与人沟通的技巧，女生动情说明什么？

 dajiayaorichangshenghuo，zaisuonanmianyaodongdeherengoutongjiqiao，zaiyingduilurendeqingkuangxia，dajiayeyingdangtanranmiandui，hebierengoutongjiaoliunixuyaozenmezuoni?shijishangruguonixuehuileherengoutongjiqiao，nvshengdongqingshuomingshenme？wulunyushangzenyangdegoutongjiaoliumubiaodoukeyidexinyingshou，yiqikanyixiaherengoutongjiqiaoba!

一、擅于互动

 hebierenyouxiaogoutong，butongyuhepengyougoutongjiaoliu。yinci，yidingyaotebiezhuyibukeyiyiweidejianghuajitarenting，eryaohuxianggoutongjiaoliu，niyiyanwoyiyu。yaoshanyuyongqishijujilingyifangzhudaoquan，liru：“wojuedezheiyishier……，nijuedehaobuhaoa?”neiyangjiuhenkendingdebazhudaoquanjiaodaolelingyifang。genjuhudongdequanguocheng，nikeyizhangwolingyifangduiyixieshideyijianhesixiangguandianjinerxunzhaoxiayigehuatitaolun。

二、擅于介绍自己

 hebierengoutongjiaoliu，yaoxuehaojieshaoziji。dangerzhekaiqihuazhazihou，ninengxianjieshaoyixiazishen，jiaoshenmemingziming，naliren，youyushashidaozheierlai，yiqianzainaergongzuozhongxuexipeixunguodengyixiexiangguanzishendexinxineirong。

 shijishangzaiziwojieshaodelichengzhonglingyifangjiulejieleni，huihezijizuohedui，huoxunizaiziwojieshaodeguochengzhonghuihetachanshenggongming，“a，neimeshuozanmehuoshitongxiang(tongxue、tongxingye)”。yixiazijiukeyizengjinshuangfangdejianju，xunzhaoxuduoyitongdehuatitaolun。

三、要擅于聆听

 yibanrenmenzailingtingshijingchangfashengxialiezhuangkuang：yi、feichangrongyiqieduanlingyifangfayan;er、chuanchurenkelingyifang“en……”“shi……”dengyileidexiangsheng。jiaohaodelingtingzeshichedimeishengyin，bingqiebuqieduanlingyifangfayan，shuangyanningshilingyifang，zhidaolingyifangzhongzhijianghuashi，zaifabuzigedejianyi。

 ergengweimanyideqingxingshiranglingyifangbuduanjianghua，yuweichilingting，niyejiuyuezhangyoujuecequan。zaijiaoliuhuanjiezhong，20%dejianghuashijianzhong，tiwentideshijianduanyouzhanle80%。tiwentiyuejianjieyuehao，shishifeifeixingwentishijiaohaode。jianghuayizidedekanfahehuanjiedeyuqi，yibanrengengrongyijieshou。

四、交谈要注重语调

 hebierengoutongjiaoliugoutongyaozhuzhongyudiaoheshuohuasudu，yusubukeyitaikuaixianglianzhupao、zhutongdaodouyiyang;yuqibunengguogao，yebukeguodixiangwenchongyiyang。yaobushitongxiangzeyaocaiyongputonghuashuipinglaigoutongjiaoliu。yidingbukezaihuayuhanyoucuhua，yijuyidong，tantuzhijianyaoyoufengfanheqichang，jirenyizhongyouliangdejuede。

五、不必涉及到个人隐私话题讨论

 yinweiyunigoutongjiaoliudeshiluren，nimenshidiyicigoutongjiaoliu。yiner，nimendejiaotandehuatitaolunyingdangbijiaoqingqingsongsong，bubishejidaolingyifangdegerenyinsi，jiarunideyuexinduoshaoqiana，nijiehunmeiyouadengyileihuatitaolun。jiarunigoutongjiaoliuzhongzheizhonghuatitaolunnanyibimiandeshejizheizhonghuatitaolun，zebunenglijitiwen，eryingdangxuanyongguaiwanmojiaodefangshi，weiwantichuwenti。

六、沟通交流中不必强调另一方的不正确

 nigoutongjiaoliudemubiaofeiquchixuzhengshilingyifangshicuode。shenghuozhongdajiajingchangfajuexuduorenmenzaigoutongjiaoliuhuanjiezhongchixuzhengshiziyishiduide，danqueshifenbukerenyuanrenpin;goufengjiecaijuedeshierbuzaihuduiyucuo，jinyouheshihuoshibushiyinibale。yinciruguobuzanchenglingyifangdekanfashi，hebuhuoshiyongxintingtahuazhongdezhenshihanyi。

 ruoyaobiaoshubuyiyangdejianyishi，jinjibuyaoshuo：“nineiyangshuochengmeiyoucuo，danwojuede……”erzuihaoshishuo：“wohenganxienidejianyi，worenweineiyanghenhao，yucitongshi，woyoulingyizhongguandian，buqingchunirenweizenyang?”nvshengdongqingshuomingshenme？“wozanchengnidesixiangguandian，yucitongshi……”dingjigoutongjiaoliuzhedoushiyoufangshijindaotarendepindaolanmu，rangtarenxiaita，jineryingdexinlai，biaoshudexiangfayeyibeitarencaiqu。