跟女朋友产生隔阂闹分手，想把她追回来如何挽回？

 nvyouduinizaoyishiwangzhiji，yincicaihuitiaoxuanlikai。zaizheigezhuangkuangxia，nibuyaotaixinjihuancheng，yidingyaolizhidesisuoqingxiyihou，xunzhaofangfacaikeyitigaowanhuidetongguolv，youdenanhaizizaifenshouhou，haibuzhidaoyuangu，naizhijuedenvyoumanbujiangli，shijishangtamenyagenmeiyoulizainvhaideguandianshanglaisisuo。nvyouyunifenshouhou，bingbudaibiaozheliangrendelianluochediduandiao，zhenduizheiyizhuangkuang，shifouyoufangshiwanhuini。fenshoupengyouquanzenmefa?gennvpengyoufenshoulexiangbatazhuihuilai，bushijijuyanyujiukeyizhuihuide，haixuyaoxingdong。zheierlaiduinishuoyixiefangshi。

一、降低对感情的诉求

 youxierenzaiganqingzhongcunyouguoduodesuqiu，tongchanghuirangganqingzhongdelingyibanjuedeyoufeichangdagongzuoyali，shijianjiulejiuchengshoubuzhu，zhiyoufenlirichangshenghuole。yincinvyouduinishiwang，yexujinjinyizhongtuoci，henyoukenengjiushinizaiganqingzhongdesuqiutaiduole，rangtayouyixiekubukanyan。kandaizheiyizhuangkuang，nixuyaojianshaoduiganqingdesuqiu，jinkenengjilingyifangdaliangdesimikongjian，bubiguidingguoduo，caisuanshibaochiganqingdehaofangfa。

二、换位思考一下

 zaidajiafenshouhou，nibuyaojiqiedequwanhui，youyuneibanzongshirangguanlianbiandegengjiang，nixuyaogaogaoqingchuweishenmetaduinishiwang，weishenmetabuyuanyiyunizaicizaiyiqile，zuihaoyingyonghuanweisikaoyixiadefangfalaikaolvyixiayuangu。zhiyaoshitamenmingbaiyidiandiandehuanweisikaoyixia，jiuhuiyouhenyoukenengbaganqingwanhui，erbushirangnvshengshiwanglikai。

三、创建沟通交流机遇

 tahenyoukenengbingmeiyoushandiaodiaonidepengyou，niyeyoutadeshoujihao，liangrenrengrannenggouzaicilianluode，zailizhiyiduanshijianyihou，nixuyaojinzaodechuangjiangoutongjiaoliudejiyu。liruzairichangshenghuozhong，lejietajinqicanyudezhutihuodong，huoshitajinqiyouxingqudedianshilianxujuzheixie，jinkenengdehetamanmandejinxinggoutongjiaoliu，bubiyishangqujiutanfuhexing，yaocengcengdijin，jianjiandidoulajinguanlian。jinguandajiasuanbushanglianrenle，keshiguanlianhaowuyiwenbiyibanpengyouyaojinyixie，niwanhuidejilvyegengdayidian。

四、做出更改

 nvyouweiheduinishiwang，niyinggaizaoyizhidaoyuangu，jiushinizuodebuzuhao，huoshibuzuqudechenggong，huoshishimengpianleta，quexianhaowuyiwenzainideshenshang。henvyoujiaowangyiduanshijianyihou，shifoujuedegoutongjiaoliushangyouyixiejiannanni，liangrendejiediyulaiyuduo，zongsuanyouyitianfashenglezhengzhi，nvyouduiyucishishifendeshiwang，zuihoutiaoxuanletichufenshou。xunzhaozheiyiquexianyihou，nixuyaojinzaodezuochugenggai，baxiangjindequexiandougaizhengyihou，zaiciquzhaota，nenggourangtaduinilingyanxiangkan，neiyangwanhuidejilvyehuigaodeduo。

五、让另一方见到期待