绝情的男人分手后心理？改掉自己的任性

 zailiangrendeganqingzhong，yibanlaishuoshinvshengtifenshou，danruguoshinanshengjijimingquetichufenshou，henyoukenengganjueliangrenjiaowangdequebuyukuai。yidannvshengfajuelezishendenanti，jiuyingdangdiyishijiangaizhengzishendejiaozong，baiqingxiliangrenzaiganqingzhongdebuwei。jinguannanshengyingdangduochongninvsheng，danbuyinggaishiwujiezhidejiaozonghesiwujidan。youyunanshengdekuanrongyeshiyoudaodedixian，tamenyeshiyouzishendezizun。zheigeshihouzaixiangwanhuinanyou，zuixiandelejietananyirenshounideshishenmedifang。youyixieganqingnenggouwanliu，danyouyixieganqingshiwufamibude。danjiaruzheizhongdouzuobudao，neimejiuqueshiwanliuyaoyaowuqile。nanrenshuofenshoujiushizhendefenshouma？youxieshimingminghaiaizhequexuanzefenshou，youxieshishenxinpibeixuanzefenshou。nizaiwanhuiqianchulefenxifenshoujueqingdenanrenfenshouhouxinli，haiyaoqueliwanhuidefangan。

一、改正自身的骄纵

 yaoxiangrangliangrengengweimeihaodeshenghuoxialai，jiudexuehaorongrulingyifang，jijizhudongzuoyixiegenggai，yongxindefangfalaiqueliguanlian，yexuhainengrangliangrenhuidaocongqian。ganqingzhongdeliangrenzaitouruhehuodeshangbianyinggaishigongpingde，jiarumouyifangdetourubilingyifangyizhidoudaxuduo，neimezhongguiyouyitianhuizoubuxialai，zheiyeshiganqingweichideyizhongfangfa。yinciyaoxiangwanhuinanyou，neimenidexianzuoyixietouru，zuishaoranglingyifangganshoudaonidechengxin，neiyangcaikeyirangzheiyiduanganqingzaicigoujianqilai。

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二、再次和另一方建立关联

 yiwangtamenyizhiganjueneiyouhuichixukuanrongzishen，wulunzishenzuoshenmeshiqing，tamenzuihoudoushihuiyongkuanrongdefangfalaikandai。youyixienvshenghenanpengyoufenliyihou，caizhenzhenzhengzhenglejiedaozishendeshenshangdenanti。bingqiexuduonanshengyibanburongyiduinvshengnaopiqi，youbukaixindeshiqingdoufangzaixinshangzishenchuli。shijianzhanglezheileifumianqingxuhuiyulaiyuduo，zheigeshihoubianhuiyongfenshoujiejuekunnan，dangnvshengyishidaonantideqingkuangxia，liangrendeguanlianzaoyiliekai。danlingyifangjiarubuqingchushoulianxingzishendegerenxingwei，henyoukenengbianhuiranglingyifangduizishenmanmanxinhan，zhizhizuihoujiangchufenshou。

 danneiyangdeganqingxianeryijianbushijunhengde，jiarumouyitianzuodaoleyigebaofadian，neimelingyifanghenyoukenengjiuburongyizaichengdannineiyangdejiaozong。youshihenyoukenengbianshirichangdeyixiexiguanxing，henyoukenengduinilaishuoshifenyiqiezhengchangdeshier，danzeshinanshengbutaihuijienadeshier。youyixieshieryexunenggouchengshouyici2ci，keshizhangqichixuzheileiqingkuang，bidinghuirangnanshengnanyirenshou。danjiaruzheizhongshierzongshinengzaochengzhengzhi，huirangliangrendejiaowangyulaiyubuyukuai。fenshoujueqingdenanrenfenshouhouxinlibufamingminghaiaizhequexuanzefenshou，suoyoubuyongsilv“nanrenshuofenshoujiushizhendefenshouma”dewenti，dadandizuochuwanhuixingdongba！