweigaoxiaohaowanerdeshiergongxiangjilingyifang，xianghujiangongxiangshenghuoqijuyeshizengjinqingganfeichanghaodefangfa。

 jiaruniyaoxiangyiduanpingwendeqinggan，neimazuizhongyaodeyidianbianshidajiazhongjianshikeyiyouyixiexianghudehuatitaolunhuoshishixianghudexihao。yinci ，dajiazaixianxiashijiannenggou suzaoyigegongtonghuati，neiyanglianggerenpingshibianhuiyouhenduodehuatitaolunnenggou liaole，erqiehaikeyiyouyiyujiazhongxianghujiandeqinggan，jiaowangqilaidehuayehuigengweideyuanmanyixie。yinci ，suzaogongtonghuatishijishangyeshishifenbixude。

处对象如何找话题聊天

一、生活乐趣

 chuduixiangshiyouyuai，erxianliaobianshirangxianghudougengdonggengzhangwolingyifang。yinci zailianaizhongzhaohuatiliaotiannenggou shishenghuolequ。lirugongzuoshangde、jiazhonglide，yaoshigennixiangguanderichangshenghuolichanshengdeyouqudeshierdounengshiyigefeichanghaodehuatitaolun，ranglingyifangnengrongjinjinqu，yekeyicongzheidangzhongzhangwodaoyixielingyifangdexiguanxing。

二、共同话题

 doushuoyongyouxianghudexihaocaikeyiyoujuebuzhongzhidehuatitaolun。jinguanbarichangshenghuodeyouqudeshidanghuatitaolun，danxuduoquanshiyigerenderichangshenghuo，yinggaizenmedashan？ranglingyifangmeiyoucanyuxing，butaihaodashan，neiyangfeichangrongyidaozhiganliao，yitingyigeyongjingshuo。dangongtonghuatijiubuyiyangle，bicidoushiyouchupeng，liaozheiyihuatitaolunyegengfeichangrongyilingrenyouxingquaihao。liaotiangonglveyounaxie？liaotianmeihuatizenmeban？

三、风趣八卦

 baguafengquyeshifeichanghaodehuatitaolunsucaitupian，nenggou shirujindexiongludianshilianxujuhaikeyishiyixieyouguanremenweibozheixie。zheizhongdehuatitaolunshihenbijiaohaozhaode，yefeichangrongyiranglingyifangduizishendepinpaixingxiangtigao。danzheizhongdehuatitaolunfeichangrongyirangnanhaizitaijipo，yejianghuirangnvhaijuededaofan。

恋人务必历经四个环节

第一个环节：并存

 tashilianaijieduan，wulunrenhechanghezongqidainengnizaiyiqi，yeshigangtanlianaidelianrenyijingqinshenjinglidehuanjie，yibanlaishuowei3geyuexianqi，danhoubianyehuichuxianfanfuhuogengti，zheiyaozaiyulianrenjianjiaowangdeyixieyaosu。

第二个环节：反依赖

dengganqingpingwen，yifangxiangduoyidianshijianzuohaozijixianggandeshi，zheishihoulingyifangbianhuijuedebeilengdan。

第三个环节：单独

tashidiergehuanjiedechixu，guidingdaliangziliziqiangdeshijian。

第四个环节：相互依存

 zheishihouxindejiaowangjiqiaochengxing，dajiazaoyibianchengzuiqinmiwujianderen。dajiazaiyiqihuxiangzhaogu、yiqikaipiguishuyudajiarenshengdaolu。dajiazaiyiqiburongyixianghuzhijianjiban，erhuixianghuzhijianfazhan。ta(ta)jiuhaoxiangnidejiaren。keshi，xuduo tanlianailianrendoubuguoguandierhuodisanjieduan，tiaoxuantichufenshou，deyikandelianrenjiaowangfangfadebiyaoxingle。bujiutanlianaidelianrenjiuxuyaotizaoyuliaozheileigailv，tiaoxuanheshixianghudejiaowangfangfa，caikeyijiangaiqingchixu，huoyunyingdegengqiange!huabuduoshuo，zheierjiulaichuxinzhaoyixieganhuozhishifangfagongnicanzhao!

