一直想跟前任复合怎么办？复联后怎么复合？

 xiangfuhexing？womenyaolejiezenmehuixianfenshou？tayunidefenshouyuanyin，henyoukenengbinixiangxiangdeyaojianjiexuduo，youyuliangrenzaiyiqidekaixindiyuyigerendanshennannvdeneishihoudekaixin，tanlianaidetongchu，chaoguodanshennannvdetongchu，neimahenkendingde，taweishenmebufenshouni？fulianhouzenmefuhe？

 ruguonimingbaizheiyidianyihou，woxiang，nizijijiulejiezaigangkaishideqingkuangxiayinggaizenmezuole，bianshizhongzhijiuchanbuqing，zhongzhiqingxulesuo，xianananwenwendeguojinrisikaoderichangshenghuo。

 christopherzaitadezhuzuo《qinmiguanxi》yishuzhongtiji：zhujianheweihubaoyangyiduanqinmiguanxishenhoudezhenzhenzhengzhengdongyinshijishangqujueyuyaoqiu。dajiahuiduilingyibanmingquetichugezhonggeyangbumanyiheguiding，qiahaoshiyouyulingyibanmuqiandegerenxingweibunengmanzudajiadeyaoqiu。xingquaihaoqudai

 diergebanfashi，xingquaihaoqudai。zaireliandelichengzhizhong,dajiahuiyouyubixushouhoulingyifangersheqizishendeyixiexingquaihao。wojingchangtingjianyouhenduorengaosuwo：“woyuanbenyaoxiangxuexihuahua，keshitazaiyiqileyihoumeirimangzhepeita,jiumeiyoushijianquxuele。”

 xingquaihaozishenkeyijidajiajiyuciwaiyizhongshenghuodefangfa。yucitongshiyeshiyizhongshifenyouliangde，quanyuwomenzijidefangfa。

3、要求发掘法

 dajiawangwangyaoqujunhengzishendeyaoqiu,yeyoufeichangdadeyibufenshiyouyulingyifangduidajiarujinbingmeiqingxideyaoqiu。tayoukenengchuyujianjuqi，zhenduidajiahendichu，yeshiyouhenyoukenengchuyuhuailianqi，yizhimeiyouxingwei。yinci，zaizheigeshihou，dajiabixuqujiaqiangzishendeyouhuoli，ranglingyifangduirenmenzaochengyaoqiu。

 neimenixunsuhuiwen：“,womendouzaoyifenshouletahaihuijixuduiwoyousuoyoudebixuma?”xiangpipeizheigewentideyeyouciwaiyigetichuwenti：“，tajinjinduiyuwowuxingcengmiandeyaoqiu，wonengburongyibianweipaoyou？“

 zheishiyigenvhaimenzaiqingganxiufuquanguochengzhizhongchangchangpengdaodeluojisiweicuowuguannian,bujuedenanrendexingyaoqiushiduiaiqingdeyaoqiu。baluoyufengfangdaonimennanshengyanqian，tahuiyouganjuema？ruguonichouqideqingkuangxia，tahuiyuanyiyunizaicipapama？

nanrendexingyaoqiushiqingganyaoqiudejiben，erhouzaishenggaodao，bixulejieshiyongheqinpeidengxinlibixu，

 shisezhexingye，dajiazhiqianchangchangtingwenbawozhulenanxingdeweibianshibawozhulenanrenxin,qishizhishiyiyangde。bawozhunanshengdejibenyaoqiu,nanshengcaihuiyizhiyikaoni。

 zairenmendejianjuqihehuailianqi，naizhishidaolezhengshiqi。gengweigaoxiaodeduiceshigenjujiaqiangdajiabenshendeyouhuoli，congnanshengdejibenyaoqiukaolv，yibuyibujiqitaduinideqingganyaoqiu。

xiamian，tadeyaoqiubeifajuechuqu，dajiadeyaoqiuyipeidui。dajiabianhuijindaodaoyigeshifenyouliangdeqinggantuidongquanguochengzhizhong。

好啦，大家来总结一下需求感均衡的三大方式：

diyizhong，xintaishifangchulaifa。

shifangchulainiyouguanxiangqitasuoxingchengdefumianqingxu，

dierzhong，xinlizhuangtaitidaifa。

 lejiedaotayunifenshoule，bazheigedeqqshezhichengnimeiyoucikejian，neiyangniyejiubawolezhudaodiwei，zhiyounizishenaikandeqingkuangxiaqukankan，buyuanjiandaodeqingkuangxia，nizijichediburongyibeiweihai，yeyoua，yizhichaozhejianfeishoushendeni，rujinqiahaoshizuihaoshidejiyu，rangziyixiandegengweiwumeidongren，shitazishenlaolaoshishihuijiayuenia。

第三种，要求发掘。

fulianhouzenmefuhe？dengnixintaijingxiaxinlai，youshihouliaotayixia，suihouzaiyibubushizhedaoxiangxinggoutongjiaoliu。