主动跟你断联的男人是什么心理呢？断联多久男人会崩溃？

 fenshou，duandedaodishisha？duan，dayueshijiqinghejijizhudong，duanlianduojiukanchunanrenainini？jijiheqianxin，yongxinherenzhen。duanlianduojiunanrenhuibengkui？duanlianyiweizheshenme？shenmeshiduanlianni？weihenanrenhuizhudongduanlian？shishenmedaozhitamenxianghenvrenduanliandeni？duanlianduojiushihezhongxinlianxi？

fenshou，lianyoushisha？lian，dayuebianshizaiqianyishizhonglidexiangnian，diannian，guanzhu，tiexin，guanai，xintong。

 dangfenshoufashengzailianggerendejiaowanglishi，dajiahainengzenyangjunhengneineixindejinghuanghezaodongbuan？diyi，xianguofuzishendefubu，zainuligongzuo，quanmianzherichangshenghuohezhenqing，duiyuganqingma，biesheqiucaisuanshimingzhi；dier，xianfanshengziji，zaisikaotaren，qianwanbuyaobazheigecixunongcuoluanle，guoduorenxiaixiandiaochataren，zaifanshengziji，naizhiyagenmeiqusikao；disan，zhuiyilianggerendejiaowang，weilaizhanwanglianggerendejianglai，shibushihuichuxianjieguo？nengbunengyoujianglai？ruoliannidouganjuehaoxiao，yexufenshoushishubiding。

 duanlianduojiukanchunanrenainini？nvxingfenshouduoshinaopiqi，zhaodianyouyuegan，suoqudianchongniheguanai，keshinanshengfenshouni？yeshineimejianyiheqianboma？dayuebingbushi。

 nanrenshikeguande，jishidongxinyeyouyixielixing，dangtamenjijifenshoushi，youyixiesixujiudekaolvdaodao：diyi，lianaiguanbuchengshu，tabuxiaodetiaoxuannidaodiduima，huanjuhuashuoeryanbianshi，nihenyoukenengshitachengzhangdaolushangdelanluhu，yincitahuichiyi；dier，chidinglenideqingdong，kantoulenibuhuilikai，buguanruhecuicanni，haofeini，nidoubutaikenengxinhanheliqu；disan，mouqingdetichufenshou，jinkenengrangnifenlidezhudongquan，zheiyeshitashenshidezuizhongtimiandi。

aidaoshenchushifali，aidaojintoushimanzu。

jijigennifenshoudenansheng，yibanlaiyuanyuhaoduogesixu：

【01】恋爱观不成熟

 yibaneryan，lianaiguanbuchengshudeyuanguyouhenduo，zheihaoduogefeichangzhidedajiahaohaosikao：diyi，buqingchuzishenzuihoudeshenmeshixingfu，yihuiganjuegaoyanzhiderengengqiang，yihuiyouganjueboxueduocaideyouxiurencaizuihaoshi，guobushangduozhangshijianyouhuiyanxianxianshutiexinderen，yizhihuanlaihuanqu，xintaihebiaozhunbutaijiandingbuyi；dier，nimendeqingganzhujianyujianyi，yincibingmeiyouzailejiehezhangwodeqiantitiaojianxiashensishulvhetiaoxuan，yiqiedoushibulizhihoudejieguo；disan，gongzuohegongzuozhongbuwending，richangshenghuojiyidunbaoyidun，wendingmeiyouyiqiequebao。

youqingyuaiqingrichangshenghuowufaliangquanbaoxian，buguannanhaihenvhaiyebuchuwai。

 buchengshudelianaiguangengfeichangrongyixianxianchurichangshenghuodecaogaohezaluanwuzhang，lveweipengdaodianmaodunhefenqi，guandianbianhuifashengnuodongdezhengzhao，liru，caiyidangshiaidetailumang，chiyilezaicidexiangfa，buqingchuxiamianzenyangjiaowangheshouhouzheixie。

 aiqingshimeiliyoudeshier，keshidajiaruoyaozaicishouweilingyifang，zonggaixunzhaoyixieyuanyin，bingqiewubilaiziyulingyifang，shubuzhirichangshenghuohencanren，yehenwunai，ruobukeyiyishiwuyou，dayueaihuobuaidoubuhuizaiguanjian。

 dangnanrenjijifenshoushi，shiyoubajiushiyouyutadelianaiguanshangbunengkangqineixinshijiedejiandingbuyi，changchangzairichangshenghuodecuicanzhongkaishihuaiyirensheng，naeryeyouaidexiangfaheguji？tadouhaozhengyixiale，jijitaochunicaisuanshibennengfanying。

 rendouyouyixiezisidetianxing，jinjinyouxierenaideyexingqueshoulianxinglezisi，yeyouxierenaidetanranqueshifangchulailebense，danwulunnayizhongzhuangkuang，lianaiguanzongshinengcebianyinzhengzhefenshoudechanshengpinlv。

