怎么成功搭讪技巧

 qudashangchangheshangyebuxingjie，youyuzheizhongdiquyongyoushuzuiduodezongtimubiao，jiaruniyongxinguanchaninengfajue，dabufendejipinnvshenquanshichuyunuodongqingkuangde，erqiezaizuchengli。zhenduinuodongzongtimubiao，nizuixianyaorangtamanxialai，zhidongxitongzongtimubiaodehuazhibixushuo“hai”jiukeyile，xiangshengyaodaiyixieyundonggan，dashanjiqiaonixuyaonikeyirangtatingjian，dashanfazeyouburongyihezhuta。tamanxialaidajiacainenggougangkaishiyiduanhuihua，tabuduanxiayemeishier，kenengshiduinimeixingqu，yehenyoukenengtadoumangzhequzuoshi。tatingzhuhou，nijianduangejimiaozhongshangxia，jitafanyingdeshijian，liuyi，yaomuguangrouhedangrandikanjianta，shuochunidekaichangci。

有效表述出对她的兴趣爱好

 ai，woshuoleyidaduixiaoshouhuashuguojiguanlizheileide，zuizhongnengjiedaohaodanzongjuedeshaoledianshenme...。womenyaoyulingyifanggoutongjiaoliu，bubizishenbuduandeshuoshuoshuo，zhishiyaoranglingyifangyecanjiajinqu，yaoyouxiaodebiaoshuchulingyifangdexingquaihao。jiaruniqueshixianglejielingyifang，neimaniyidinghuiyouneiyangdeyihuo：tashigeruhedenvsheng?chukaiwaixingtahaiyoumeiyoubiededetexing?

 neimejiulinshiwangjizheixieguojiguanli，quwenxienizhenshiguanzhudenantiba，buyaohaipatichuwenti，dajiabixudeshihudongjiaoliuerbushidankouxiangsheng。danjilaobubixiangjiatelinjiqiangyiyangchixutiwen。

开展合理沟通交流

 yibannijiangwanyongyishenmingyihou，youerzhongzhuangkuanglaishijicaozuo。jiaruzongtimubiaozhejiganshijian，neimejiushouhaozaijian。jiarutashiyigerenyouguangdeqingkuang，bingbuzhejiganshijian，dashanjiqiaodajianenggouliaoyiliaoxianghudexinxineirongchuangjianxianghudexinlaigan。yixiehenyoukenengrenweilijishouhaolikai，danshidabufendixiongdeweixinpengyouquanhenyoukenengjibenjianshemeineimagaoduandaqi，neimewotiyizongtimubiaoyoushijiandehua，niyizhizaidangchanggenzongtimubiaoduoliaoyiliao。chuangjianxinlaiganyouliyunizhuanhuanchangdiyouhuijiqibatazaiduyuechuqu。

 jichudehuatitaolungouzaoshiyishixiadeqingjingxianjiedaoxianghudegongzuozhongyushenghuo。jinishilaizheiliganshenmede，tashilaiganshenmede，nimenshishenmegongzuozhong，tashishagongzuozhong。suihoujiaochayixieduitatihuidebiaoshu，lirunijuedetahuayinxiangbeifangren，nifajuetakanshangquaojiao，zhaohuatiquehenjiqing，zheixie。

不必问较隐私保护的难题

 zuizhongyidian，yeshizuizhongyaodeyidian，bubiguoduodewentajiaoweiyinsibaohudenanti。dajiahaibutaishu，dashanfazetameibiyaoduinishuo，bingqiejibian niwenleyebuhuiduinishuo。jugeshiliniyejiuhuigaoqingchu，zheijiufangfojiazhongfenpeinixiangqinyuehui，nvxingshangqujiuxunwennishiduoshaoxinshuiyiyang。yinci ，zaihenvshengdahuadeqingkuangxia，yidingbubiwenyinsibaohuxingdenanti。