各自安好是分手吗，如何让她重新爱上你？

jiaruniyituozaituomeiyouxiangzhetaxiwangdefangweiqugaibian，jiuhuiduinimanmanjianshaohaogandu，dangranhuibingbuxiangzhiqianainineimeduo。danjiarubuduantixingyihoumeishenmegaibian，neimezongshirangshiwangbianweishiluo，zuihoutiaoxuanlikaini。baohanlingyifangyeshizheiban，yexutamenzainitixingyihouzaoyiganlegaibian，yincininengfajuehetajiaowanggengweiyukuai。jinguanlingyifangzainiyanqianbiaoshuguoshiwang，dannijuedezheizhonghaoxiangbingmeiyouneimeguanjian，yincibingmeiyouyincikeyiquzuoyixiegaibian。henduorenxiantidefenshouquexiangyaofuhe，doushichongdongredehuo。zenmewanliunvpengyoubuhewofenshou，duifangyaoshishuogezianhaoshifenshouma？daozheigeshihou，zenmewanhuishiwangdenvyouni？

一、用行动证实改变

zhizhijijiangsangshinvyoudeqingkuangxia，caizhenzhenzhengzhengxiangzuochugaibianquwanliulingyifang。shijishangzheigeshihouyeyouzuizhongdeyixiejiyu，yingdanggengqiangdebawozheizhongjiyu，suihouyongxingdongquzhengshizishendegaibian。youyuzheigeshihoushuoxieshenmezaoyibuzhongyao，neiyangdejingdianpianduanguoqudejiejuequanguochengzhongchanshengguohenshuci，zaoyimeifazairanglingyifangxiangxinni。nijinyoubaozhenglejutidegaibian，erqiezhenzhenzhengzhengranglingyifangganshoudaonidegaibianyihou，dajiadeqinggancaiyoukenengsierfusheng。

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二、让自身越来越更出色

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jiranlingyifangzaoyiduinizaochengleshiwang，bingqieniyelejielingyifangyouneiyangdeniantou。jiuyingdangqinfenrangzishenyuelaiyuegengweichuse，youyudanglingyifangduinizaochengshiwangniantoudeqingkuangxia，jiuzaisuishihuanyingdegaibian。youyumeiyigerendaoqingganshangdouhuichuxianzishendeguifanheqiwang，jinyouzuodaolezheiyiguifanyihou，caikeyirangliangrengengweienai，haikeyizailianaiguochengzhongganshoudaodaliangbicizhijiandeshizhi。