如何挽回分手的心态

　　zaiqingganshijiezhong，fenshoushiyizhongchangjiandejingli。zaimouxieqingkuangxia，fenshouhuidailaigengduodeshanghaihetongku，tebieshishiwangxingfenshou。dangnishiwangdaowufajieshoushi，nidezizunxinhexinrengankenengyijingshoudaolehendadeshanghai。ruguonihaiaizhezheigenansheng，nikenenghuixiangzhidaogairuhewanhuita。zaibenwenzhong，womenjiangcongduogejiaodulaitantaoshiwangxingfenshouruhewanhuinansheng，baokuoxinlixue、goutongheziwoxiufudengfangmian。ruhewanhuifenshoudexintai。

　　1.了解男生的心理

　　shouxian，nixuyaolejienanshengdexinli。nanshengkenenghuiduifenshouyoubutongdefanying，zheiqujueyunimenzaiyiqideshijianhejiaowangdeshendu。yibanlaishuo，nanshenghuiyoubutongdefanying，rudizhi、hushihuojidukewang。ruguonizhidaotahuiruhefanying，jiukeyigenghaodizhunbeihechulizijideqingxu。

　　2.沟通是成功的关键

　　qici，goutongshichenggongwanhuinanshengdeguanjian。zainiyutatanhuazhiqian，jianyinizuohaochongfendezhunbei。shouxian，quedingnixiangyaoshenme，baokuonixiwangweichihejiejuedewenti，yijinishifouyuanyigaibianhetuoxie。qici，quebaonidegoutongfangshishiqiadangde。buyaoguoyuqingxuhua，buyaoweizijideqingxubianhu，gengbuyaorangzijibiandeguoyujijin。nixuyaozhudonggoutongheqingting，henanshenggoutong，bingqieduitadexiangfahexuqiujinxinglijie。nixuyaozuodeshixieshang，jiejuekenengdewenti，bingzaigoutongguochengzhongbaochizunyanhezunzhong。ruhewanhuifenshoudexintai？

　　3.自我修复和自我成长

　　zuihou，ziwoxiufuhechengzhangshichenggongwanhuinanshengdelingwaiyizhongfangfa。nixuyaoguanzhuzijideneizaishijie，baokuonidexinyang、jiazhiguanhexingweimoshi。ruguonicongzijidejiaodukandaiziji，kenenghuifaxiannidexiangfahexingweibushiheni。dangnigaibianzijidexingweihetaidushi，nanrenhuigandaohaoqihexinxian，gengyoukenenghuidaonideshenbian。