怎么说话招人喜欢：交友之道中说话的艺术是什么

 rangnvshengxiaoshiyutaqudelianxidehaofangshi 。jiarutaxiaozhe，jiunenglejietawandehengaoxing!dangnibuquedingxingzenmerangnvshengmenxiao，bubidanyou，jinixuduotiaoxuan。zenmeshuohuazhaorenxihuan?jiaoyouzhidaozhongshuohuadeyishushishenme?ruhe ☞tuodan ？

一、怎么说话招人喜欢：交友之道中说话的艺术是什么

1.不必赞美女人

zenmeshuohuazhaorenxihuan?jiaoyouzhidaozhongshuohuadeyishushishenme?

 ruguonikuadaqiciyigenvren，jiuhuipulunidebixugan，meishenmenenggounulihejiaoao，nijinjingenyigenvhaiwenhao，wobulejieta，tabulejieni，nilaiquyueta，shuotadepiaoliang，yibianzanyangtadegexingtezheng，tahuixiang：dangnishangqu，ninengzanyangwo，shibushiyoumudi，nishibushijiandaowopiaoliang，yinciyincijinjinchongdongdeposhi。nijianyigeaiyigema?

2.刺激性另一方的回应心愿

 yigepiaoliangnvhai，yitianzuishaoyaoshoudao30-50geshuxinanhaizijitaqunfaxinxiyiyangdekaichangci，ru：haininhao。meibanfagulinvshengdehuifuxinyuan。yinciyingyongwosuowenguodediquhediqude“tianmimi”gequgecizhiyi。tanenggouyishunjiandiaozhuannvshengdexintai，

3.展现自身框架结构

 zenmeshuohuazhaorenxihuan?jiaoyouzhidaozhongshuohuadeyishushishenme?dangyigenvrengenrenmenxianliaoshi，tayizhishuoyixiefengbishidewupin，renmenbukeyiqianyihuatitaolun，renmenyaolianluoqianhouwen，bubizhongxinqidonghuatitaolun。nvrenyouyubukeyishuohuaerfangannanren。wuxianzhongxinqidongzhutifengge。

 nvshengshuo：wobutiaonvsheng?piaoliangrutongyiduoyun。zheiyinvshengdeyujudeyanwaizhiyishi：renmenfazhanyoudianerkuai，nishangqushihoulaiyaowo，renmenxianghubulejie。wobuxuanzeyigenvren，kanyige，yige?nibingbushiyigeaiyigerendecanzha。yiner，nvrenguanzhutamenshibushixiangyuninyouhui。taguanzhudeshi，nisuibianma?nanren。

 yiner，nidehuiyingbujinshigaozhiyigenvren，nibingbushiyigesuiyideren，bingqieniwubijizijibianjiebinggaozhitaniweiheneimekuaijiuyaoyueta。zheiyouyuninengxianbianchengpenyou，ninengjieshipenyoubinglianluoni，kanyixianishibushinenggoushuohua。niwubigenjunidehuagaozhitaniyeshiyigeguifanderen。jinizishenxiaidenvshengdeguifan。bingbushinvrenjiuzheiyang。

 xianliaodeguanjiandedifangbingbushizenmeshuohua，zhishiyaotixianchuniyeshiyigeyoushiyongjiazhide，guifande，pingwenderen。zheizhongnanrenshinvrenzuiaide。jiandaoyigebuxihuanguifandenanrenshinvrenzuifangande。

4.懂得推拉门，没有响应推拉门

 biru，yunvshengtaolunhuatitaolundegaokuanbi，nvshengshuo：shibushibixutiaoxuanyigehaonvrenlaixianghupeiheni。nvshuozheihuaduinieryanshiyigemolian，shiyigequantao。

 mudishicujinnuoruo，cujinnanhaier，tahuizanyangzishen，suihoudangniyunxu：niyeshihaolaopo，nijiuhuifaxianzhihou，jibiannizanmeinvrenshichusede，nilaitaohaota。tazuizhongmeigenniyizhizaiyiqi。dantashuo：buguanzenyang，tabuxiangwo。

 zenmeshuohuazhaorenxihuan?jiaoyouzhidaozhongshuohuadeyishushishenme?nvrenshifenshanyutuilamennanren。xianrangniqidai，suihourangnidaoyibeiliangshui，yinciyingduineiyangdenanti，renmenbukeyilijibaoluziji，zhishiyaojiangchurenmenzishendeguifan。yixiaohaiyiyangdefangfashuohuabudannenggoushixianliaogengweiqingxubuwending，keyipoyinvshidemolian。

nvshengxiantianxingjiushishuoyigetuilamenshidashi，zuishiqingshi“xianrangniqidai，suihoujinibubi”，biru：

 nvshengchangchangduiyigenanhaishuo：wojinqikanguoyigebao，woshifenxiai，nanhaierhuijuedezheijueduijiushiwonvshengdeyigeanshizhe，womailaizheiyibao，zengjita，huodeletadexiezhu，tayingdanghewozaiyiqi，tashitabangwodejiyu。

 suihouzaixuangoubaohou，nvshengyaoshuo：wa，woxiangbudaoniweiwomaizheiyibao，niyeshizheibanwennuan。jiarutashuo：jiranwohenwennuan，woliangkeyizaiyiqima?nvshengyaoshuo：ng〜nizennengneiyangzuo，woyizhijiangnishizuodixiong，nifankun。wofahuole〜!

 anzizhongdenvshengshishishangshiyiyangde。wohenchengzannidechuse。wokeyigaosudajia：yunipimeishifouyigehaonvren?rangniyizhongninenghuodetadejuede。suihoulakaitashuo：renmenbuyi。

dangtalakainishi，bubijigongjinli。fanguolai，taxiangbaituotadeqidai，bianchengtaxueyededixiong。

5.懂得掌握女生的内心，提高修养

 zenmeshuohuazhaorenxihuan?jiaoyouzhidaozhongshuohuadeyishushishenme?yiqudechenggonggenjunvshengpobingzhilvdediyijieduan，suihouzaiciyunvshengqudelianxigan，tishengguishugan，jinertishengguanlian，yiqudechenggongyaoyuenvshengwaichu。

 “nvshengyizhishuowobumingbaita，wogaizenmezuo?”xiangxindabufendixiongdouyiyangxinji。renmenbixudeshixunzhaonantidezhongyaobingchulita。nijuedeyihuodeyuangushiwobulejienvrendeniantou。buguannishibushizaixianliao，nidoumeifadechutayuanyidejuede。jiaruniyaoneiyangzuo，niwubilejienvrenzaiyujushenhoudeyanwaizhiyi!neijiushiyizhongmingxiandeshehuifazhanpanduanli!

 shehuifazhanpanduanlidegaijinbingbushiaijinluanmadejieguo。fanguolai，wokeyimeirixiangnibiaoshuyigezhenzhengdexianliaoshili。meiyishilijiangyicipouxiyigeyingyudanci。ninnenggouzaishitianneijiandaoyitianshitian。yigeyuehou，ninengbianchengyigedongnvrendenanren。yinweizhenzhengxintaidegaijin，worangniyigezhenzhengdeyishizhuxingziranhuanjing，ziranhuanjingjueceluojisiwei，luojisiweijuecegerenxingwei。

 shisharangyigenvrenqueshihengaoxingdebingbushinimailaishiduoshao，tajileshiduoshaolipin。fasongdaoleshiduoshaogedahongbao。zheiyouyuniqueshizhangwotadeguannian，nenggoujitayigewanmeinanyoudeqinshenjingli。