老公出轨了该如何相处

　　laogongchuguilegairuhexiangchu，panbianshihunyinlizuijidejudong，yidanfashengpanbian，nengjifuqiliangrendouzaochengshanghai。neiyang，laogongyoulewaiyule，jingmingdelaopogaizenmezuoni?youyixiajidian：

　　diyizhaoguhaoziji，dierbubilengbaoli，disanhaohaofansi，disibubizhaoxingbanlv，diwuchazhaoyuanyin，diliuzhizhanglaogongdeqiancai，diqiguanxinbieren，dibabaorongta，dijiutigaoziji，dishiqugongpojia。

　　第一，照顾好自己

　　jishishilaogongchulegui，yexuyaozhaoguhaoziji，bubiyinweizheishiyanzhongyingxiangshenxinjiankang，niyinggaizhidao，jibiannishenshangchuxiannanti，tabuhuizaihuni，yinweitayijingbeipanleni，neixinkenengyijingbingmeiyounideweizhile。

　　第二，不必冷暴力

　　zheishihoububilengbaoli，youyuyuelengbaoli，fenqijiuhuiyuezhong，ninengzhudongquzhaotagoutongjiaoliu，lejietadexiangfa，jiarutaxiangyaolangzihuitou，niyejiuyuanliangyici，jiarutabuxiang，ninenghetalihun。

　　第三，好好反思

　　ninenghaohaofansizishen，nandaoshiyinweizishendeyuanyincaihuidaozhilaogongchulegui，yaozhenshizishendewenti，congjintiankaishijiuxuyaogaibianxianzhuang，zhengquranglaogonghehaoruchu。

　　第四，不必找性伴侣

　　zheishihouqianwanbiequzhaolaogongdelianren，yinweiyidandajiapengmian，huoxujiuhuidaqilaile，budanranglaogongzixunfannao，haihuirangnimendefenqijinyibujiashen，zheishihouyingdangrangtazijiquchuli。

　　第五，查找原因

　　laogongchuguilegairuhexiangchu，chazhaoyuanyin，zhaodaowentidebenzhisuoshu，jiaruyouyuzijitaiyaoqiang，duilaogongbingmeiyouguanhuaihetiexin，neiyangyidingyaoxiangbanfalaigaibian。ruguoyinweilaogongdezhuyaoyuanyin，jiurangtamenhaohaoxiangyixiang，jiujingshizaiciguorizihuoshiliyi。

　　第六，执掌老公的钱财

　　doujuedenanrenyouqianjiujiaohuai，ninengrangtanachuyinxingka，zhizhangtaqiancai，yidantameiqianle，jiubuhuizaiquzhaohunwainvrenle。

　　第七，关心别人

　　jinguantachuleguijiushitacuowu，danshibijingtashinilaogong，ninengduitaduoyixiedeguanhuaihetiexin，rangtaganshoudaonidewennuan，huoxutajiuhuilangzihuitou。

　　第八，包容他

　　jinguantazuochulezhendeduibuqinideshi，danzhiyaoninengyuanliang，weitayicijihui，bingqiehaiyaobaorongtacicidegerenxingwei，rangtaganjuedaoneijiu，yexutajiuhuihuidaonideshenbian。

　　第九，提高自己

　　jinliangrangzijibiandegengyouxiu，shitaduiniguamuxiangkan，yidantaganshoudaonidezhuanbian，jiuhuizaiciduiniyoushenmigan。

　　第十，去公婆家

　　neiniqubabamamazhuzaijiri，weilenengbugentafashengzhengzhi，qiahaoliyongzheiduanshijianshizijilengjingyixia，xiangqingchuzheiduanganqinggaibugaizaici。