离异和离婚的区别是什么？婚姻能有多幸福？

 liyihelihundequbieshishenme？xiaoleihehuxianshengjiehunsinianduo，zhujianqinggantebiehao。daoxianzaiquenaodaolihunledechengdule，xiaoleilaizixunshi，dadaokushui，shuozishenzhangfuzenmebuqinfen，ruherangtabumanyi，yifangxianglihunlingyifangbutongyizenmeban？richangshenghuodeyouduotongchu，duobushunxin。

taxushudeyixierichangshenghuoshiqingshineiyangde：

 liangrenchuqukandianying，hezhangfushangyipiaoliangnayigechangshu，nayigeyingpian。tatiaozuoweidoubutiaodehaoyidian，doukaobianbianjiaoerle。tajiangzhenshishishenxinpibei，ruheneimaben，banshiyebudongnaozide。

 liruchulaiyongcan，youshizishenbuqingchuchisha，taqianglietuijiandetongchangjunanyixiayan。tadounongbudongzishenhezheiyinanrenzenmeyizhidabushangbianer，shizhonggaobudongtazaixiangganshenme。neiyangdehunhoushenghuohenlei。

 youlirutajiangxiangchuguoliuxuewan，ketaderichenganpaiyizhipozhanbaichu，duijiedeluanqibazao，changchangzaifeijichangdenghaozhangshijian，yaobubianshihongyanhangban。zongzhiwanyitangyizhiyouyubumanyizaizhengchao。

 yifangxianglihunlingyifangbutongyizenmeban？taganjuezishenzhangfugongzuonenglihencha，shieryouzuobutaihao，haichangchangjibudetadeaihao，jiranzishenbuhao，jiuyingdangquandoutingtade。zirantarenkezishenzhizeqizhangfuyeshifenbujiangqingmian，batashuodaodeyijudoumeishangzui。tajiangtazongshiyouqiruanruowunenglianzhengchaodoushuobuchuyiliangjuhaodiandebianbai。

 tazhangfuweiyideyichubianshicongming，haopiqi，chukaizheiyidianyiwushichu。kejinqizhangfuyebuzhidaowushishenyao，chaozhelihunle，suichuhetaduizhegan，xingziyedadehen。

gaodezishenyitouwushui，taganjuetaneiyangyichang，yidingshiyongyouhunyinchugui，fouzezenmekenengduitazheibanbuzaiyi。

 zixunguwenzhengqueyindaota，youmeiyoushenmebiededeyichangma?liruxingzongbuding?qingxuhuranbianhao?huranhenzhongshichuanzhedaban?duishoujijiamidengzhaokandeyange?richangxiaofeiyouweizhikaizhi?

tajiangmeiyou，bianshixintaishangyuelaiyuebutaifeichangrongyicaozong，wuyuanwugudewojiangyijujiudongnu。

 zixunguwenshuo，shijishangnineiyangyizhijuebuzhuzhongjutifangfadezhizezhangfu，jitamendaozhidexinlifudanhenzhong。meiyigerendoutaoyanbeibierenzhishouhuajiao，genghekuang，taneimezuoquanshizaimanzunidebixu。lizudianhuanshiyiniweizhudao。

 keshiquanguochengshangyinweiliangrengoutongjiaoliudenanti，yizhibukeyizhishanzhimei，nideyizaizhizeyeshitacuobai，dajiawufadedaogerenxingweichanshengdeyichu，neimabuduandequdonglibianhuibugou。

 kandechulainihenkeke，yizhiqidailingyifangnenggouchediyizhaonideyixiangkaizhanjiejue，niyoubujitamenfangshi，rutongmigongyoushijigechurukou，keshinizhiqidaitacongmouyinitedingdekouchulai。

 tongchangdajiayaoyingduishierdebukekongxing，danniquehushigezhonggeyangbukekongxing，jimeifachuangjianyouxiaodexinlizhuangtaiyuguyoubuyuanyizishenxiashoujiejue。

jianyanzhi，nizijiyebuxiangquweidajiaderichangshenghuoshiqingchengdan，yizhibajiejuekunnanjiqijizhijiejuekunnandezhongrendiujita。

 yidanlingyifangmeiyouzuodaonidexinlizhuangtaifuwuzhiliang，niyejiumingmuzhangdandepingding，chize，jifeng，fengci。rensheiyemeifajienaairenneiyangdeyanlidaji。nengrendaoxianzaixingzishifeichanghaola。

fufuzaimoheqidequanguochengzhong，yidingyaomingbaiqidaigenggaibierenshibunengyongqiangshidefangshizhize，

neiyanghuihuihuaifuqiganqing。ziranyiweidechengzanhejili，yeshibulifuqiganqingde。

zhenduiyifangde“buzhengquehequexian”huanshiyaotichupipingde，buranjiuwufagaishan。

 zhenduizenyangzhizelingyifang，xinlixuezhuanjiafajueyong5:1dechengzanyuzhizebilikeyishifuqiganqingweichihuoyuexingshenxinjiankang，airenyezuirongyijieshou。

nvxingyidingyaomingjiyixiajigefangmian：

1.指责以前，先直言不讳自身的不正确。在指责另一方以前，先直言不讳自身的不正确，那样能够在心理状态上降低另一方的成见和防御力趋向，使他可以平心静气地接受批评而不容易造成争执。

 zaifufuzhengzhizhong，buguanyifangdejianjieshizenyangdeqiadang，shijishangshizhishangyemeifagenggailingyifangdeqingyi。zuihaoshidezuofashiyicebian，yongjiaoweirouhedexintaimingquetichuzishendejianyi。erqieyichengdairendegaozhilingyifang，zishenyefanguoxiangjindebuzhengque，jieguoshizenyangde，neilingyifangjienadegailvhuitisheng。

2.授予另一方个人行为崇高的主观因素。

 danglingyifangbeishouyuchonggaode“ai”dezhuguanyinsuyihou，zaiduitakaizhanzeguai，tongchanghuixiaoshihuale，dashihuaxiao。fufuzhengzhideguanjianyuangushibicimeiyouganjuedaoai，meiyouganshoudaobeizhongshi。jiaruxianhaowuyiwentadexingdongchuziyuai，jibianshihenyangedezeguai，tayekeyijiena。

tongchangxiankuajiangzaizhizeyehuiranglingyifangdexinlizhuangtaijieshouchengdutisheng。

3.在期待另一方愿意某事情以前，先找寻一些两个人类似的相同点。

 xinlixuezhuanjiafajue，zaifufugoutongjiaoliushi，yikaishijiujiangbicidebuyiyangjianyimingquetichulai，zheileizuofafeichangrongyiyinqiebiandezhengzhi。

 zuihaoshixiancongkanfayizhidenantizhujian，zheishihouzhanyoulingyifangxinlizhuangtaideshiyizhonghaowuyiwendesiweidingshi，xinlizhuangtaiyukuaidutigaotanengshilingyifangjiaoweifeichangrongyizhangwojijienaairendejianyi。

 liyihelihundequbieshishenme？yiweidepingdingchizebingbukeyifuyulingyifanggaishanheyuelaiyuehaodexinlinengliang，zongshirangguanlianyulaiyuebian。conghuideqizimingbaizenyang“shangfafenming”，ranglianggerendeguanliangenghemu。