刚谈恋爱的恋人交往方法

1、极速的进度

 ruguoniyikaishizhuiruqingaishi，jianghuihuiyouyuchuchangganqingdecijixingershenxianjinlai，yutadediyiciqianshou，diyiciyongcandoushiyoujianghuishinijisujuederichangshenghuodebuyiyang，cike，hebuxiantingyitingbufa，kanyixiabierenduitadedianpingshizenyangde?jiarudagaishangyunideguandiantongyang，neimashizhezhejinyibufazhanqushiba，huoxuninengyouchuhuyiliaodehuode。renzhenguanaizheiyiduanqingganzhenduiganqingzhongdereneryan，huiyouyuniantoudebuyiyang，jiashidebuyiyangdengyuangufashengzhengzhi，beinaonumengbiledanaoyincijiangchurangzishenhouhuimojideyuju，naizhishibujingyishoushangdeyuju。suiranzhihouhehaola，keshierfashengleyizhihuiliuyoujiyili。yinci quanjiezhuweizailianaizhongdelianren，jibianneishihouzhuangkuangzainaonu，haiyaosisuoyihouzaikaizhanhuihua。

2、适当生产制造意外惊喜

 youshilianrenjianshuoguodehua，youyifangfangzaixinlile，erqiejiangzheihuafuzhushijian，shidangdeshengchanzhizaodianxiaojingxi，kenengjidajiaderichangshenghuochanshengyuyuehegaoxing。

3、说花言巧语

 wulunshinanhaizihuanshinvhai，yaoshishizailianaizhongderendouxiaitinghuayanqiaoyu，yinci bubikoumennidenuanxinqinghua，aiyaoyingyongshuochulai。jianghuijinjindajiadeyijutiexindehua，wulunzhenduinanxinghuanshinvxing，womenyaoxuehaodaliangdequguanzhuaixixialingyifangde，ranglingyifangnenggou ganshoudaonidebiyaoxing。

4、喜好兴趣爱好

 lianrenbiciquanshiyouzishendexihaode，lequxihaoshinenggou rangdajiabiciyongyoudaliangdegongtonghuatide，jiarudajiabicixiaizuoshenmeshiqing，neimalingyifangyingdangquzhangwode，bingbushiyoujuhuachengweiaiwujiwuma。

5、互相激励

 duojilingyifangyixiezizunxinheqingmian，youshidajiaxianghuzaipenyoudeyanqian，shijishanglianrenbicizaijianghuahuoshibanshideqingkuangxiayingdangkaolvyixialingyifangde，bingqiebiru，zuoweinvhai，zaitarendeyanqianyidingyaoweizijidenanyouqingmiande，duoduodekuakuazijidenanyou。

6、学好交心

 lianrenbiciyingdangduoduodedekaizhanneixinshangdegoutongjiaoliu，womenbunengyouyutanlianaideshijianjiulejiufeichangshaojianghuajiaoxinde，shijishangyoushinanrenhenvrengengguanjiandeshilingtingxialingyifangdeneixin，rangqinglvzhijiannenggou gengqiangdequzhangwolingyifang。

7、人体上的触碰

 shijishangxuduo deguanjiandianshibixuliuyide，jiarunihenvyouyiqichumenshidehua，neimananhaiziyidingyaojijiquqianzhenvshengdeshoude，changchangdequbaobaozijidenvyou，nanhaiziyexuyoushiyehuishiyouzhide，neimanvhaiyeshiyaoqianjiubingqieyaoxuehaogaoxingzheileide。

8、信守诺言，勇于负责任

 wulunshinanhaizihuanshinvhai，shijishangdajiadouyingdangyouzishendeshiyande，nanhaiziyebubilaoshizainvhaiyanqianshuoyixietianyanmiyu，womenyaogengqiangdezhenxinshiyiquyingduixianghu，bingqiezhenduizishenzuochudeshieryaoganyaodanfu，duoduodeweilingyifangkaolvdao。

9、不必尝试更改另一方

 meiyigerenquanshiyongyouzishendeyuzhongbutongdexinggetezhengde，dajiaganwanbunengyongzishendegerenxingweilaiguidinglingyifangde，gengbubiqugenggailingyifangdeyixiegerenxingweide，niyexunenggou tiyizhidao，keshibukeyiyizhaonizijideguidinglaiguidinglingyifangde。

