jianxinxuduorenkanlezaiwangshangpaoniudakadeyixieshipinduanpian,kanleyihoushibushihuijuedemeishananduxishu,jianyiyiliangjujiubazijijuedezhichiqianlidenvwangshoujiweixinqudeshoule。dashandashishuosuihouzaisisuozhongzhaoleyigejuedehaisuanwentuodebiaoshu:haibingbushiyouyubierenhenshuai,huanyigelveweichoudiandeshiyixia?xuehuiruhedashankendinghehehe。
ziran,nanhaizigaoyanzhiqupaoniuyidingshiyouyoudiande,yiyangyouyoudiandeyeyougerenxinxihejingjifazhanzhanxian,tongyigenanshengqizhedanchehekailelanbojiniqujietoudashan,shijixiaoguoyidingshibuyiyangde。danjietoudashanquebingbuchediyouzheizhongyaosuzhanhexin,yibandexiangmaoyiyangnengxunsudezaijiebianyaodaolingyifangdelianxidianhua,danniliuyineiyanghaoduogebiaozhun:
1、waizaipinpaixingxiangdezhengjiedaqi。ninengbuxianggeshishangbozhu,danyidingyaochuandegancuililuo,rangnvhaibudichu,lirubaichenyipeixiuxiankuzi。yifukuzidayimahuotaifei,xiehenzang,yilianhuzhadezhuangkuangqianwanbiechuxian,meinayigenvhaixiangyaobeineiyangdenanshengdahua。
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不以提出问题而提出问题
zhiwenzheixieduinidedahua“youxiao”denanti。zheiyi“yongtu”guanjianjiushizhibangnifenbianyandixiahetajiaowangdejiyuhehenyoukeneng。liru,“nizainalizhanxiacheshi?”“nideshierbanhaolemeiyou?”“niguangdeyouduolei?”“nijuedezheigefandianruhe?”…………gaileinantinenggoulikeweihainiduitaxiayibucaiyongdetiyihexingdong。tishidahuoeryixia,yiqietichuwentidoubuliyuchuangjianshushidu。yinci,“niganshenmegongzuode?”“nilaizinali?”“nipingchangxiaizuoshenme?”“niyizhizaishenmexuexiao?”…………gaileinantizaidahuadeqianqihuanjiebianshikonghuayidui。
尽量用陈述句替代一般疑问句
liru,dahuayigeyijingtingtangpanghuangdemm。“nishizaidengma?”jiubibushang“laikannidepengyouyewanle”heli。xixinganshou,houmianyizhongdeyudiaogengjianjue、dangran、youshan,bingqiehaiqiadangdianshizheledashanzhezijideqingkuang。bijiaozhixia,qianmianyizhongdedanchunxingtiwenjimeibiaomingnizijideyiqiexinxineirong,haiguidingduifangweinichushitadezhuangkuang,zheijiufeichangrongyirangmmjiaolvbuanhedichu。
不规定另一方回应的提出问题
liru“wojuederenshini?”jiqi“womenyiqizouruhe?”zheijijuhuadebenzhishi“woshigexiangrenshinideren”jiqi“woshigexianggenniyiqizouderen”,zhishishixiangmmchanshunidelaiyi。kejiarujiangwanyihouniyejiujianmole,neimazheijijuhuajiubianchenglechunsuideyibanyiwenju“wojuederenshini,kebukeyi?”“womenyiqizou,zenmeyang?erlingyifangyejiuwubizaiyeshenozhongjianzuoyigetiaoxuanle。cike,chuziyufangfanyishibennengfanying,mmgengfeichangrongyizuochufourendehuiying。yinci,zhongyaodefangfabianshibukeyijianmo,bukeyinankan,bukeyidengdaimmjianghua,yaolikexuanzedierjuxiantan。liru“jintiandetianqiruheruhe”“zheigedifangzenyangzenyang”。
不必一直盯住另一方看
shuangyanshidajianeixindechuangzi,zaihenvshengdahuadeqingkuangxia,zishenbubiyizhisemimidedingzhulingyifangkan,jinguantahenpiaoliang。
留意自身的肢体动作
xiangxinnitongdianhuadeqingkuangxia,zishenhaowuyiwenhuichuxianyixiezhitidongzuo,zhibuguoshinimeiyouzuchengyieryi。erwomenzaihenvshengdahuadeqingkuangxia,zhitidongzuoyeshilajinniyubeidahuanvhaideyigegongxiao。zaizishenyouzhitidongzuodeqingkuangxia,bubitaiguodefangzong。lingwaini,niyeyaoliuyiguanchayixiatadeshentiyuyan,kantadeshentiyuyanshiduinidedahuabiaomingdichuhejieshou。youderenhenyoukenengyaoshuo,wobuxiangkanna。neimawenzhuweiyiju,meiyouchiguoshengzhurou,niyaomeijianguozhupaoma?
不必问较隐私保护的难题
zuizhongyidian,yeshizuizhongyaodeyidian,bubiguoduodewentajiaoweiyinsibaohudenanti。dashandashishuodajiahaibutaishu,tameibiyaoduinishuo,bingqiejibianniwenleyebuhuiduinishuo。jugeshiliniyejiuhuigaoqingchu,zheijiufangfojiazhongfenpeinixiangqinyuehui,nvxingshangqujiuxunwennishiduoshaoxinshuiyiyang。yinci,zaihenvshengdahuadeqingkuangxia,yidingbubiwenyinsibaohuxingdenanti。
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