男的分手后不再联系你是不爱了吗？爱情能重新拥有吗？

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1.想一想大家怎么会分手

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2.倾听另一方

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3.想一想以往你是不是欺骗过另一方。

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4.思索他对你丧失兴趣爱好的缘故

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5.虚心接受和致歉

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6.清晰你的目地是啥

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