想女孩爱上你，先要聊天吸引她，三个男生跟女孩子聊天的套路

 yizhiyouxierenhuiwenwo，shifouyouneileixiangguantanlianaideketangjiaoxue，jiaoyijiaonanhaiziyouguanyongxianliaolailiaomeidegongzuojingyan。neima，niyaozaiciwangxiakan，fulilibaolikesongzhi。nixuyaoxiangliaomei，zuixiandexunzhaoshihedehuatitaolunnenggouzaochengtadexingquaihao，tacaihenyoukenengzaicigenniliaoxialai。jinyouchongzuzhangwodaonvshengduinideniantou，fouzetabutaikenengxiangyaolicainide。nanshenggennvhaiziliaotiandetaoluyounaxie？duimeizhiyidingruguoyoushandexintai，yongzishenzhenxinshiyiquhuhuantadeduinideai，zuihaoshinenggouchanshengdajiazhongjiandeqinggangongming。xiamianjidahuoerxiangxijieshaosanzhao，shinigenjuxianliaozhualaomeizhidexin。zenmegennvshengliaotian？

1.聊一聊你心灵深处的密秘

 nanshenggennvhaiziliaotiandetaoluyounaxie？xiangrangnvshengxinlaini，niyejiuwubiwusifengxianchuzishenxinlingshenchudemimi。ruguonibabuyuanyigaozhibierendeshiergaozhitadehua，tahuijuedetazainidexinlishishifenguanjiande。tahaowuyiwenhuiyouxianxuanzekaolvdaonishibushinenggouzuoweitadenanyou。jiaruniyizhizaitayanqianzhuyaobiaoxiandeshifenchengzhidehua，ninengkaiqitadexinxian，tayehuiduinishuotazishendemimi。dangdajiahuhuanfenbiemimideqingkuangxia，dajiadexinlibianhuichanshengmingxiandegongmingdian。yincidajiajiuhuiyoujiyujinyibufazhanqushixianghuzhijiandeguanlian，youyiyujianglaideqingganmaixiang。

2.聊一聊女生了解的话题讨论

 zenmegennvshengliaotian？yaoxiangkaiqinvshengdefangbianzhimen，niwubiyaolejietasuolejiedeshiqing，tacaihuichuxiandaliangdehuaxiangnibiaolu。yuefanengdiaoqilainvshengshiyudehuatitaolun，yuefadajiaguanlianfazhanqushidegongluqiaoliang，nanshenggennvhaiziliaotiandetaoluyounaxie？yincizhangwohaodajianengliaotianhuaticaisuanshizuizhongyaode。ruguonishiketidaotayouxingqudehuatitaolundeqingkuangxia，tahuiganjuenishigenuanxindenanhaier，keyihuiquzhangwota，weitakaolv。nvshengbudanhuiduininyouyouqidehaogandu，huoxuhuijinijiyu，shiniqinfenyixia。huoxuwuxujiubingqieyewuxushenmegushijiukeyidaitayiqizou。

3.聊一聊大家的整体规划

 nenggouxiancongzishendegongzuozhongzhujianshuoqi，rangnvshengxianjiandaoninyouyikezerenxin，fanyingchuzishendefazhanqianlishishifendade。nvshenghuilizaiyouqishijidenantilaikaolvdao，jiarunizhuyaobiaoxiandeyouqiwanshan，duijianglaiyouhenquelidezhengtiguihuadehua，tayidingduininenglingyankandaide。

 zenmegennvshengliaotian？xianliaobudanshiyimenshenaode"xueshuyanjiu"，yeshiyimenjingquede"kexueyanjiu"。danshiyidingyaobawonvshengdexinlizhuangtai，caikeyirangtaxinsuiwoyigerenzou。