人与人之间的相处为什么这么难？

 renyurenzhijiande xiangchu weishenmezheimenan？yinweidajiadoushiliyigongtongti，renzhiyouzaiganjuedaozijizhuanlecaihuizuochugoumaixingwei，tongyangde，zhiyoudangbierenjuedeniduitayouyong，suoyicaihuijiejinni。dangran，zheigeyouyongshiyigehenguangyidegainian，keyishinidexingge，jiating，chengji，huozhetongguoniqujiechulingyigeren，dengdengduitarenyouyidefangmian，dangyouyitian，tazhaodaolebinigengyouxiuderen，huozhenishenshangyimeiyoutadeliyidiandeshihou，dajiajiuhuiyiganqingbiandanle，meiyoudangchudeganjueledengdengweiyoujianjianshuyuan。

 dajiadoushuozuichunzhendeganqingshizaixueshengshidai，weishenme？yinweineishidajiahuxiangwenwenti、xuexi、ninengmanzutadepeibanxuqiu，lianxixuqiudeng，huixiangyixianidehaopengyoushibushidoubangguoni，huozhezuoguorangnigandongdeshi。yinci，yaoxiangrenyurenzhijiandexiangchubunan，nandeshiniruhemanzutadexuqiu，yejiushiwomenshuodexishengjingshen，womenjiaopengyoubingbushishuoniyaodedaohenduodeai，ershishuoniyouhenduoai，nizijidouzhuangbuxiale，xuyaofenjibierenyidian，danshirujinxuduorendoushimingmingzijiyijingshimandele，haikewangcongbierenneilisuoqu。

 meigerendoushiyigebutongdegeti，nibukenengwanquanlejieduifangdexiangfa，sikaowentidetujing，erzheidouyunibutong，jiuzaochengleniyuduifangrenzhishangdechaju，nimenjiuchuzaileshiwudebutongjiaoduguanchawenti。

一、人与人之间的相处方法

 1、renleizuiguanxindeshiziji，douxihuanjiangshuziji，xihuanyiziwoweizhongxin。ruguonixiangzuoyigeshouhuanyingderenjiuyaoxuehuiqingting。

 2、renleidoushilixiangzhuyizhe，douyuanyiweizijizuodeshizhaogedongtingdeliyou。suoyiwomenxiangyaogaibianmouyigerenjiuyaojifatagaoguidedongji。

3、buyaohetarenzhenglunbuxiu，zaizhenglunzhongsheidouwufaying。zhihuirangshuangfanggengjiajianchizijideyijian。

4、renyurenzhijiandexiangchuruguocuole，jiugancuichengrenzijidecuowu。

 5、yongxiaorongquzhengfushijie，yigerendeweixiaoyuanbitadechuanzhegengjiazhongyao，miandaixiaorongjiushixiangbierenchuanda：“nirangwokuaile，woxihuanyunixiangchu。”

6、renleizuiguanxindeshiziji，suoyiwomenyaoqutanlunbierenganxingqudehuati。

7、ruguoninengjizhuyigemoshengrendemingzijiuhaobijitaleyigeqiaomiaodezanmei。

 8、renrendouxuyaozunzhong，yaoquzunzhongbieren。meigerendourenweizijifeichangchuse，niyaorangtakuailejiuyaorangtazhidaotahenzhongyao。

9、renyurenzhijiandexiangchushi，duibierenbiaoxianchuzhenzhengdeguanxin，keyiwennuanbierendexin。