拒绝了追我的男孩子，分手之后再复合有必要?

 fenshouzhihouzaifuhezuoweinvhaizaiyingduizhuizishendenanhaizideqingkuangxia，yidingbubijizhequhuijuelingyifang，zuoweinvshihuijueyigezishenbuaiderenshijiaoweiyiqiezhengchangde，danshiyoudenvshiquezailingyifangyaofangkaishoudeqingkuangxiajuedezishenaishanglelingyifang，biaodataihoujibendouhuifenshoushuzishendeqingyiyuanbenbianshizhengdaguangmingdeshier，jiaruniyouyuyixieyuangucuoguogenlingyifangbiaodaaiyidehua，neima，niderenshengdaoluhenyoukenengyehuiyouyuneiyangeryuelaiyuebuxiangxi，jiaruyigenanrenzaizhuiqiuwanmeiyigenvrendeqingkuangxiajinbuzhumolian，nanyoufenshouhoumawohennantingpengdaoyidiandianjianxinjiutiaoxuandaotuidehua，neima，neiyangdezhuangkuanghaowuyiwenshihuilingrenhanxinde，neima，houhuimojijujuelezhuiwodenanhaiziyingdangzenmechulicaibijiaohaoni?xiabiankanlaihuida。

后悔莫及拒绝了追我的男孩子应当该怎么办?女孩还可以积极一点去追求完美另一方

1、英勇表述自身的情意

 zaiyudaozishenxinainanhaizideqingkuangxia，zuoweinvhaihaikeyijijiyidianquzhuiqiuwanmeilingyifang，nanyoufenshouhoumawohennantingneiyangcaikeyirangzishenhaiyoujihuiyouzhexingfuhunyin。jinguanyouxierenganjuenvxingzhuinanrenshiyijianjiaoweinandeshier，keshi，jiaruneiyigerendexinlibianyuanbenjiuhuiyounidehua，niyingyongdebiaoshuchuzishendeqingyihenyoukenenghuihuodebuyiyangdeshijixiaoguo，youyuzaizheigequanshijiekeyiqingtouyihedeqingganshihenshaode，keyipengdaoneiyigenenggourangzishenqingtouyihedenanshengjiuyidingyaoxuehaoquaixilingyifang，jinyouneiyangcaikeyibaozhengrangzishenkeyiyouzheguishuyuzishendexingfukuaile，yejinyouneiyangcaikeyifangzhicuoguoleguishuyuzishendexingfuhunyuan，jiarunimeikeyiyingyongdebaituozheiyibudehua，neima，nanyoufenshouhoumawohennantingnigenlingyifangcuoguoledehenyoukenengbianshiyibeizi，zheiyangyilaihenyoukenengbicidoushihuiyinererganjuequehan。

2、找一个机遇跟另一方聊一聊

 nenggoushizhegenlingyifangjiaowangyiduanshijian，kanyixialingyifangshifouzishenyaoxiangdeneiyigemoyang，dataihoujibendouhuifenshousuihouzaiyijuzhuangkuangkanlaijiujingshibushiyingdanghuijuelingyifang，jinyouneiyangcaikeyifangzhiyouyuzishenmangmugenfenghuijuelingyifangeryinqiquehan，cikeyaoxiangwanhuidehuanenggougenlingyifangliaoyiliao，kanyixialingyifangdaodishizhenxinshiyidehuoshijiaxinde，danglingyifangshuozishenshizhenxinshiyidedeqingkuangxia，ninengshuomeiyoukanchuqu，zheiyangyilailingyifangdangranhuizaiyicibiaoshuzishendeqingyi，dannihaikeyichenzhezheiyijiyulaijilingyifangyigejiyu，dataihoujibendouhuifenshoukanyixialingyifangyounaxiedeniantou，danglingyifangtingjiannidejiaofazhihoudangranyebianhuidongnideyisi，suihouzaiyicizhuini。

3、通过身旁的盆友或是交友软件给另一方透筒音

 youdenvhaihenyoukenenghuizainanshengzhuinvshengzishendeqingkuangxiajianjuedehuijuelingyifangfenshouzhihouzaifuhe，keshi，guohouyehenyoukenenghuiyouyuneiyangerhouhuimoji，youxierenshuo，zishenbuqingchuzheileizhuangkuangxiayingdangyaogaizenmeban，zaicikeninenggaozhilingyifanghuoshishixunzhaozijishenpanglejiedepenyougaozhilingyifang：zhuiqiuwanmeiyiqieyigenvshengquanshibixuqieerbushede，jiarubunenggoujianchibuxiedehuajiumeiyoubanfahuodeshouyi，fenshouzhihouzaifuheneiyangjikeyiranglingyifanggaoqingchunideqingyi，yebuhuishiniganjuenankan，danglingyifanggaoqingchunideqingyilingwaiyeyiranmeiyouxuehuifangxianidezhuangkuangxia，tadangranhuixiangyaozuochushizhe，weizijiyunizaiyicizaiyiqidejiyu。