搭讪法则究竟在哪里的呢

 nenggou xianconglingyifangdefuzhuanghezhangxianglaixunzhaogongtongyuyan，gensuinvshengxianliao，bixuzhongshilingyifangsuohenganxingqude。yaoshishilingyifangxiaidehenganxingqudehuatitaolun，dashanfazeneimalingyifangcaigengxiangyaogennilaitantao。nvshengxiailvyoutesemeishi，huoshiyixiejianyidejianshenyundong，zheizhongquanshifeichanghaodehuatitaolunqierudian，genjugenlingyifangliaozheizhongnanti，suihoujianjiandixunzhaoliangrenyinqigongmingdehuatitaolun。jiaruxihuanyigeren，yidingyaozhuazhujiyuqugenlingyifangyinqigongming，ruhedashanneimalingyifangxiaiganshenme，zuixianyaogaoqingchu，suihoujianjiandiqufajue，qufajueliangrendexiangtongdian。

暖心的问好他人

 zaigenlingyifangxianliaodequanguochengzhong，yeyaoshanyuqufajuelingyifangdexinlizhuangtainiantou，jiyulingyifangyixiedaliangdeguanzhu，youdeqingkuangxiabingbujinshiyaogenlingyifangqutaolunhuoshitantaoshenmewenti，yijunuanxindewenhaodoushihuiranglingyifangjuededadong。

关键点赞扬他人

 yigepiaoliangdenvhaichangchanghuibeibierenzanyang，beibierentieshang“haokan”“taorenxihuan”“nvwang”dechenghao，tamenzhenduinanhaizidezanyangzaoyichedimeiyouzhijuele，fanguolaijiaruninengcongmeizhidecailiao，huoshixiangpianzhongwajuechuyuzhongbutongdeguanjiandian，yongyuzhongbutongdeguanjiandianzanyangfandaohuirangmeizhiyanqianyiliang。

能够 应用人物角色的开局方式来和女孩聊天

 jiaosebanyanyouxishishifenquweihaowanerdeyigekaichangci，bingqiemeizhidenaodongdakaiyuanbenjiuda，ruhedashantamenshifenshanyuxiangdao，yongjiaosebanyanyouxidefangfanenggou bameizhidaidaoqingjiezhizhong，jimeizhiyizhongzejihushibensechuyanledianshilianxujudejuede，rangmeizhibuzijuezaochengxianghenixianliaodebulizhi。

多多的赞扬女孩的长相寻找话题讨论

 haokanshinvhaidebenxing，jibenshangmeiyigenvshengdouqidaizishenkeyihuazhizhaozhande，laotianyejimeiyigerenbuyiyangdewaimao，meiyigerenyedoushiyouzishendetexing。yiyangnvhaiyedouqidaizishendefengcainenggou xiyinzhudaoyixingpengyou，qipanzishenkeyihuodebierendezanyang。zuoweinanhaizi，jiaruyaoxianghuodenvhaidehuanxin，neimahebucongzheierzheshou，xianliaodeqingkuangxiaduoquzanyangyixianvhai，rangnvhaineikexiaoxiao“aimuxurong”keyihuodekaolv。nanhaiziyaoxiangzhuidaozishenxiaidenvhaiyoudeqingkuangxiayeshiyijiannanti，xuduoqingkuangxiananhaiziweilegenghaodizhuinvhaiziershafeikuxin，danshimihuobujie。weishenmeyoudenanshengzhuinvshengnvhaifeichangjiandanfeichangrongyini?weishenmeyoudenanhaiziqueyizhi“xiangaibunengai”ni?zaiqizhongyouhenduoyuangu，dashanfazeshifouhuihenvhailiaotianshizaiqizhongdezhongyaozhiyi。jinrijizheixiehenzhangshijianbukeyizhuidaoxinainvshengdenanhaiziyixietiyi，qidaitamenkeyijinzaodedaoneigetadehuanxinnanhaiziyaoxuehaojijiqufajuenvhaideliangdian，zaixianliaodequanguochengzhongchengxinchengyidejinvhaiyixiezanyangxingdeyuju，neiyanghaowuyiwenkeyirangnvhaiduinidehaogandumengzeng。yiyangjiarunizhidaozanyangtaren，neimajiubiaomingnizonghuiyouyishuangshanyufajuemeilideshuangyan。nvhaizhenduineiyangdenanhaizi，xiangxintamende“mianyinengli”huijiangdide。