无性婚姻害了谁，35岁没有夫妻生活的婚姻可以维持下去么

 35suimeiyoufuqishenghuodehunyinkeyiweichixiaqume？hunyinzhongdejiatingshizhenshicunzaidewuxinghunyin。youyufuqijiehun，fuqizaihunyincunxuqijianyouzhengchangdefuqishenghuo。zheishifuhede〈hunyinfa〉de，tongshi〈hunyinfa〉haiguidingfuqishuangfangbixuzhongyuduifang，fouzejiuyouweifaxianyi。

youyuzheiyangneiyangdeyuanyin，yixiehunneifuqizhangqiwuxinghunyin。

40岁的刘先生，结婚10年

 shinianqian，liuxianshengyuqizijiehun，hunhouyigeyue，qiziquguangzhoudangbaomu。jiehunshinianhou，liuxianshengzaimiyueqijianzhiheqiziguoshaoliangdexingshenghuo。。jishiniouerhuijiakankan，niyehuizaiyuejingqijianhuijia。ninengzaiyuejingqijianzuoaima？

 yinci，jingguoduociwangfan，liuxianshengzhidaoqizishiguyixuanzezaiyuejingqijianhuijiade，zheiyangjinengyanrenermu，younengmingzhengyanshun。

35岁的钱先生，结婚六年，有一个儿子

 qianxianshenghetadeqizihunhouguanxibuhao。houlai，tadeqizijiekouchuqugongzuo。pingshiwocongbuhuijia。chunjieqijianwozhihuijiawutian。zaiwutiandehuijiazhong，wobixubaifangqinqihepengyousantian。zaisantiandeshijianli，wodouzaiqinqijiaguoye。yinweiwomuqinjialiyoutaiduodejiemeiyaosichuzoudong，tamenzaishengxiadeliangtianliyizhimangdaowuye。

duiyuqizidexingwei，qianxianshenggannubuganyan，yinweiqizideqiandoushiyonglaigaifangzide。

buguoyoujiciqianxianshengtichuyaoheqiziyiqihuiniangjia，danqizidoujianjuejujue。

 35suimeiyoufuqishenghuodehunyinkeyiweichixiaqume？yucitongshi，qizidedianhuaxianglehenduoci，qizihuanghuangzhangzhangdinaqishoujizhijiechongxishoujian，bazilaishuifangzaizuidadeshengyinli，shengyinxiangwenziyiyangdichen。

50岁的迟先生，结婚20年，有两个女儿

zaijiehun20nianhou，chixianshengzhendekeyishuchuheqizitongzhuyigefangjiandecishu。meiyiciqizidouyouhenduoliyoujujue，

 suiranzheiduifufuzaitongyijiagongsigongzuo，dantadeqizizaihunhoubujiujiugenghuanleshoujimima。tongchang，jishinizaiyushixizao，niyeyinggaidaishangnideshouji，niqizidedianhua.youhenduoxinxi。youshihoubanyehou，laopohaizaihebierentongweixin。dangchixianshengwenqishi，tadeqizizongshishuozheishiyibande“nv”tongshi。

“nv”tongshixuyaoduozangma？youneimeduo？“nv”tongshixuyaozhaotama？nixiangxinma？……

45岁的吴先生，结婚3年

 jiehunsannianhou，wuxianshengheqizijihumeiyouyicixingshenghuo。yuanyinshiwuxianshengnianqingdeshihouxihuankanhuangsedediepian，jingchangshouyin，hunhouyangweizaoxie。

duociqunanxingshenglizhensuo，meicidouyouqizipeitong。

 yishengjiaowuxianshengdeqiziyitaoanmojiqiao，bingpeihezhongyidiaoli。nianfuyiniandezhiliaomeiyougaishan。zaiciqijian，wuxianshengduocijianyiqizilihun，danqizijujuele。

huangdibugufurenmendexin！zuihoujingguosanniandezhiliao，qizihuaiyunle，wuxianshengyezhongyubaituoleyangweizaoxiedefannao。

48岁的朱先生，结婚15年，有一个儿子

 zhuxianshengshiyijiadianshitaidejizhe，jingchangchuchajieshoucaifang。tadeqizizaidangdiyijiayiyuandanghushi。youyuyiyuangongzuofanmang，tadeqizijingchangzhengwanjiaban。dangtadeqizixiabanshi，zhuxianshengyouyaoqushangbanle。tamendegongzuohexiuxiguizefeichangbutong，daozhifuqiguanxiyuelaiyuezaogao。

 zuijin，youchuanyanshuotadeqiziheyiweizhuzhiyishengyouran。zhuxianshenghendanxin！jiehun15nianlaidiyici，zhuxianshengbaofalehuoshan！taduiqizihenshengqi，bajialidedianshizale，ranhouzhuxianshengpengdiguanshangmenzoule……

 35suimeiyoufuqishenghuodehunyinkeyiweichixiaqume？wuxinghunyindaodishanghaileshei？daanshi：shanghaifuqishuangfang。youhenduonvrenhui“xing”zuoweiduizhangfudeyizhongchengfashouduan，zhangfuduizijiyoudianbuman，yejiushishuo，tabuhuihezhangfuguofuqishenghuo。nizhidao，houguoshijiqiyanzhongde！fuqitongzhuyigefangjianshitamendeyiwu，fuqishenghuoyeshizhangfudetequan。danfangmiansiyijiantafuqiganqingdexingweizuizhonghuishanghaiziji！