花镇：男友要分手如何挽回

　　lianaizhongdefenshouzongshirangrenxinsui，youqishidangnanpengyoutichufenshoushi，nvpengyouhuixianrushenshendetongku。raner，dangnidenanpengyouxiangfenshoushi，nidenvpengyouyinggairuhehuifuni？yixiacongduogejiaodufenxi，weinintigongyixieyouyongdejianyi。nanyouyaofenshouruhewanhui？

　　1.深入了解问题的根源

　　dangnanpengyoutichufenshoushi，nvpengyounengzuodediyijianshijiushishenrulejiewentidegenyuan。zheijiuyaoqiunvpengyoulengjingsikao，zhaochufenshoudeyuanyin，shiyinweizijidequedianhaishinanpengyoudewenti。ruguoshizijidewenti，neimenvpengyouxuyaorenzhenfansizijidexingwei，zhaochuzijidequedianbingjiayigaijin。ruguoshinanpengyoudewenti，neimenvpengyouxuyaohenanpengyougoutong，zhaochuwentidegenyuan，nulizhaodaojiejuewentidebanfa。

　　2.改善自己的形象

　　lianaizhong，nvpengyoudexingxiangduinanpengyoudexiyinliyouweizhongyao。dangnanpengyouxiangfenshoushi，nvpengyoukeyishizhegaishanzijidexingxiang，rangzijigengyouxiyinli。zheikeyitongguogaibianfaxing、nanyouyaofenshouruhewanhui？huanyifu、huazhuanglaishixian，danyaozhuyibuyaotaikuazhang，fouzehuichanshengxiangfandexiaoguo。

　　3.展示自己的优势

　　zaiaiqingzhong，meigerendouyouzijideyoushihetedian。dangnanpengyouxiangfenshoushi，nvpengyoukeyishizhetongguozhanshizijideyoushilaixiyinnanpengyoudezhuyi。zheikeyishinvpengyoudezhihui，meilidegesheng，meimiaodewudaodengdeng，zhiyaonengxiyinnanpengyoudezhuyi，jiuyoukenengzhengjiunanpengyoudexin。

　　4.多沟通，多关心

　　zaiaiqingzhong，goutongheguanzhushifeichangzhongyaode。dangnanyouxiangfenshoushi，nvyouyinggaiduohenanyougoutong，lejietadexinlizhuangtaihexiangfa，duoguanxintadeshenghuohegongzuo。zheibujinkeyibangzhunvyougenghaodilejienanyou，haikeyirangnanyoutihuidaonvyoudeguanxinhewennuan，jinergengjiazhenxinvyoudeaiqing。