究竟说微信搭讪成功技巧在哪些

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确立你的闲聊总体目标

 niweishenmehuijiaxiaoxianroumingxingdeshoujiweixin?zhishishiwuquxiangzhaorenliaoliaotian，huanshixiangtanyichanglianai，huoshilijiqingmiyiluannghengyici?quelilenidexianliaozongtimubiao，dajiajiubuzenmehuishenxianmeirihudaozaozhongwanandejiongjing。chucizhiwai，jiaruniyizhibuyuetachulai，zuizhongdajiahuibianweixiangjinbiyoudecunyou，nuanweiyehuiyouyuanwufen。yinci，dandadihetaliaoliaoba!

怎样打开话题讨论

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问一个敞开式的难题

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找寻共同语言

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适度变换话题讨论

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一问一答叫招聘面试，不叫闲聊

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 “ninhaowoshixxx，zhiqianzhutihuodongmeidouhaimeijianishoujiweixin，guoyibuqu~”“meishiermeishier~”“tingwenzhiqianzhutihuodong，nagedapaimingxingmoumoumouyoulaiye，jinikandaotama?”“kandaoleya，haihezhaoleyixia~(chuanxiangpianrangnizhuangqiang)”“aaaaaaweishayemeiyoupengdaolaqaq...henxiangyiqihezhaodeshuo...”“hahahahahameishier，xiayicihaiyoujihuijiaoxihuanni。”(dahuaqudechenggong，huixianliaoqueshihenzhongyao!)

小Tips：灵活运用表情图

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