花镇：女友提出分手如何挽回

　　fenshoushiyijianfeichangtongkudeshiqing，youqishidangnirengranshenaizheduifang，danduifangyijinglikaileni。raner，jishinifenshoule，yebuyidingdaibiaoaidezhongjie。zaizheipianwenzhangzhong，womenjiangcongduogejiaodutantaofenshouhouzhengjiuaiqingdefangfa。nvyoutichufenshouruhewanhui？

　　1.了解分手的原因

　　shouxian，womenxuyaozhidaofenshoudeyuanyin。zhiyoulejieyuanyin，womencainengzhaodaojiejuewentidebanfa。ruguoniyinweigoutongwentierfenshou，nixuyaoxuehuiruhegenghaodigoutong，yifangzhiweilaideguanxizhongchuxianzheiyangdewenti。ruguonideguanxiyouwenti，nixuyaosikaonideguanxishiruhechuxianwentide，bingzhaodaojiejuebanfa。

　　2.保持理性

　　fenshouhou，nikenenghuigandaofeichangjusangheshiwang，danzheibingbuyiweizheniyinggairangzijiqingxuhua。xiangfan，nixuyaobaochilixing，sikaoruhejiejuewenti。zaizheigeshihou，nixuyaobimianzuochurenhechongdongdejueding，birudadianhuahuojiqianrenfaxinxi。zheizhihuirangshiqingbiandegengzao。

　　3.改变自己

　　ruguonixiangzhengjiuniqianrendexin，nvyoutichufenshouruhewanhui？neimenixuyaogaibianziji。nixuyaosikaonimenzhijiandewentishiruhechuxiande，ranhouzhaodaonizijidewentibingkaishigaibian。liru，ruguonimenzhijiandegoutongwentidaozhilefenshou，neimenixuyaoxuehuiruhegenghaodigoutong。ruguonimendeguanxiyouwenti，neimenixuyaokaolvtamendexingweishifouyouwenti，bingkaishigaibian。

　　4.再次获得联系

　　yidannilengjingxialai，kaishigaibianziji，nikeyishizhezaicilianxi。danshi，qingjizhu，nixuyaolixing，bimianrangzijikanqilaitaiqingxuhua。nikeyijinideqianrenxieyifengduanxin，gaosuta/tanidexiangfa，bingxiwangzhongxinhuodelianxi。danshi，qingjizhubuyaojita/tashijiayali，huozheqiangpota/tahuifunidexinxi。

　　5.寻求帮助

　　ruguonijuedenibunengduzizhengjiuniqianrendexin，neimenikeyixunqiuzhuanyedebangzhu。nikeyizixunyixiezhuanyedeaiqingguwen，huozhecanjiayixieguanyuaiqingheguanxidekecheng。zheixiekechengjiangbangzhuninlejieruhejianlijiankangdeguanxi，bingtigongshiyongdejianyihejineng。