朋友情谊淡化，从无话不谈到无话可谈之间到底经历了什么？

 pengyoujiandeyouyibiandanshizenmekaishide？nimenshifouyouganshoudaosuizheshijiannianlingdezengzhang，zhiqiandexiaoxue，chuzhong，gaozhongdepengyoumenzaijianjiandeyuanli，ganjuetamensihuyaochengleguokedecunzai。youshihoujishishiyoutongxuejuhui，quleyeshimeishenmehuakeshuode，ganjuezijihaoxianggegeburu，meishahuakeshuole。zheiyeshizhengchangde，bijingmeigerendouyoumeigerendeshenghuo，xuanzelebutongdaoluderenyoulelingwaidehuati，ruguobushiyizhihenyaohaode，yizhiyouhuashuode，jibendoushiliaoyixiewuguantongyangdehuatibale。neime，niyouxiangguocongwuhuabutandaowuhuaketanzhijiandaodijinglileshenmema？

 xiangguanfazhan，xiangguanzhenqing，xiangguan youyi ，youguanaiqing，shizhongshimeifajiangjiedemi。congwuhuabushuodaowuhuaketanyibianchengshijianchangtaihua。

 ershirenweimeiyoushashishizishenzuobudaode，zhangdayihoucaifajue，xuduoshinidoushushouwuce。niqinyankandaoletadechansheng，quefalizulan，zuizhonghuoshishujishiji，quehanzhuanguoshen。

 yuanxiaoguaijiaode“lansekuangxiang”yihenjiuweiqu，tashiyigelangmandedifang，yigechongchizhezhuiyidediqu，yeshiyigequehanzongshengdediqu。meiyicifangshi，yizhibuzhibujuehuiguotou，changshicongzheidangzhongxunzhaolejiedejiemian。kaochuanghuneiyigebuwei，zaoyiyongyouguke，tamenlingjulizuoxialai，hezhenaicha，youhuishoudexiao，youxiwangxiangchuanghuwaimian，suihouzhuanguoshendejiliao，duomedexiangcengjingdewomen。

 huranyizhenkuweiyongshangxintou，yiqianneiyigeyuwokankanertanderen，zaoyihaojiumeiyoupengmianle，cengjingdewomenyeshizuodaotongyangdebuwei，yuzhimochabingqilinhecaomeinaichashirenmendezuixihuan，dajiahuanxiangguoyiqikaiyijianaichadian，kexueyanjiuguishuyudajiadedumenpeifang。womenyiqitanguolixiang，xiangxiangguojianglai，dajiayeyiqianhuozhideyiman，duiyiqiemanhuaixiwanghuomangrandaoshouzuwucuo。pengyoujiandeyouyibiandanshizenmekaishide？

 dajiafuwuchengnuoguobicizhijian：dengdajianianjidale，huoshiyaozaicihenaichapuliquanxindenaicha，yiqizhuiyinianqingshixiaideouxianghehuanxiangguodequanbuxingfu。dangbeishijijibaishi，huranfanranxingwu：chengnuozheileiwupinmeifakaoliangjianqiangbuqu，yebukeyipanduanduicuo，tazhiyouzhengshi，zaishuochulaideneiyike，bicizhijianyiqianzhenxinshiyiguo。

 shubuzhi，quehandeshi，dajiarujinweiyidelianxibianshitangzaibicizhijianqq，shoujiweixindemululi，kaiqitishikuang，jiandaodezuizhongyijuhuashi，haozhangshijianqiandeyiju“ganxie”，congheshizhujian，dajiahuiduibicizhijianshuo“ganxie”le，youshiyishenmeshijianzhujian，dajiacongwuhuabushuobianweilewuhuahaotan？

 rujinguanyutadexinxi，quanshiyi“tingwen”kaishilaimiaoshule。budebushuo，ruguonihuranyishidao，dajiaqueshishengshule，queshihuibudaoguoqu，mianbuleyouyidianshiwangheshangxin。

 wohuanxiangguowushudajiazaijianmiandeqingjing，huanxiangguodajiayaoshuoderenhehua，quexiangbudaodangzhenzhenzhengzhengzaihuishi，dajiayiruxiangqiandexinyoulingxi，quanshiketaodexiangshiyixiao，suihouxuanzelikai。huoxuzhangdayihou，dajiazongshihuixuebuyiyangdekecheng，zoubuyiyangdelu，pengdaobuyiyangderen，dajiayagenyufangbushangfenxiangerxingdeyunshi。

 pengyoujiandeyouyibiandanshizenmekaishide？zhihou，manmandikantoulerenhedebugaoerbieheyuxingyuyuan，xiguansuoyourendehuranliquhehuranshengshu。congwuhuabushuodaowuhuaketanzhishiyigequanguocheng，yongjinliquaixizheixiewuhuabushuodesuiyue，duiyujieguo，suiyueran，jiaruzhongjiushiwuhuaketan，neiyihoudezhanglumanman，woyuanyitaxiaolidoushihuoda，yanzhongdaishangguang，xiguanxingquanbudeyuelaiyueyuan，jinjinrichang……

 congwuhuabutandaowuhuaketan，zhiqiandepengyoujianjiandewuhuakeshuo，qishishichangtai，danyenanmianyoushihuijuedeluomo，xiangxiangnimenzhiqiankuaile，wuhuabutandeshiguangdaoxianzaiwuhuaketandeganga。renshenghuoxujiushizheiyangba，yourenjinlaiyourenjiuhuichuqu，bushimeiyigerendounengzainideshijieyongyuandedouliu，dajiadouyougezideshenghuo，ouerzhijiannengyouxielianxiyeshikeyidele，duiyuyixiezhongjiushiliubuzhudepengyouyebubitaiguoyuqiangqiu，kankaidianyeshitinghaode。