前男友找我复合却对又没以前对我好怎么办？

 lianggerenzaiyiqijiuleyihou，ganqinghaowuyiwenhuoduohuoshaojiuhuichuxianliefeng，zheiyangdeshiqingshuzuiduochanshengdejiushishuozaimohe，zaibicibuquedingxingshibushiyaotichufenshouyiqianshineishideneixinyibandoushiyouerzhongqingkuang，neiqianrenyaowofuhequeduiyoumeizhiqianduiwomenhaogaizenmeban？

一、前任要我复合却对又没之前对我们好该怎么办

1、学会放下以往

 weihefuhehouzhaobuzhezhiqiandejuede？fenshoufuhehoudeganqing，haowuyiwenchanzazheduiyiwangdeyixiebaoyuan，naizhibiequdexintaizhuangtaizaizheiqizhong。buguanshishenmeyuanyinzaochengdetichufenshou，dougaozhizijiheyifangyiqiezhongtouzailai。

2、不必旧事重提

 tichufenshouyiqiandeyuangu，zishen jiushishuomeifashuodeqingde“maohedun”，yinciwuxuzongdanxinyiyiwangdewangshi，jirancongtoukaishibidingshilijingxinlideyifankaoliang，yiweizhezhequanxindegangkaishi，yaoburanzongshishiyiwangmaodundexuyan。

3、bubisheqiuyifanggenggai，xiangenggaiziji

 ganqingyingshizuopinlihuiyouneiyangdejingdiantaici：yiqianbudongaiqing，rujinmingbaile。tichufenshouzishen jiushishuoduizijiquedingxingniantoudeyicishenxindexili，erbingbushizaicidezaihuyifangdequexian，zhongsuozhouzhi“touzhiyitao，baozhiyili”dedadaoli，yaoxiangtarengenggai，zuixianbixugenggaiziji。

4、给一方信赖

 weihefuhehouzhaobuzhezhiqiandejuede？jiranzaicitiaoxuanfuhe，nijiubiaomingxianghuneixinguanianyifang，xianghuneixinyouyifangdebuwei，erweichiganqinglaoguzuiguanjiandeyidianjiushishuoxiaoxiede“xinlai”。

5、weichiyiqiezhengchangzishi

 bulunshinayifangguidingfuhehuotichufenshou，douyingdangweichiyiqiezhengchangdezishi，bubizishizhizhongdanxinshiyifangxiangfenshouerfanmen，huozhezijixiangfenshou，yifangxiangfuheeraoman。fenshoufuhezenyangcainengfanhuizhiqiandejuede？youyuaiqingshigongpingde、huxiangde，erbingbushishisheyubeishishe。

6、别掩藏心里体会

 youyixietichufenshouyouzaicizaiyiqidelianren，ruheqinfenyezhaobuzheyiqiandejuede，queyoubuxiangyaozaidufenli，yincicouhezijijiena，bingqinfenshuodongziji。huaizheneiyangdexintaizhuangtai，budanzijibushufu，yifangyehouzhong。ganqingbixuganyuan，bingbushijiaoqing，gengbingbushiyanzang。

7、biezainatichufenshoulaiweixie

 fenshoufuhezenyangcainengfanhuizhiqiandejuede？bieyizhiyong“tichufenshou”laitiaozhanniyizhizaiyifangdebuwei，neiyangzongshijiangyifangdexixinyidiandiandanqu，zaicizaiyiqile，haiyaoxianghuhaohaoai，haohaodiaixixianghujiandelaibuyideganqing，niyiweibierenchulenijiuwufahuole。

二、复合后怎样回到从前

1、处理实际矛盾

 dangshibuchulizheizhongnanti，youyujiejuekunnanbingbushiyouyiyudajiadewanjiu，errujindajiafuhehou，tichufenshouyitianfuhehouruhefangzhinankan，jiejuekunnanjiukanqilaihenbixule，buranyiyangdemaodunjiuhuizaiduzaocheng。fuhehouzenyanghuidaocongqian？bubidianjizheduobi，zhinengmianduinanti，yifangcaikeyijiandaoniyaojiejuekunnandexinxin，xiangbaochilianggerenguanlianzhangqideqidai。

2、提升相互追忆

 fenshoufuhehouzenyangxiubuguanlian，nenggouduozuoyixieyouyiyideshiqing，tishenglianggerenxianghudezhuiyi。nenggoushizhejiyishouge，yigedizhishouyuyixiedutedeshijiyiyi。nenggouqudajialianggerendouxiaideyingpianpaishedidi，qinlinqijingzhongganshouganqingdexingfu。zheizhongxianghudeqinshenjinglihuiranglianggerenzaizheiyiduanganqingzhongzijintourudaliang，ranglianggerendeganqinggengweinonghou。