夫妻相处十大戒，真爱永恒

 fuqixiangchuxuyaohuxiangzunzhong，zhenaijiuzheimenanma？qishizhenaijiuzheimenanshijiade，zhiyaojizhufuqixiangchushidajie，keyizuodaozhenaiyongheng。

一、夫妻相处十大戒，真爱永恒

1、jie:zaiwairenmianqianzhengchao

 fuqizaishenghuozhongnanmiankekepengpeng，danyaozhuyi，buzaidatingguangzhongmianqianzhengchao。youxiewentizaizhongrenmianqianzhengchao，budanbunengjiejue，fanerhuihuoshangjiaoyou。shuangfangdouyaomianzi，zaizhongrenmianqianzhengchao，kendingbuganshiruo，wangwangdaozhizuizhongdejumiannanyishoushi。

 suoyi，haofuqimenyaojizhu：zaipengyouhejiarenmianqian，yaojiairenliuzumianzi。niduiairendetaidu，juedinglebierenduita(ta)dezunzhongchengdu。ruguonibuzaihuta(ta)，bierenjiuhuikanqingta(ta)。suhuashuo“yigebazhangpaibuxiang”。yaobicirencuo，bicikuanshu。

2、jie:zaiernvmianqianzhengchao

 chaojiashixubijizinv，haizishiwugude。fuqichaojiashiliangrendeshi。rangzinvkanjianfumuchaojia，qingzezaiyouxiaodexinlingliliuxiayinying，zhongzeyingxiangxuexishenzhizhangdayihouduihunyindetaidu。fumudeguanxishiernvanquanganzhisuozai，shirenhewuzhishenghuosuobunengqudaide，ruguohaizizaijialibunengxiangshoudaoaideqifenheganjue，fumudexingweijiuzaibuzhibujuezhongshanghailexiayidai。

suoyi，haofuqimenyaojihaizizuobangyang。

3、jie:zaiduifangshengbingshizhengchao

 chaojiayeyouyidingdeshijianxing。ruguoduifangzhengzaishengbing，ruguoduifangqingxuzhengdiluo，ruguoduifangzhengchuzaigongzuobushundenijingzhong，ruguozaizheixieqingkuangxiazhengchao，zhihuijiashenfuqijiandemaodun。

suoyi，haofuqiaiduifangqishijiushiaiziji，zheiyangcainengzhenaiyongheng。

4、jie:fanduifangdejiuzhang

 youxiefuqichaojiaxihuanfanduifangdejiuzhang，biruduifangyiqianfanguodecuowu，huozheduifangyiqiandelianren，zheiyanghuizengjiachaojiadejiliechengdu，daozhimaodunyuelaiyueshen。zheiyeshifuqichaojiazuiyumeidexingwei。yimashiyima，bunengyichaojia，jiubachenzhimalanguzidoudouluochulai。benlaiweiyidianxiaoshi，jieguoyuechaoyuefuza。

suoyi，guoqudeshiqingjiurangtachengweilishi，buyaozhongti。haofuqimenyaoxuexibaorong、aihu、titieherangbu。

5、jie:chaojiashiyangjiduifangfumuhejiaren

 fuqichaojiashibuyaoyangjiduifangfumuhejiaren。chaojiabunengxianghuruma，gengbunengleijishuangfanglaoren。rumaduifangjiarenzuiweiyanzhong，jueduiyaojiediao。zunzhongpeioudejiaren，jiangxinbixin，tongdengzunzhongshuangfangdefumu，aiwuzhisuoaizhiai。nizhenxinduidaiduifangdeqinren,tahuicongxinliganjini,huigengaini。

 suoyi，fuqijianchaojiashichangyoudeshi，buyaotaifangzaixinshang，yebubirangfumuzhidao，duoyixiegoutonghelijie，rizihaizhang，shengqishiduoxiangxiangduifangdehao，zheiyangcainengzhenaiyongheng。

6、jie:chaojiashizadongxi

 chaojiashibuyaoluanzadongxi，chaojiabenlaishengyinjiugao，zaipeishangqiwudesuiliesheng，zheiyetaixijule，huichaodaolinju，hehuaihaizi。hekuangshuaisuidedoushizijideqian，neiyidilangjiehaidezijidasao，youlibuzaishenggao，chaojiashiyeyaojiangfengdu。shizairenbuzhujiushuaishuaizhentou，biezaicierdepengzhuangshengli，rangliangkeaizhedexinyegenzhefenshensuigu。

suoyi，fuqiouqishiyibashuangrenjian，haofuqihebifeiyaozhenggaodi，tuiyibuhaikuotiankong。

7、jie:shuoshanghaiduifangdehua

 chaojiashijingchangkoubuzeyan，yechanghuinazijideqizi/zhangfuhebierendeduibi，nikanbierendezhangfuduonenggan，nini，kezhenshigewonangfei!nikanrenjiadeqiziduoxianhui，ninishenmedoubuxing!zheixiehuazhihuicuihuiduifangdezixinxin。

suoyi，haofuqi，jujueshanghai!

8、戒:以死相胁

 youxiefuqichaojia，dongbudongjiushuo“si”。“wohuozhehaiyoushenmeyisi?”，“wobuxianghuole!”，“wosijinikan!”dengdeng，yi“si”laiweixieduifang。zheishihenyuchundezuofa。

suoyi，haofuqibuyaoshuozheiyangduqidehua。

9、戒:动手打人

 chaojiashiqianwanyaoguanhaozijideshou，jibianshizaiqitoushangyeyaoyouzuiqimadekongzhili，yigebazhangshangqu，yexudadiaodeshiduoniandeenqing，dailaideshishuangfangdebukan。dongshouchujideshipirou，shangdequeshixinling，piroushanghaozhi，xinshangdeliehenquenanyimibu。

suoyi，haofuqiyaolaoji：chongdongshimogui!

10、戒:轻言离婚

 lianggerenzoudaoyiqizuchengjiatingburongyi，“lihun”lianggezibuyaoqingyishuochukou。youqizaizhengchaodeshihoushuolihun，youyuchongdong，nanmianhuizuochucuowudexuanze，rangzijihouhuiyisheng。“lihun”shifeichangmingandeci，qinglvditijizheixiecishihenweixiande，henrongyisiliefuqijiandeganqingniudai，jihuajiatingmaodun。

 suoyi，haofuqi，yaozhidao：fuqibuzaishilianggeren，ershiyigezhengti，buyaoqingyishuofangqi，jizhufuqixiangchushidajie，zhenaiyongheng。