10、学习培训管理情绪

 pengdaonantideqingkuangxia，xintaiyibangengkuaichuxian，keshixintaidepohuailijianghuifeichangda，erqiexintaihuichuxianhenduozhongduoyanggailv，jiarunibukeyirenshizijidexintaierqiehelidekongzhizijidexintai，bianhuibeixintaisuocaozong，erqiebeixintaisuoshang，lingwainidexintaiyehuishangdaonisuozuiaideren。yinci ，yaomingbaisuzaozishenguanliqingxudegongzuonengli，zaiyicicidexintaiganshouzhong，jianjiandizhangwobingcaokongzishendexintai。

11、当有要求的情况下，还记得说出来

 biaoshushihenzhongyaode，erruhequbiaoshu，gengweiguanjian。henduoren，dangyouyaoqiudeqingkuangxia，buyongshuochuqu，zongshiyiweilingyifanghuidong，huoshizongguidinglingyifangwubiyaodong。tianna，lingyifangyoubushinidulidechong，nibushuochuqu，taweishenmehuidongni?suihoulaidaojinbuzhudeqingkuangxianiyouhuranbaofa，huoshibianshiyongmaiyuan、chizedeyudiaoqugenlingyifanggoutongjiaoliu，neiyangdefangfatongchangzongshirangdajiadegoutongjiaoliuyuelaiyuecha，budandabushangnisuoyaoxiangde，jianghuihaihuijixujiangfenqishengji。

12、学习培训表述你的体会

 ninengshuo：“nimeiyoushijianpeizhewo，yaowojuedeyoudianermishi，youdianernanshou”。erbushi：“nidaodishizaiganma，weishenmemeiyouyaowo?”ruguonibiaoshutihuideqingkuangxia，ninengchajuezijidexinlijianjiandiyehuiyuelaiyuejingxiaxinlai，yehuilejiezishenxinlizhenzhengdetihuishisha，youshiyixiebutaihaodexintaiyehuisuizhexiaotui，lingyifangyekeyijinkuailejienideniantouhetihui。biaoshutihui，yongdaizheaidefangfaqubiaoshu，jilao，lizudian，shirangaizuyiliudongxing，shiyibianrangdajiazhongjianyuelaiyuegengqiang。woshiguo，danglingyifangzhangqimeiyouyijuwenhaodeqingkuangxia，woganjueyixiemishi，chayidianjiuxianggangkaishimaiyuanle，keshiyemeiyouneimequzuo，youyiguoyihui，wonengganshoudaowoxinlishijishangzhenshidetihuishisha，suoyiwozuihoufayiwangdeshiyiju：“wohaoxiangni”。

13、各有单独的室内空间

 liangrenjinguanshizaiyiqi，xianghuqinmiwujian，danyiranbixuweixianghukongchuyidiandeshijianhekongjian，youzishendeshieryaozuo，youzishendexingquaihaohexihao。youyizhongfeichanghaodeqingkuangshi，dajiazaitongyigeshineikongjianli，qingjingdigeyouzuohaozijideshier，yiyangjuededaoshuxinyushufu。huoshishi，jinguandajiabuzaiyiqi，danrengnengjuededaolingyifangdeai，xinlirengnengganshoudaoshuxindejuede。

14、相互重视了解

 zhongshihelejie，zailiangrenzhongjiandejiaowangzhongshishifenguanjiande，danbianshihenduorenwufafeichanghaodibaozhengzheiyidian，yibandajiafeichangrongyihuichuxianxintai，xintaihuiweihaidajiaderenzhinengli，ruguonibeixintaiweihaideqingkuangxia，gangkaishizaoyinanyiyongbaochiqingxingdidanaoqukandaishierle。lejielingyifangwubiyouzishendeshieryaozuo，lejiedanglingyifangyinfanmangerlinshimeifapeizheni，zhongshilingyifangdetiaoxuan，zhongshixianghudeniantou。

15、自我成长与健全

 liaotiangonglveyounaxie？liaotianmeihuatizenmeban？jinyouxianghudoumingbaibuduanziwowanshan，qinfenrangzishenchixuwanshanfazhan，erqiexiangzhetongyangdefangweiqianxingzhe，neima，neiyangdeguanliancaikeyizaichixuqinshenjinglidequanguochengzhongchixuyuelaiyuegengweixingfu。yaodaliangdikanyixiazishendexinli，renshizijidexinlitihuihexintai，qinfenrangzishenzaiguanlianzhonghuodefazhan，mingbaijinkuaiweihubaoyanghejingyingganqing。