我以为婚外情很‘刺激’，离异和离婚的区别是什么？

 liyihelihundequbieshishenme？helaogongguanlianbutaihao，zaoyijiangjinjigeyueduomeiyoufuqixingshenghuole。yifangxianglihunlingyifangbutongyizenmeban？tashuodaogongzuozhongmang，shuojiaojiduo，shijishang，tadexinzaoyimeiyouwoshenshangle。

 dajiarujinlianzhengchaodoubuxiangchaole，womingbaichaolaichaoqushuangfangdouburongyiyouyiqiedegenggai，haibibushanggeguogede，tugeyoujing。

 tapaiqiangongzuozhongyaodabannian，meiyigeyuehuijialiangsanci，lidedaoshihenjin，jinjinhuijiaxiazheteng，renyelei。jiushizheiyangdajiaguoqilelinshiliangdifenjuderichangshenghuo。

 xiaohaizirujinsisui，meirishangyouzhiyuan，kanjiantahuopokailangde，woshijishangyouqiyouchengjiugan。dajiadesankouzhijia，laishuohaisuanwennuan。jinguanwoduizhangfuduoyoubumanyi，dankanjianxiaohaifangfoyiqiedounengrenle。

 womendoushiyitisihu，linliguanxiyejichupengkanbudaode，fangfolinjudeyishihubeifangzule。yuanbenheyinweiwomeiyoushenmeguanlian，erwofaxiandamenkoudefeiqiwuyizhiyouxierenqingchu。wohenshiguaiyi，jiujingshisheijiwo，lingwaineixinyeganjueguoyibuqu。

 yitianzaoshang，woqidezao，bujingyiyudaolejiwodaolajideren。tashuodaoshixinzulinhu，shunbiande，weibozhilimeiyoushenme。wogentashuodaomeishierde，zijirengjiuxing，guaiguoyibuqu。

 yifangxianglihunlingyifangbutongyizenmeban？taqueshijianchibuxiejiwodaolaji，weilegenghaodibiaoshiganji，woduoganlechideyehuijitamensongyidian。youshizijidaishangleleyehenfeijing，xinliyeshiyousongtuode。

 tayouqizhaoliaoren，naxieyutiantishiwojinzaoquxuexiao。gankeyaohepibalu，zheileititieruweidejuedeyaowoshixian。womingbaizishenshiyoujiazhongderen，danshibizhaozhangfu，tabianshiyigemeiyoushenghuolequdenvqiangren。

 ganqingshangdequeshao，yaowoyagenmeiyouzhaojiazhili。qianbanbuken，wanyiyangdedanxinwohaishimaikaileneiyibu。worenweijinjinlinshide，wobuxianghuihuaiwodejiaren，yinweiwobukeyihuihuaileledekuailechengzhang。

liujianyeshiyoujiazhongderen，zhibuguoshixifuzaijiaxiang，tachuquyeshilinshide，dengtazaizheierpingwenlejiubaxifujiedaolai。

 hunwailianrutongyikeshiquandabuwan，lingrenhuranchongmanhuoli，liantianshangdouyuelaiyuechuxianyichangpiaoliang。woweizijidexianzhibianshibuweihaijiazhong，keganqingtongchangburongderen，niyuebuyuan，yuefahuimaixiangziwohuimiedelumian。

 taxifucongjiazhonghuilaikanta，zheixietianwohennanao。xiangxiangzhe，tabalingyigenvrenbaozaihuaizhong，hetarenqinqinwowoneileidujideqingxulingrenhenshangnao，worenweizishenwanquanshiqulizhile。

xinlizhishengyuwoxuyaotazhiguishuyuwoyigeren。

wojuedetishengjinzhi，woguanbuzhushehuidaodelijiao，wozhidianjizheheyanxiadezheigenanrenzhangqixialai。

taxifuguohou，wojiangxianghetazaiyiqi，woliyi，tayequliyi。

 tawangzhewochuxianyichangzhenjing，tashuodao：xiaowanilizhiyixie，bicidoushiyoujiazhong，dajiayiqianbingbushiyeshuoguoma，buhuihuailingyifangjiazhong。shijishangyinweiwobianshikanzheniyigerendaishangxiaohai，youshiyuxinheren，xiangzaisuoshishangbangzhuni。woshiburongyiliyide。

 erwobunengziba，juedeyiqieyemeiyoushijiyiyi，chufeishinenggouhetazaiyiqi。tashuodaoyaoyuwoduandiao，bukeyikanzhewoneiyangbukekongxing。

 tajinjitianzaoyizaizhuangbaoxinglixiangle，genbenbuliwo。wogaizenmezuo?womingbaibicizhijiangezhezhuduozuai，xiangzaiyiqigenbenbutaikeneng，kewojiushimeifaxuehuifangxiata。

 hunwailiandenanrenhemeinvsheibingbushimanhuaitantebuandexin，taruyiduanzhujiantianmei，quanguochengdanxin，xintaibuduanzuihoutongchuwangguodequanguocheng。hunwailian，shiyiketangyimanxingduyao，bingfeirenshengdaolusierfushengdebupin。

jiazhongshisha?shiyigedangfengzheyudehaigang，tajidajiaguishugan，buduankangyaqiangdudequdongli。

 ziranjiaoda deqiantitiaojianshi，dajiabixuguanshuzishendegerenxingwei，“tangwan”zaimeiwei，neiyeshimanxingduyao，richangshenghuozaipingpingdandanneiyeshiyizhongyuanyuanbujuedezirundajiaxingmingdebupin。

cuoba“manxingduyao”dang“bupin”，jieguozhiyouzishenchengdan。

 hunwailianzhongganqingdecuicanshiyizhongnenggousuishijianerxiaochudejieguo。danbijiaoyanzhongyoukenengzaocheng jiazhongliekai，zhimingdusunshang，xiaohaiduili，zheijiuqueshiyinxiaoshida。

weihenvrenbinanshenggengfeichangrongyizaihunwailianzhongmitu?

 nanshengdehunwailian，tongchangdaliangdeshejidaoxing，shejidaoreqing。ernvshigengfeichangrongyiyouyuganqingerhushilehunwailianyuanbendexiangmao，tamenrenweixingjiuyaoai。

shijishangjinyouzishenneiyangxianger，nanshengfendaoqingxi，xingbingbudengyuai。

yidanyishidaohunwailianhuichongjixingdaozishendejiazhongpingwen，tamentongchangnenggoujueranduanjuelaiwang。

 yincinvxing，qianwanbuyaoxinjihunnanrendehuangyan。yebiedanxintayouduoainidewenti，nanshengjiusuanduiniduoqing，dantamengenglindeqingnaxieduizishenzuiyouyi。

 hunyinhexingtamenfendehenqingxi，gengburongyiyouyuganqingdanaotouyunmuxuan，jinipaojiaqizi。chufeishinishiyigegengqiangdetiaoxuan，gengweinianqingpiaoliang，gengweizijinfengfu。

nixianjieduanzuihaoshidetiaoxuanshi，zhongguijiazhong。

 ziranzaizheiliduanqinei，ganqingshangdecuobaihuishinishouzuwucuo，zheiyiduanlu，wubiyaozishenkangzhu，yiqiedoushizishenqingkuangle，tishenggezhonggeyangqianzhi，nideweibuzhengquedanfuqiyiwu。

bubiguaiyouhuonideren，tabiaominglezishenjinjinyigecongcongguoke，jiushiniyaoxianglachetajindaozheigeshijie。

 liyihelihundequbieshishenme？ganwanbiedonghunwailian，chuchangshidetianmeiyezhegaibuletashiyijirangbierenpozisande“manxingduyao”。