学会这些异性交往套路 成为恋爱达人

 shehuizhongdaduoshuderendoushiyixinglian，yixinglianshibeizhongrensuojieshoude，ertongxinglianzeyoudabanrenbunenglijie，dansuizheshidaidebianhua，tongxinglianyezhujianbeirenjieshou。suiranyixingjiaowanghenpingchang，danxuduorenhaibudongyixingjiaoyougairuhe。

一、异性交往套路

1、你关怀环境

 youfenyanjiuzhichu，xiaigoumaiduihuanjingyoushanshangpindenanxinghuonvren，jirenchenwen、qiegengqingxiangshulizhangshijiananwenaiqinglianxideganjue。

2、kongzhijuli，huyuanhujin

 zheitingqilaihenlaopai，dan2014nianyifenyantaodedaodechengguoqueshixianxian，nanxingbijiaorezhongneixienanxunqiudenvren。danzheizhishiyongyutedingqingkuang。

 bifangshuo，nanxingyoubiyaoxianzidongduiyimingnvrenyouhaogan。zheigeyantaoyijiejiaohuodongjisuyuehuifangfajinxing，dangnanxingzidongchujishi，jiaojiandanbeibaichugaozitai、nandidangdenvrenzhaoyin。danjiarushisuijipeidui，erfeiyounanxingzijitiaoxuanyusheiyuehui，neimenvrenhaobuhaozhuijiumeiyoutaidabutong。

3、脸部表情很重要

 youfenyanjiubiaoming，rangshoushizhekanyixingdexiangpian，bingyaotamenliechuyingzhongrendemeilichengdu。chengguofaxian，nanxingjuedekanqilaigaoxingdenvrenbijiaozhaoyinren。ernvrenzeyiweizhuaizhuaidenanxing，bijiaozhaoyinren。

4、dangbierenhaibunengduandingnixinyideshihou

youfenbaodaobiaoming，dangbierenhaibuzhidaonixibuxiaiduifangshi，nitebieyouzhaoyinli。

5、jiarunizhangdehenxiangtadexianrenhuoshangyirennannvpengyou

zanmenjingchanghuishuo，butongderenhuiyouzijitebiepianhaode「cai」，eryantaofaxian，nvshengtebiehuiyouzijipianhaodeleixing。

 youyanjiubiaoming，liangxingshoushizhekandaoxiangpianzhongderen，yuzijixianrenhuoshangyirennannvpengyouzhangdehenxiangshi，tongchanghuijuedeyingzhongrenbijiaoyouzhaoyinli。qijian，nvshengtebiexianzhe。

6、手势多

 xiangyaozhaoyinbierenliuyi，niyoubiyaoxianrangbierenkandaoni，erduoyidianshoubudongzuo，shiyizhongfangfa。yantaorenyuandiaochajisuyuehuizhongdenannv，bingfaxianxuduocanyuzhebiaomingqiwangzaihuimiandeduixiangyougegongtongdian：shoubudongzuobijiaoduo。xiangduilaishuo，jisuyuehuipeiduishi，zuodezhitingting、butaidongderen，zebijiaoshaozaibeitiqi。

7、nihuiduifangdehua，duifangyehuiyingni

 huashengdundaxuexinsixuejiagudeman(john gottman)julishuo，jiaruxiainiaoleideqizizhenfenditongzhilaogong，youzhijinsiquefeidaolinjindeshushaoshang。zheishilaogongkenenghuiyouliangzhongfanxiang，yishibaichuyifu「neiyouzenyang」deqingxu，ershigenzhetaitaiyitongzhenfen。

 《daxiyangyuekan》(the atlantic)baodaozhichu，gudemanyantaoxianxian，polengshuideqingxu，you33%jilvdaozhifuqizaijiehun6nianhoulihun。ershidangshijiannei，huiyingduifangqingxudeqingxu，zeyou87%dejilv，rangliangbianchixuzouzaiyitong。