背叛感情后，如何才能得到对方的原谅？情感背叛后如何修复

 tamenyouyuzishendeguoshi，jitarenchanshenglehenshendesunhai，tamenduiyucishixinhuaikuijiu，yexiangjiejinquanliqutianbu，keshi，wulunzishenruhezuo，lingyifangbianshibuyuanyuanliangzishen，naizhiguoduanlihunle，tamenbuqingchu，zenmecainenghuodetarendeyuanliang，wanliuganqing。qingganbeipanhouruhexiufu？

 jibenshangquanshiguanxinzaoshoubeipanderen，wenzhangneirongdezhiyinyeshixiangyaoxiezhuzheizhongtongkubukanderenkeyihuodebaituoshenzhixinshenger。jiarushuo，beipanganqingyihou，zhenxinshiyihuigai，keyixiubuganqing，yesuandeshangyigehaodejieguo，bianshixiegeineiyangderen，beipanganqinghou，zenyangzhengdehuodetarendeyuanliang。

最先，一定要以诚待人，体会另一方承担的痛楚和损害。

 jiejinsuonengxiangyixiang，jiaruzaoshoubeipanderenshizishen，zishenyouhuishinayangdeqingkuangheqingxuni？ziran，meiyoujingliguoderen，zairuheyichengdairen，yeshinanyishenyoutihuide——dan，zuishaonidelejielingyifang。

 zheigeshihou，zaoshoubeipandeta，yidingshiyouwentide，yehuichuxianyixiepianjidefanying——bubiganjuetacuicanni，yaobushiyouyuni，tabuyongchengdanzheimedadetongchu，tadoubuqiwangziyichengweineiyang，jiarunilianzheifenzhongtadefumianqingxudouchengshoubuzhu，niyouweiheyaotalaichengdannidebeipandailaitadetongchuhesunhaini。qingganbeipanhouruhexiufu？

次之，一定要表明承担的心态，并且这一承担，是重视别人的承担。

 zaoshouganqingbeipan，shiyizhongxitonghuadesunhai，bubijuedeziyijinjinchuncuidifanleyigeshenme“pingchangrendoushihuifandecuo”——tarenfanzaidadecuo，taburongyizaihu，danniyizhizaitaxinzhongzhong，kendingbingbushipingchangren。

 qianwanbieshuoxieshenme“zheisuanbushangduoshaodeshiqing”，neimeshuodehua，taimeirendebenxing。zheigeshihou，zuihaoshidexintai，bianshisanjuhua：

第一，对不起。

dier，wonenggailehetianbu。

disan，wozunjingzishenqingkuangle，buguannixuanzeshenme，wodoushijinliangmanzunideyaoqiu。

 chanshengbeipanyihou，youderenyiranhuoshimeiguanxidexintai，duobizishendeyiwu，jihaipajieshouxianshizishendenanti，youchengdanbushangtarendexintai，neiyangderen，shibutaikenengwanliuganqingde，youyubujuyouwanliudegongzuonengli。

disan，yidingyaoyichengxiangdai，zheigeshihoudeyichengxiangdai，zhenduijiejueshihounantiyouweizhongyao。

 beipanshiyizhongmengpian，dayuebeipanganqingderen，zaoyixiguanmengpianlingyifang，keshi，zaibeipanbeitarenlejiezhihou，yidingwufazaizaicimengpian，zheigeshihouwubiweichiyichengxiangdai，caiyoukenengwanliuyiduanguanlian；jishimeijiyuwanliule，zuishaoliangrenzhongjianhainengkaizhanyidingdegoutongjiaoliu，tuoshanchuzhishihoudenanti，bulunshiliangdifenjuhuoshiliyizheixie。

 zaoshouganqingbeipanyihoudeliangren，jibenshangshibutaikenengyouxiaodegoutongde，yizeshiyouyumeilexinlai，erzeshiyouyuxintaihenrongyiwufakongzhi，youxiaodegoutongdezhongyao，yiranzaishuangfang——jibeipanganqingderen，jiaruxintaichongzuyichengxiangdai，neima，denglingyifangxintaimanmanhuanhechulaizhihou，bicihuoshikeyikaizhanlianxide。

 yichengxiangdaishizhongsuxinlaidezhongyao，jiaruqueshibuxiwangliyi，queshihaixiangweizijiyigezuihoudexiwanglaiwanliu，neima，kendingwufazaishuanaxiexinyaner，zaicimengpianlingyifang，shucimengpiandeguanlian，shimeibanfaxiubude。

最终，要把决定权交到另一方，而且相互配合他人进行事后情况的解决。

 jiarubierendetiaoxuan，shiyaoxiangxiubuhefujianguanlian，neimazheixieguanliannengbunenghehao，guanjiandehexinzaibeipanzheyifang，yidingyaojiji，youqishishixia，nidegongzuotaiduhuiganraobingtuidonglingyifang。lingyifangxinlixianjieduanshixiaochen，wunai，zaodongbuan，xiaochende，niyejiudedanqizishengaifudeyiwu，bianchengguanlianxiubudejijizhe。

 jiarubierendexuanqushilihunle，zheigeshihouyexuyaozhongshilingyifang，bukeyiyouyubuyuanliyijiugezhonggeyangzuai，baohanshengsilijie，baohanyuyanbaolizheileide，liru“nilihunlebianshiduixiaohaibuchengdan；nineimeneimaxiaojiaziqi，zheiyidianshidoubukeyiyuanliang”zheilei。

 zheigeshihouniyuefazuai，changshiqushilingyifangbuliyi，lingyifangzhinenggengweidichuyanfanni，gengweiyaoxiangtaochuniyuzheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo。zuihoudejieguo，bujinhundeli，bingqienirendebenxingzhongzuiedeyimian，yejiangwanquanxianlujilingyifang，ranglingyifangyixiangdaoni，zheiyishengdoumanshiyanfanhedanzhanxinjing。

 jiaruzuihoulingyifanglixianghuatiaoxuanliyi，dahuoerhaohaodishangyi，zhuyaoshijiejuexiaohaizidenanti，zheigeshihou，shibushikeyijizijidebuzhengqueganyuchengdanzeren，shiduiniweirendezuizhongmolian。

 qingganbeipanhouruhexiufu？xuduoshier，shijishangbingmeiyoulingyifangbuyuanliang，zhishi，beipanganqingdehenduoren，yagenjiumeiyounaixinzhidaolingyifangdeyuanliang，huozhe，zishendexingwei，yagenjiubuzhiyuanliang。