【02】吃定了你的情动

 zailianggerenjiaowangzhong，tazaojiukanqingnideqingdonghedongxin，qieyitouruweimeiti，yincitahuijuebeinigenggaihuoshijinitouru，yidannixiangtaanshizheminganhewunai，tabianhuiganjuenihenyoukenengbixutadeguanaihetengxi，jiqijutidetouru，neimatabianhuitaobini，huanjuhuashuo，tabuyuanjinitouru，doubuxinganqingyuanguanaihetengxi。

 zaitabuyongnideqingkuangxia，tahuibikaini，yidantaxiangyaoni，wulunnayifangmiandexuqiu，tadoujiangzaiciquyueni，qiedabufenyinuanxinqinghuaweimeijie，liru，gujini，wozhiaini，woyangnia，wozhendexuyao，woyizhidengnizheixie，xiangneiyangdenuanxinqinghuazhenduiyigezaojiuqingdongdenvxingeryan，xiangdangyuyourouguaduandebiding。

 guoduoyourouguaduanqieqingdongledenvxing，yagenchibuzhunanshengdehuayanqiaoyukongxi，lveweishuodianhaotinghua，tamenbianhuikuibuchengjun，jinbuzhuduinanshengweimingshicong，yagenbuhuizaijinjinjijiaotafenshoudeshier，yebuzaiyiyuanyinshishenme。

 danshi，dajiayingdanggaoqingchuyijianshi，yigerenzhixuzaiganqingzhongfashengguoyicichidingnidexingwei，daduoshudaibiaozhebawozhulenideruanzhu，wanghoumianderixiangzili，yidanlianggerenjiaowangpengdaonanti，haihuijixuyijiubanyong，nandeshaoyouchuwai。

 tazaifenshou，niyizhizaiguanzhe，tazaiduobi，niyizhizaikuanrong，tazaimanzuipaohuoche，nirengranshenxinbuyi，zheijiushinvxingshudefeichangcandeyuangu。

 jijifenshouqiezhihouyibidaiguozheijianshiqingdenansheng，yaobuchidingleni，yaobuyagenmeijiangnidangyihuishi，youyuqingdongduiyusuoyourendoushiyouyizhongbennengfanyingdeshebudehelianlianbushe。

【03】谋情的提出分手

 titichufenshouzheijianshiqing，younanshengshuochulai，mianbuleyouweishenshizhenshishenfen，yincidaliangdenanrenzaijuededaoganqingbukeyizaicideqingkuangxia，huoshifajuelianggerenbushihedezhuangkuangxia，huijijiweichifenshoudexiangchumoshi，meiyoucuo，zaitamenlaikan，fenshoubingbushiwuguan，zhishizheishiwushengshengyoushengdejiaowang。

 tamenqidainvxingkeyicongruoyouruowudejiaowangzhongqingkuangzhongfajuetadebumanyihekanbushang，yeqidainvxingkeyishiquyidianjijiliqu，huoshijijimingquetichutichufenshou，yebamianchuzerenyuzheiyifenqingganzhong。

 congkeguanxingshangeryan，nanshengdouqidaizishenduiyifenqingganmeishenmefujiuhekuijiu，jibiantaxianruguobuaile，yeyingdangjinkenengbaohutimiandihetongqing，huayixiaguanjian：tagengsuishihuanyingnengjieshouzheiyifenlianmin，erbushizaicifachuntadeqingyi。duanlianduojiunanrenhuibengkui？duanlianyiweizheshenme？shenmeshiduanlianni？weihenanrenhuizhudongduanlian？shishenmedaozhitamenxianghenvrenduanliandeni？duanlianduojiushihezhongxinlianxi？

 cikedefenshou，zaoyibianchenglenanrenduinvrendelianxiangxiyu，yezhishishidaoyishangdelianmin，genqingyiyidianguanlianyemeiyou，zengsongchutichufenshoudezhudaoquanshixiangrangnvxingzaiwanbishigengtimiandiyidian，zhongjiuzheijianshiqingzhongjiubixuwanbi，guanjianshizenyangtuodangdijiejue。

 yifenmouqingdetichufenshou，zainanshengdeshenshangduoshiyouzhengzhaode，qianwanbuyaosuiyiguanzhehuoshixiasi，dangtazaijiaowangzhongyizhigezhonggeyangfuyanleshihebaituodeqingkuangxia，niyejiugaizhuyile，tadexindayueqianyilezhenying，jiletarenyeweikezhi。

zhuyilibujizhongbingbushimoxuyoudezhuangkuang，zhishilingyouxingquaihao，quebuhuizaijiushini。

 duanlianduojiukanchunanrenainini？pengdaomouqingdetichufenshou，fenshoushijijiwanbizheiyifennankandejiaowang，caisuanshizuimingzhidexuanze，butuolataren，bubiequzishen，daoyuanfendezhongdian，haiburutimiandiyidianshisan，jizhuiyiyifenxiangxideyundongguiji。